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Hey Advicenators! (;
I usually hate giving advice to questions like these, but I really need to know if what I'm doing is right. Basically, I have a boyfriend, and we've been dating for a month and a couple days. I really really like him a lot. He's been my best friend since I've moved here to Texas, and we just thought we should start being boyfriend / girlfriend. His name is Kevin.
Back in Pennsylvania, I had this best friend called Charles. We had been best friends since 2nd grade. But, we became REALLY close before I left PA because we knew that it'd be super heartbreaking for the both of us, since we wouldn't be together anymore.
I was completely sad because I knew that Charles didn't believe in long distance relationships. I knew I'd have to wait for him.
But then he found a girlfriend like a month after I left. I don't know her but I know that he has a girl. I was so pissed off about this because I thought he was "in love" with me. But obviously not. Then I met Kevin, like 2 months after I moved here.
Somehow he found out that I'm making Kevin a gift for Xmas, "100 reasons why I like you.." lol i'm pretty sure everyone knows about that. Then tonight, Charles IMed me and said, "Tell me 100 reasons why you love me.." & I'm like I'm not going to do that because it's unfair to Kevin, even if he never finds out about this conversation, I still think it's unfair to talk about US behind his back. He shouldn't even feel that way anyways because he has a girlfriend, right? Now he said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And he's never said that to me before.
I'm not going to be upset about this, because it isn't my fault, right? I just need other peoples' perspectives on this.
Thanks for any help.
NaImEE ♥ (link)
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It's not your fault. I think your friend Charles is jealous, I think the reason why he moved on is because he he realizes there's no -you guys- and he just can't have you. The reason why I think he's jealous is because he can't face the face that yall can't be together. I'd suggest if Charles is going to act that way towards you don't bother talking to him he'll come back when he's ready and make sure he apologizes if he does come back as well. But yeah stay with your boyfriend be happy with HIM no one else. Hope I helped..
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me and my boyfriend were going out for about 14 months...everything was really great at first but then just a little while ago it started to go down hill, we started fighting a lot and everything. well i went to my friends yesterday and i met this kid Brandon, he was really nice and good looking. we flirted a little. But then today i went down to my friends house and he was there and me and him started talking and we connected really good, we made each other laugh we were kind all over each other but not alot. but me and him barly talked to anyone else that was there. It hard to explain we just hit it off really good...but anyway i was going to go home and he was going to walk me home but we got by my house and i asked him if he wanted to take a walk so we did and we ended up in the woods. so we sat and we talked and then we started kissing, and kissing lend into fingering then we had sex... i feel real bad tho and i know i have to tell my boyfriend but i'm not sure how to, i mean i don't want him to break up with me but i believe he will because i cheated on him, how is he supose to trust me....i need advice bad...
I also feel like a slut to and i feel really bad, like i let my self down and i did something that i know was wrong..like i just slept with a guy i just met..am i going to feel like this forever? how do i make it stop?...
Thanks in advance...
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Well you need to call your boyfriend, don't do that stupid AIM talk you need to either tell him in person or on the phone so he knows your not kidding or something like that. Please don't take this the wrong way but he may break up with you. I know how it feels like wow I think you connected with the other guy very well because your looking for attention((said by my one friend)) because you and YOUR boyfriend are fighting constantly you just feel left out and insecure about everything your confused and feel hopeless. I get that but if you really love your boyfriend then I'd suggest you get your act straight if your boyfriend wants time apart give him the time don't bother him don't talk to him unless he starts talking to you first. If you have any other advice needed to be answer please.. Ask me.
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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had. (link)
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Alright let's not kill ourselves. He's just am immature 15 year old doesn't know what he wants yet. He wants to find more, experiment more, see more but honestly I don't think you should kill yourself over one guy he's one out of a million I know but maybe you should just leave it at that. Don't try to contact him, talk to him, see him nothing let him come back to you. Trust me he sounds like a guy that if you act like you don't want him he'll come back and if you really want him back like you say you do and act like you do then there but if he doesn't come back there's so much better out there your almost 18 2 more years til you find a real man 2 more years til your on your own and he'll be what 17 you'd have to wait a whole year to be with him anyways. Honestly he sounds confused if he doesn't believe you or trust you that you didn't talk trash about him that night then he's not worth your tears. Hope I helped. Sorry...
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I've got this friend Megan* who was asked to meet (french kiss) this guy David* but she said no coz hes to much of a friend to her and now 3 weeks later shes asking me to meet him coz hes always putting himself down in the love department so she wanted to show him that some girls do like him without implying that she did.When she said this, i admitted that i was slightly attracted to him at the start of the year.Im having doubt now because i dont want to be the last resort or the last person to be asked to meet him and megan shouldn't be dumping this kind of task and pressure onto me.Another part of me says that i should meet him because i havent metanyone in 2 years (my 1st kiss)
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Kind of difficult to understand this question but ok. I'll try because no one else did, so your friend has this guy friend that likes her but she doesn't want to kiss him becuz* he's too much of a friend but she knows you like him so she's trying to get you to meet him so maybe she'll find out that you guys belong with each other. Wow this is kind of fun trying to guess what your saying ha, ha. But you never had your first kiss so your a little nervous. Everybodies nervous with their first kiss hell I was nervous with my first kiss ha, ha everytime I was around my ex-boyfriend I was trembling because* I knew that he wanted to kiss me so he did and I wasn't ready at all but then I started getting used to it and being more outgoing and open to him. Then he cheated but that's besides the point. But you said you've liked this kid til* school* started thats a long time, I think you should meet** him and get to know him and when you want to kiss him you'll kiss him don't do something you don't want to do just because* your friends preasuring you. Hope I helped. If you have anymore advice needed to be answered I'm here!
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how do you know what kind of kiss your partner is going to do like wen he leans in to kiss you how do you know what kind of kiss to do?
i rate 5's (link)
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Well if they lean in to kiss you and their mouth is *slightly* open that means they want to do more than just a simple peck. But you'll know when your in the situation becuz* when their lips touch yours you'll know what to do. It's kind of like an instinct. Hope I helped.
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ok well im 13 and i like this guy and me and him have been hanging out alot and he was my first kiss,first makeout,first person to finger me,first person to eat me out all this in like 3 months that we have known each other. he isnt a virgin and he told me that he wanted to be my first everything and i said ok because i really do love him and he claimed that he loved me and he swore to god that he wasnt using me. well the last time me and him hung out was like 3 weeks ago and that was like the 4th time he fingered me and i swear im not a slut but now hes ingnoring me because one of my friends got him really mad so he took it out on me and now he doesnt like me anymore but i want him to and i try to get over him but i just cant.
what should i do?? (link)
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Honestly, you don't love him and he doesn't love you. And honestly if your going to rate me low for saying that then I just know one thing you can't handle the truth. But honestly don't take this the wrong way but he was using you.. If he loved you he wouldn't take his anger out on you and just ignore you without an explanation. He's a dog and just wanted some pussy. If i was you I'd just ignore him as long as I can and if he wants you he'll come back and try to sweet talk ya* but I would be like fuck off you screwed me over all your were was just a regret that's living in my past. And bam never talk to him again. Hope I helped. Hope you do the right thing.
god damn you just proved my point!
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what is Cellulite ?? (link)
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Definition provided by The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Copyright © 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Other important copyright information here.
cellulite:
Noun
A fatty deposit causing a dimpled or uneven appearance, as around the thighs and buttocks.
Etymology
French : cellule, cellule ; see cellule + -ite, disease (from New Latin -*tis, -itis).
Fat... Did someone say you have a lot of it? Because that's harsh screw them if they did.. Sorry!
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Im making my boyfriend a mix cd of love for our 1 year ann. and i need to know some rock songs that are about love, my goals is 18 and i have 10
WILL RATE FIVES
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I have one good song. I consider it as kind of rock but Bon Jovi I Will Be There For You.. Sorry I don't listen to rock very often and this is a very good song so here.
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http://www.livejournal.com/users/xd0nthatex_fake/
I suggest you read it. All of the columnist are getting this. (link)
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Oh really who is this?
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Me and my boyfriend broke up because I thought he was cheating but we worked out things and are back together but how to I tell my mom that we are without her getting mad? I'll rate high! (link)
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Well, why would she get mad? Then I'll give you my best advice. Sorry. But yeah I really like this question so please put some in my inbox telling me why she would be upset.
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hery girls umm i just got my period and it sucks but i wanted to know how many days u have ur period in a month
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Different for all chicks. Mine used to be like 2 days then it would stop then go back to like 3 then stop then 4 then stop totally then it would happen again in about another 6 weeks. But now since I'm on birth control or was, It's only 5 to 7 days a month. But everybodies body works differently so yours could be less or more. Hope I helped.
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i liked him.
and now hes an ass.
and he liked my bestfreind.
and he just wants to have sex with me.
PLEASE HELP. (link)
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Well you liked an ass who liked your bestfriend now he wants to bang you. Say no to the gettin* some and say no I don't want an ass part. There you go ha, ha. Don't have sex with someone that won't even go out with you who likes your BESTfriend and possibly already treats you like shit? Why even talk to someone like him. Honestly I'd just get over him I'd stop talking to him, seeing him, thinking and talking about him. Don't lose your virginity to someone like that. Lose it to someone you love or atleast think you'll spend the rest of your life with.. If you haven't lost your virginity already that is... Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
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My bf is acting really weird. He used to ride me all the time about being unemployed. He would say that I needed to better my life and to stop living off the system (welfare). Well that just wasnt true that I didnt want to better my life because I was volunteering at two different jobs to get a good reference.
Anyways, all the volunteering paid off because I finally got a good job at a store that was a UNION!
At first my bf was happy and said he hoped it would work out.
Well it has worked out REALLY well. I've been getting good hours, and get along with everyone. And I'm having FUN too!!
When I told my bf this he sounded like he was mad or something that it was working out so well!
I don't understand him, first he's mad I'm not working, then when I do get a good job he sounds jealous! Does anyone have any ideas on why he's acting this way? I will give everyone 5's. (link)
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I honestly think that it's because he thinks or knows that your job is a better job than his and he's jealous of the fact that your probably, maybe making more money than he is and so he doesn't feel like the *man* in the relationship, because guys are weird like that it's like HE has to make the good money HE was to have the good job HE has to support you and so on and so forth. I think you need to sit him down and talk to him about it he may feel like he's being left behind. Tell him that you love him so much ((if you do)) and that you want to be able to understand where he is coming from and ask him why he's acting like such a jerk when it comes to you working. Hope I helped.
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Ok i am 16 female and i got to high school and my boyfriend (getting married) is like 20. Well the other day he seen me hugging my Step-Brother and he was like this that you boyfriend and what are you doing with him anyways. Well told him that it is my Step-Brother and he is going back home and i dont know when the next time i get to see him. But my Boyfriend just said bulls**t. And he is always with other girls. but he don't know thhat i know about it. But then i just said that if you are going to keep on saying that i am cheating we are though so he said fine then i said ok we are over. but i still love him. Was it wrong for me saying we are over or did i do the right thing? (link)
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Yes you did the right thing, because honestly he would have said something like no baby please don't if he cared a damn about you. Just think about it why love someone that really cheated on you. Like I said this to someone else if a guy is seems paranoid about you cheating most likely he's cheating just blaming someone else hoping to god that you don't get suspicious. Yeah don't try to get back with him he sounds like a total ass. Hope I helped.
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i know that alot of people say only guys masterbate and yeah i know that isnt true its just more accepted that guys do right? i mean tons of girls do too? (link)
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Yeah, who told you that? Ha, ha I think that's really funny. But yeah chicks do it probably a LOT more than guys.
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Ahhh I'm a female..My age I rather not share.. but my 8 best friends are all a bit older and not to mention all guys.. weeelllll. I've kind of made out with them all, then some other stuff (but I wasn't really sober, so it doesn't count?).. anyway.. I've never really considered a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with any of them.. and they never showed interest either.. I recently started going out with someone else (none of my 8 friends), and they all seem to be mad at me for it.. its as if my entire world turned its back on me.. and I hate it.are they jealous, or maybe looking out for me, or something else? I don't know why they're mad.. Is there a way I can make them not be mad anymore without dumping my current boyfriend? (link)
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Yeah.. I think they might be jealous because not they don't have a friend with benefits becuz* I guess they figured your not gonna* mess around with them anymore and they feel sadd* because NOW they have to find someone else. Don't dump your current boyfriend that would let them win exspecially if you actually like your boyfriend. Just set them straight and be like What the hells your problem I didn't do shit to you guys so don't acting like I did and for one if you were my true friends you would be happy for me that I found someone that I actually like and enjoy being around. And if you can't support that and ease up a bit then I don't think we should be friends. Say that in your own words but yeah. Hope I helped..
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Well to make this make sense to you guys, I'm going to try to be specific.
I was in Franklin, TN, since Wednesday night for Thanksgiving. I got back early this morning, and was with my friend "Ann" all day. "Ann" told me that "Curt";;(*the guy I like and like(s);(ed)*), like a girl named "Di." So I was fine with it, because I want him to be happy.
Later that day, "Ann" called me and asked me if I was made at "Curt". I replied and said "No...haha, why would I be mad at him?" Then "Ann" said "Mari" (*some girl who likes him too and hates "Di"*) told "Curt" She called me and that I said to her that I was mad at him, and I still liked him.
1]I was in Franklin.
2]This girl has never called me, neither have I.
3]"Ann" told him I didn't like him.
Now I have no idea what to do because I havn't talked to him since Wednesday, and I DO LIKE HIM. But I am not going to get in between of who he likes...but he did say he liked me too. What do I do, what do I say? And "Mari"; what about her.
Please help.
All 5's for thoughts.
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Thanks mucho.
x0.HAD. (link)
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I think whenever he gets back or you get back or whenever you get a chance to talk to him. To tell him> "I heard that some chick called you and told you that I didn't like you and that's not true, but I'm not going to get in the way with who you like now but I'm just telling you and that I'm not madd* at your or anything.< And don't even worry about Mari you just said you didn't know her so why should she mean anything to you or even be worth bothering. Ya* know. Well I hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
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what types of precautions should a person take before taking part in sexual activities if they have never had sex before? (link)
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Condom, think if they really want to be a teen that gets pregnant, crabs, STDS, HIV, AIDS.. You know those small things you ALWAYS have to worry about no big deal. Be safe! Hope I helped.
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okay ive been like hooking up with this guy he has a girlfriend and told me he was gonna break up with her because he wanted to be with me he doesnt call me anymore , we havent talked in 3 days and he is still going out with the girlfriend he told me he was breaking up with.
Is he losing interest in me? and what can i do to get it back? (link)
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Any guy that's going out with someone but hits on someone that they aren't going out with is a complete jerk in the first place. Just think for a minute.. If he can do what he's doing to her like telling someone else that oh I want to be with you and I'm breakin* up with you what makes you think he won't do the exact same shiz to you? Yeah well I think you need to stop worrying about if he's losing interest in you and find better... :\ Sorry if you think I'm being mean but trust me you'll thank me later.
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I need ideas 4 my girlfriend for X-mas...any suggestions...plz? (link)
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You could also buy her something she's into like me for instance I'm doing ice skating anything with ice skating I would just die for. So like if she likes any sports get her something in that sport. But if you don't know anything she likes then you can get her a Teddy Bear That says love you and that's holding 4 candies in a box. Most girls like them. I hate them, but yeah or you can get her a Rose and some jewelry, give her a gift certificate to the mall, WalMart, KMart ha, ha anything. Well hope I helped sorry if I didnt.
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