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bf doesnt like me having a job
My bf is acting really weird. He used to ride me all the time about being unemployed. He would say that I needed to better my life and to stop living off the system (welfare). Well that just wasnt true that I didnt want to better my life because I was volunteering at two different jobs to get a good reference.
Anyways, all the volunteering paid off because I finally got a good job at a store that was a UNION!
At first my bf was happy and said he hoped it would work out.
Well it has worked out REALLY well. I've been getting good hours, and get along with everyone. And I'm having FUN too!!
When I told my bf this he sounded like he was mad or something that it was working out so well!
I don't understand him, first he's mad I'm not working, then when I do get a good job he sounds jealous! Does anyone have any ideas on why he's acting this way? I will give everyone 5's.
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because his job isn't as good as yours?
or perhaps because he doesn't get to see you as often because of your job
ask him perhaps if you'd really like to know the real answer
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Does he have a job? If he doesn't than he shouldn't be bugging you about you not having one. If he does maybe he's just a little tired of it, or maybe he totally hates it now and could be jealous because you have a job that you really enjoy.
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I honestly think that it's because he thinks or knows that your job is a better job than his and he's jealous of the fact that your probably, maybe making more money than he is and so he doesn't feel like the *man* in the relationship, because guys are weird like that it's like HE has to make the good money HE was to have the good job HE has to support you and so on and so forth. I think you need to sit him down and talk to him about it he may feel like he's being left behind. Tell him that you love him so much ((if you do)) and that you want to be able to understand where he is coming from and ask him why he's acting like such a jerk when it comes to you working. Hope I helped.
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Maybe he is mad at himself for really not believe you could do it...or maybe he got fired from HIS job and is mad at you for getting a better one than him or something...If I were you I would ask him why he is being so wierd about your new fun, cool, job...Hope I helped...
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