Question Posted Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:03 pm
ok, well i like my brothers friend.. lets call him... BOB, ok well BOB likes me too and we always talk and hang out and we've kissed and he sometimes gets all playful touchy but just like flirting and stuff and i wanna go out with him but hes afraid my brother will get insanely pissed off at him.. I talked to my brother and he was like "whatever.. hes cool so i dont care" so i was like, sweet. Well i dont wanna ask this guy out cus i just dont, im not scared or nething but i wanna talk to him about "us" but i dont know how.. i dont think this is making sense.. BUT ANYWAYS i dont know how to talk to him about it.. its reatrded cus i can usually go up to a guy and tell him i think hes hot or that i like him and stuff and they would be like "sweet" or something BUT i CANT with BOB... What would you do if you were in my situation?... I rate high..
Riggzy answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 10:23 pm: Oh, well.. Bob sounds like an alright sort. Just be honest with him- you're interested, but you want to know where he stands before you really make any moves. If he acts like a jackass, that's the end of BOB! Seriously, if he doesn't respect you during this possibly important conversation, he's not worth the bottom of your shoe. [ Riggzy's advice column | Ask Riggzy A Question ]
xOmAnDaH answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 6:33 pm: If i was in your situation I would talk to *bob* privatly..if you dont want to talk to him in person give him your number and tell him to call you whenever he is alone..Ask him what he thinks about going out? Then go from there..If you are too shy or something maybe your brother could talk to him? Whats to loose? I hope you and him work out..and hope I helped..good luck! rate me =)
PrEpPyPiNkMaDdY6877 answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 6:23 pm: hey confused!!!
well if you really like *BOB* talk to him about it. just go up to him and say hey!!! ask him if yall can talk in privite!! then flirt with him alot!!! he will get the idea...finally he will probably ask if you think your brother will get mad. say no and DONT TELL HIM YOU ASKED YOUR BRO..he might get mad!!!!!
maybe yall coulg go out in private and you dont have to tell anyone!!
Tori_Dori answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:16 pm: Well, you did the right thing to ask your brother about it. 'N even if you're nervous, go up to "BOB" and tell him. Tell him that your brother said that it was okay for you two to go out. *rate me for my advice, not for me just answering this question* Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
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HIMlovemetal325 answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:15 pm: Oh, I went out with my bro's friends lol. But yeah I would just try to get him alone sometime and start some conversation and then mention it and be like... "So what do you think about us?" Be confident. You've got nothing to lose anyway.
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sweetbabigurl answered Tuesday September 14 2004, 5:13 pm: i would talk to "bob" and tell him how u feel about him. mention to him that u talked to your brother and he said he's fine with it..see what happens with this..u never kno..hope i helped xox [ sweetbabigurl's advice column | Ask sweetbabigurl A Question ]
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