Question Posted Tuesday September 14 2004, 1:02 pm
Theres this girl i really like thats in my class. The problem is my best friend likes her a lot too. He works with her so we both see each other a lot. I dont want to lose my best friend but i think she likes me more than she likes him. What should i do?
Riggzy answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 9:30 pm: Who do you care about more?
If it's your best friend, then you need to talk to him about it and the best option would be for neither of you to date her. Dating her will guarantee tension and eventually, resentment.
Tori_Dori answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:03 pm: Hey, first things first. Relationships with guys 'n girls..they come 'n go. However, your trust worthy friends 'n your best friends will stay by your side for the rest of your life. Don't ruin the "bond" between you 'n your friend.Talk to him. Don't get all pissed at him. Ask him if it's okay to like her also. If he gets pissed, he's not a good friend.Good Luck! Hope I helped.
-tori [ Tori_Dori's advice column | Ask Tori_Dori A Question ]
adore_diz_mami answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 3:45 pm: that happened to me.i likes this boy.and my friend liked him to..but i have realize dat it wasnt worth trippin over him..cuz friendship is more important.i had realize dat she liked him more.But there was nothin i can do cuz she would always talk bout him..but mean while i stop likin him..And now a days no1 likes him..So dont mess up no Friendship over nobody.keep it alive nd strong! [ adore_diz_mami's advice column | Ask adore_diz_mami A Question ]
sweetbabigurl answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 1:22 pm: My advice to u is to talk to him and tell him how u feel, if he's a good enough friend he will understand. He should also understand that u like her too, so there are two sides to this situation. Since you dont know for SURE that she like u more, u should wait for her to tell u how she feels, if she even has intimate feelings for either one of you...Ultimately this girl should not come between u and your bestfriends friendship with eachother. Remember relationships come and go but friends are FOREVER. xoxo [ sweetbabigurl's advice column | Ask sweetbabigurl A Question ]
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