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Hi There! I'm Nicole, and I'm 23 years old. People tell me I give good advice, I would like to hope so. I can try to help you with anything, so please leave some question in my inbox and I will answer them A.S.A.P. but I must let you know that I don't sugar coat my answers, and I give you my 100% honest opinion. ♥
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I have a cell phone. IT's a Verizon LG VX3200. is it possible to get ringtones from online onto my phone? i know it'd get charged on my bill nd idc bout that. but are there any REAL ring tones .. like with lyrics not just the background music that i could get? (link)
you'll have to go through your phone to get any ringtone.. but midiringtones.com is where i usually go for mine.
you can access the good sites through the "get it now" option on your phone, another good one is Xringer and Ringster.


I have really bad acne and I have tried everything I can imagine...does anyone have any natural remedie that they find work cause I need some help, and the prom is this year so I dont want everyone knowing me as zit face... want to look like all the popular girls! (link)
this is from a movie, but hey it could work.
windex.
(my big fat greek wedding)
proactiv works well
and i trust biore and neutrogena with my life. if you havent tried anything by them you should.


So i have pin straight hair, like you can not curl it at all no matter how long you leave the iron in for or sleep in curls, it does not work. I was thinking about a perm, but how long do they last? Do they damage your hair? Can you still straighten it? Is it hard to straighten? Are there different types of perms? Yeah I am a perm-dummy so all the help and information would be helpful :] I will rate high if I get a good response. (link)
Perms last just about forever and you have to get them redone, they can be damaging depending on your hair, Its probably a little hard to straighten, and doing that could damage it too.. I suggest that you should ask a cosmetologist before getting a Perm to see what other options you have, and any tips.


okay so i have longish dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, and an ovalish shaped face. i was thinking about getting side bangs when i get another hair cut but i don't know if they would look good on me. if you could tell me what shape faces, what hair colors, and what eye colors, side bangs generally look good on it would be really helpful for me to figure out if they would look good on me. I rate 5's. Thanks in advance! (link)
I have the side bangs, but I've been parting them down the middle lately, my skin is fair and my eyes are hazel and I guess my face is somewhat like an ellipse lol.
The side bangs seem to look good on everyone, no matter your hair color, eye color, or the shape of your face, I say go for it! If you dont like it, you can always pull them back, or part them down the middle again, no worries!
I sugguest going on a weekend or Friday night so if you don't like it you can experiment.


Hey, a week ago my boyfriend and i tried to have sex, but he couldn't really get it becuase i was in too much pain. He had a condom on and didn't cum, so we just stopped tryig..is it possible that i am pregnant? I am not sure if there was any pre cum though. (link)
Before you go off having sex, make sure you are aware and responsible enough to handle ALL the outcomes, and if it is something you aren't ready to handle, do not do it.
Chances are, you probably aren't pregnant, but there is always a possiblity you could be. Take a test, and see if your period comes on time, or at all, if not talk to your boyfriend, and guardian(s) then see a doctor.


Well okay, I have a friend named *Helena*. And she has this ex-boyfriend named *Kenny*.

They went out for a month and he dumped her. For that, I always thought he was a jerk.

But last night, I spent time with him and some more of my friends and my ex-boyfriend [who I think I still have feelings for]. Me and him [*Kenny*] were wrestling and he pinned me down all the time. He was being really nice to me [something I didn't think he was capable of].

Then my ex-boyfriend slapped *Kenny* with baby powder. *Kenny* pushed my ex and he [my ex] tripped and went crazy. Him and *Kenny* started fighting. And one thing my ex said was "What the $%#% *Kenny*?! You pushed me in my own damn house?! In front of my ex-girlfriend?! GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!"

I don't know what that means. But my ex and *Kenny* were friends again minutes later.

I think I have feeling for *Kenny* since he was really sweet to me. But I don't know if I can go for him since he is one of my best friend's ex-boyfriend? Can I go for him? (link)
You CAN go for him, but I think it might end up a little sour.
Think about this hard, you saw how he treated your friend, and he might have just acted sweeter because of who you were around. Dating a friend's ex, and dating your ex's friend would only lead to problems. If it were me, I wouldn't go for him, but it is up too you.


I really need to lose weight but I work from 4-9 so when I get home I eat which is bad. I can't eat on my break because it is only 15 minutes long so I can't eat that quick. Should I just skip eating dinner or what? (link)
You shouldn't skip dinner. You could eat something small before you go, and then some on your break. Or take a slimfast bar or drink and have that on your break.


i have extremely straight hair and always have. it gets annyoing becaus unlike curly hair i cant do anything cute with mine. does anyone have any advice on cute hair styles or ways to scrunch my hair? if it helps i have natural platinum blonde hair. thanks! (link)
for scrunching your hair, next time at the mall go too a little salon and ask for ideas, but I'll give you my 2 cents for now :)
While your hair is still wet, I suggest only drying it till it stops dripping, then tip your head upside down and use hair gel or mousse everywhere and grab some hair and open and close your fist, also if the gel or mousse doesnt work well, try hair glue, dont use a lot..you wont need too, its thick.
Magazines are good for finding new hair styles too, or the net.
I dont know what kind of girl you are, so I'll just throw out some ideas.
The side part is popular, and for fun you can always switch the sides your bangs fall too. Theres the half ponytail, the messy bun, low pigtails, high pigtails, pigtail buns (part like normal pigtails, but flip your hair to make a bun)pigtail braids, you could clip it up, twists (almost like cornrows but not that extreme), messy half bun (hair is half up, but change the ponytail to a messy bun), clip your bangs(if any, if not then what your bangs would be) back and flip out the ends of your hair, or change up the color! Experiment! If you need any help or need me to describe or show you pictures let me know ♥


i just want to know what this might be...(sorry if this is long) at night or in the dark generally i see things moving like shadows... no one else can see them. i hear them talking... i hear people talking all the time. even if im alone. i talk to myself alot. when i try to sleep at night i hear it and i feel it crawl on my skin. the only way to make the noise go away is to listen to music really loud. its getting hard to be in the dark because the shadows that move scare me alot. wouldnt it scare you if you could see things move and stuff that you know cant really be there. so im getting less and less sleep and its effecting my ability to concentrate on my school work so im falling behind. i just stopped taking my ritlan. ive been getting horrible head aches where sometimes my vision will blur and then re focus. i have a twitch. but only when i get cold ill twitch to the left. always the left. and its just one big jerk of a twitch. ive been crying alot. i never used to cry about anything now im crying everyday. im way stressed out because of all of this. so im not sleeping, seeing, hearing and feeling things that arnt there and did i mention hearing things call my name? yeah i hear things call my name all the time. so what might this be? im really worried... it was like this when i was 7 or 8 but it went away... now its coming back... im not going to a psychologist. so thats out of the question and i talked to my mom about it and she just said that its probably nothing and to pray about it. which i am doing. but i just want some information on what it might be? so any help?

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I'm not a professional on this, so I can only give you my 2 cents. I suggest getting back on your ritalin for starters, and talk to a professional about it, they can get you help better than any of us here can. (ie: shool psychologist, or counselor) I know you don't want too, but you either do it or learn to deal with what's going on.


Well yesterday I took a 2 hour nap and then a couple hours layter I wanted to go to bed I couldnt sleep, I finally got to sleep at like 2 am then today I had cramps really bad I mean like wear I wanted to leave school bad they were horrible. && I dont know if it is like a part of my period or what because I mean I feel really shitty and everything and I dunno I am going to go to the nurse next period. This is really odd. Please help. All 5`s

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Chances are it has to do with your period. When you get home take a warm bath, take midol/some kind of pain reliever, and take a nap with a heating pad on the area where the cramps are the worst.


Ok, well i basically have two questions.
The first is about my heart. Sometimes when im standing and i twist my body back and fourth, i hear my heart grinding.. anybody know what thats about?

And secondly, sometimes i dream while i'm awake. No, not day dreaming. It's like an actual dream that i'm not controlling playing it my mind. Sometimes it's like watching a movie. Does anyone know what that's about?

Thanks..! (link)
I'm not sure about the first one, but I think you really should tell your guardian though. The second one sounds like sleep paralysis, usually you can't move when you are dreaming while awake. This is usually the explanation for alien abductions too, lol.
You should really consider seeing a doctor for both of these conditions. I'm not exactly sure if they are curable, but I think sleep paralysis is treatable.


Is Nick Cannon currently single? (link)
I don't think he is single.


okay so I have lots of blackheads on my nose and now i see some on my chin...is there anything i can buy at walmart (that is NON expensive) that will effectively get rid of them? prefferably something that either works right away or that works quicker than like 3 weeks..Thanks for any help! (link)
I'm almost positive that Wal-Mart has Biore and Neutrogena products. They usually aren't too expensive, but they are deffinately worth their price. You can look online at the products so you know what too look for.
http://www.neutrogena.com/home_2.asp


ok well i saw a littl ebit of that sho today, and there was this one girl, she was blonde...maddie i think. where can i find boots similar to hers?!

thanks to anyone and everyone! (link)
Too be honest, since I have no idea what boots you are talking about, just look at online store catalogs and look through the boot sections. Or go to the mall with some friends and just look around.
Sorry for the lack of help, next time more information would be much more helpful. thanks. =)


Oh Jesus. The other night I did some stuff that was kind of close to cheating on my boyfriend at a concert. He found out and got really mad. At first he was mad because I was denying it. Finally I couldn't help it and told him what I did. And he cried and took it real bad. Now he doesn't trust me and thinks I'll cheat on him. How do I get his trust back? (link)
To be quite honest, it will probably be hard to get his trust back, since you at first denied what was the truth. You are probably going to have to prove yourself, and talk to him A LOT about what happened and how bad you messed and sort of confess your love for him and just try to work it out and hope for the best. Sending him a lot of "I'm Sorry" things (like guys do to girls in the movies) might ease things if you can show that you really are very sorry for what happened.


Shit hook! What awful luck. My choir is having an opera performance a week from now, which I have worked the whole year to perform in, and I have a cold! Not exactly a cold; my vocal chords are clogged with mucus. Does anyone know any active solution besides Robitussin (man, that stuff tastes like poison) that will restore my voice in time for the concert?

Anyone who says tea with honey and/or cough drops will get a 1. (link)
Well, I deffinately suggest to keep taking the medicine. But gargling with warm salt water helps and so does gargling with mouth wash, just dont swallow it. Eating bread/bagels can work too to scrape away the yucky stuff (sounds weird by im serious) Steam works, like taking a hot shower can break up the stuff.


I have a weight problem (I weigh too much) and I think my weight may be getting worse due to stress. How do I know if it is stress? If it is my stress causing me to gain weight what can I do about it? (link)
Well, chances are it probably is due to stress, and sometimes you wont even notice it. If it is, i suggest after school/work/whenever you go for a walk in your neighborhood/town/area/whatever. Excersize is a great way to deal with stress. also, Diet and Excersize, it's pretty much what we gotta do to lose weight.


When i get older i want to do stuff like CSI, Forensic files, && Like find out who murder people. And you know its pretty much all scientiftic.
I need help to know what exactly I may need to know, like topics like chemistry? and stuff.
Any tips, on what i can do to know things about it.
I mean i watch the tv shows, all day, and stuff.. but any more tips to improve me, for when i really do go to college scince im young enough now to start paying better attention, to what i want.
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thats a great field, i love it! hope to be apart of it myself. =)
But first off the real thing isnt much like CSI and Law and Order, just as long as you know that.
In highshool, you shouldnt do too much,and i dont know what your school offers but deffinately talk to your guidence counselor. and dont be afraid to stay after, if your school is at all like mine you'll have to take biology,and chemistry, before you can take physics, forensics, criminology, anatomy ect. Sometimes you can double up the classes but that can be tough.
Since im not sure what is offered at your school, i suggest talking to your guidence counselor and science teacher, and start studing and learning about forensics ASAP.



gday, james here
i am thinking of getting a black moor and the tank i have got is a medium size bowl i was just wondering how well my black moor will do in this bowl i was also told i will need a bubbler to let the water oxegenate, but will a plant oxegenate the water for me it would be great if you could let me know if my black moor will do ok in those conditions
thanks heaps (link)
you should get a bubbler, a plant wont work well cause it will either be fake, or wont have roots.
and it should be fine in a medium size bowl.


All my life I've wanted to help people and for the past year or two I have decided that the perfect profession for me would to be a Social Worker. Next year I get to take a journey to HighSchool and I was wondering if you have any ideas of what classes would help to acheive my dream?Also... Would knowing a second language help? I get A's and B's and I'm a goody good girl thats never gotton a detention and of course I have never got in trouble with the police because after research I understand that they do background checks. Please would you respond with ideas that would help me later in life. Also, how long do you have to go to collage if you want to be a "Social worker" I am realy intrested in Child, family, and school social workers. Though a lot of kids dont realy appreait people like this I belive they do help alot. I would love to work for a company. My dream all my life has been to have a email adress so people could email me and i could help them with there problems. Now i have a dream helping people in such a way and I know I can achieve this. I know I'm only in 8th grade but I know this is the job for me


Sincerly,
Meg
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In highschool, you may have to wait a year or two to take some of the better classes, but if they are given, definately take Pyscology and Sociology. I think a second language would also be helpful, and creating an advice column would help if you havent already! *hint hint!*;) A lot of volunteer work, and after school clubs would benefit you too for when you apply to oclleges.

best of luck too ya hun!




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