Question Posted Tuesday September 14 2004, 1:04 pm
Theres this girl in my class. I really like her, but shes usually not the type i would go after. Shes really hyper all the time and always going after the "bad boys". She hangs around me a lot before class, and even has a pet name for me. She keeps asking me when am i going to take her out to go driving. Is she just being nice or does she really like me? I'm not the bad boy type, thats why this is puzzling me.
Go drive around with her. Don't act any different than usual. If you try to act like someone you're not, even the slightest bit, that's how she'll perceive you. If you try to act like a "bad boy" she'll ask you to do things like one.
It's nice to just to have a casual friend of the opposite sex. Someone you could put an arm around and watch a movie with and it would mean nothing. Those kinds of relationships are the ones you're going to remember. (Aside from that one where you went out with a psycho freak and you're reminded of it every time you look at your missing left toe so she could "always be with a part of you." *shudder*) [ K3587's advice column | Ask K3587 A Question ]
pimpettex answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 4:59 pm: Next time she asks u when your going for a drive just make up a day.. Just be like be ready on saturday and see wat she says. try to plan out diffrent options tho. Like if she just looks at u then laugh or if she says sure then make some plans! OK good luck i hope this helped. [ pimpettex's advice column | Ask pimpettex A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 3:09 pm: well i really don't know her so i cant give a solid yes or no. What I can tell you is that girls will be very suprising, and just because they normally goes after "bad boys" doesn't make a rule in her book that she cant go out with any other type of guy. Don't be doubtful. If she has a pet name for you sure there's a good chance in my mind she has a little crush on you. Why dont you ask her one day (if you dont think its too obvious) if she would ever go out with anyone besides a bad boy. From there, you can figure it out between you two, i think you guys have a reallly realllly good chance together.
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 2:54 pm: Well maybe she has a thing for you.. take her up on the offer and get to know here if yah like her. maybe she does like you!
FernGully answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 1:42 pm: If you like her - take her out. She seems to be interested in you. You've got nothing to lose by taking her out. If she tries to make you into a bad boy, suggesting things you might not otherwise consider - then dont do it. That means she just wishes you were a bad boy and is hoping she can mold you into something she really wants. Take her out, be completely yourself and if she is still interested, just accept it and be happy. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
sweetbabigurl answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 1:15 pm: Just becus she is after the "bad boy" type doesnt mean every guy she likes is going to fit into that category, girls are confusing sometimes, and my guess to u is that she's hinting that she either likes you or she just thinks u seem like a cool person to hangout with sometime. If shes also asking you when ur gonna take her out to go driving dont hold back..ask her!! she obviously likes u on some kind of level its just your job to figure out which one.. hope i helped...xoxo kara [ sweetbabigurl's advice column | Ask sweetbabigurl A Question ]
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