so today i was walking in the halls and i see my best friend walking with her boyfriend and one of our mutual friends. (this is really rare- i NEVER see my best friend in school.) she had her back turned to me but when he saw me, she turned around and gave me a really big smile and a "hey!" ...then before i could get a word in, turned right back to the other people she was with and ignored me. and she says im her bestbest friend.
i only see her once every week or two outside of school and sometimes dont even talk at nighttime. we used to be like sisters a few years ago, im'ing for a few hours everyday and hanging every chance we got. but since she got a boyfriend (its been 6 months) i've been left wondering if the title "best friends" really means anything anymore.
what do you think?
thanks so much.
i know exactly how you feel, EXACTLY.
this has happened to me, acutally i'm still going through it but it is getting better. it was with my best guy friend. we use to hang out ALL the time, i could tell him everything until he got a girlfriend and only would hang out with her and pretty much let our friendship go downhill. i missed him, so much. i didn't admit it to anyone though and i never did text him or call him anymore because i always thought if he wanted to talk or see me he would text or call first. but turns out, i was so wrong. you have to communicate! your friend probably has no idea you're feeling like this. i know my best friend didn't. after three years, i finally had the courage to just let it all out and tell him i miss him and that i feel really hurt that he doesn't call me anymore to hang out or just to talk. he had no idea i was feeling like this, he felt horrible. he said that whenever i need him, or whenever i want to see him to never be shy and just give him a call.
so i pretty much missed out on three years of our friendship. yeah i saw him here and there but it was just a "hey" and it was nothing like we use to be. he was the only guy i could ever trust and tell everything to, he was the one i could wear no make-up around and act like a complete dork and he would still call me his best friend. just call her or tell her you want to talk to her in person and let it all out. tell her you miss your friendship, ask what happened to you two. seriously pour your heart out to her. she probably is so clueless that you feel like this and doesnt want to hurt you in any way! she'll never know if you dont say something. i use to doubt the word "best friend" too, and i felt like i couldnt even call him my best friend but no matter what, i know he'll always be there now and i'm just glad he reasured me of that.
it is hard, i use to cry all the time because i missed him and felt like i was just replaced by his girlfriend but i told him how i was feeling and want to know what he said? "linds no matter what, just know that i got you. i would do anything for you. i love you, always rememeber that because it'll never change. you really are my best friend" and hearing that....made me cry so hard but this time it was because of happiness. don't make assumptions that she's ignoring you. please talk to her! i don't want you to lose your friendship, learn from me! everything will work out.
if you need anything else, don't be afraid! ♥ LU
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what are some really cute love songs ?
oooooh i have alot of these :)
-josh gracin: unbelieveable
-usher: trading places
-sophia: very first time
-jessica simpson: still don't stop me
-chris brown ft keri hilson: super human
-natasha bedingfield: angel
-Llyod- year of the lovers
-christina milian: us against the world
-nikki flores: let it slide
-beyonce: you are my roc
-lee carr: breathe
-akon: birthmark
-beyonce: hello
-j holiday: it's yours
-ray j: blue high heels
-donnie klang: pick it up (FAVORITE!)
-chris brown: diagnosed with love
-keri hilson: knock you down
hope this is what you were looking for! ♥ LU
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Recently at school I got really hot, stressed and anxious at the same time and I got red from my chest all the way up to my face. It wasn't hard to breathe and I didn't pass out or anything. I just don't know what happened, and someone told me I might have high blood pressure or had an anxiety/panic attack. Has this happened to anyone or does anyone know what it could be?
i recently went to the doctor for a problem similar to yours! it is from stress, and possibly anxiety. but when this happens to me i feel like i have trouble breathing, and like my heart is racing really fast and i feel a little shaky. what the doctor did was prescribe me some medication that will calm me down, for my anxiety. if this is a problem to you or if it is affecting you in any way then go see a doctor and i'm sure they can help you out (: ♥ LU
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I have been on ortho tricyclin(sp?) for the last 4 months. I go to planned parenthood to get it because I'm sexually active and dont want my mom to find out.
The problem is that I'm sick of going there, I have to wait for and hour and a half just to pick it up and I have to pay. I've decided that I want to tell my mom that I want to go to the gynocologist just to get a check up. Is it possible that I could ask the doctor to put me on the same form of birth control but she could tell my mom its for my period? And how long does it usually take to get an appointment? I don't want to ask my mom, findout I have an appointment a week from now and then not be able to take the birth control because it would screw up my current month (that sounds confusing but it makes sense haha) I want to stop taking it at the end of my last pack so that I wouldn't be off it too long until I can get perscribed more.
My last random question is if I go off birth control, will I lose the weight in my boobs that I've gained? haha. BC has made my figure more curvey and I would hate to lose that because I didn't really have one to begin with =/ Thanks so much, 17/f
So i was a little confused on the whole first question part. i think i can help though because i was on ortho-tri-cyclen for almost two years. i wasn't using it for sex, i was using it for my periods and i went with my mom and we both told the doctor that it was for my period. so yes just tell your mom that you're on it to regulate your period. i actually had to switch birth controls in december and things got screwed up so i had to not take any form of birth control for a month and then go on a new one and it really didn't screw things up at all. i still get my period when i'm suppose to and when i was off the birth control i think my body was so use to getting it when i was suppose to that it came at the same time, if that made sense haha. you will still have to pay for the birth control by going through the doctor, but maybe if you told your mom about it she could help pay? my mom pays for mine (: i know it can get pretty expensive. is there any way that you could get another pack of your birth control at plan parenthood and then go to the doctor and talk to them about you going on the same thing? i hope this is making sense. when you ask if you go off birth control, does that mean for good? or just for like a little bit? because when i was off it for a month, i didn't see any changes. i didn't lose weight, anywhere. maybe it is different with everyone's body but i'm sure that you won't see a huge difference. i hope this helped you! if you didn't understand something, or have any other questions feel free to ask. ♥ LU
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So I was really close with a guy for almost a year...and I've liked him for the past 3 months. Well a few weeks ago he started going out with this girl from my old school, I know her.
I know he's happy...but I want him so much. I know he liked me at one point, but he never made a move..
Should I tell him how I feel? Even though he's got her now...I just think that I would feel better...but it may be a bad idea?
Honestly, i've got to disagree with the person below me. I was in a situation like this before, i have a best friend. i was friends with him for about two years and i've always liked him, i knew he was attracted to me but like your guy, he never made a move. well then he started going out with this girl and i was honestly crushed. then i thought oh they'll eventually break up, not knowing that this was going to last for THREE years. yes i had to go three years miserably watching them two be in love. it was honestly the WORST thing i've ever been through. you need to talk to him, maybe he didnt make a move because he didn't think you feel the same way. did you tell him you liked him before? yeah it's bad timing, but it would really be for the best if you told him because you never know what he's thinking. maybe he wants you but he never knew so he thought he had to move on, ya know? i do not want you to go through what i had to go through oh boy it's horrible. if you need anything else feel free to ask! good luck hun ♥ LU
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how long should i wait untill i take a shower after i go tanning...
and i use the tingle lotion i dont know if u know what it is but it tingles while you tan but ya please let me know!
well actually you can take a shower whenever you want :) it's really a myth that you have to wait so long to take a shower after tanning. i have two friends who work at two different tanning places and i asked both of them the same question and they both said that it doesn't matter! you can take one right after you go tanning if you want ♥ LU
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why am i so moody
well there could be many reasons why you're moody. it really depends on whats going on in your life and how old you are. if your a teenager, which i'm guessing you are you have a lot of hormones and your period will cause this. now if you don't have your period it could mean that you will be getting it. it's called PMS :) ohhh yah the thing guys hate. but every girl goes through it. now if you're moody all the time is there something bothering you? are you stressed out? there could be many things of why you're so moody but all girls are moody in some way- i know i am! my parents HATE IT but there is nothing we can do about it, it's part of being a girl. if this is causing a huge problem in your life you could go see a doctor and maybe they could help you out more. i hope this helped somewhat, if not just give me some more information about yourself and i'll be glad to help more ♥ LU
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Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year. I'm 15 he's 18. I was wondering if this was cute for a Vday gift?:
Bake him a chocolate cheesecake or regular cheesecke because he does like cheesecake haha(:
And then fill a glass jar with pieces of paper telling him what I love about him and cute quotes.
I don't know if the second one is good or not? I'm not sure if guys would like it haha. He's a really sweet guy with a sensitive side but then he is also like a rock at times. So if you have input I would love to hear it! Thanksss(:
my best friend actually did this for her boyfriend for their 2 two year anniversary. he LOVED it. she put random things in there just like "i love you" or some love quotes, meaningful memories that they had together and just things she loved about him. also on one of them she wrote the day they first started going out :) and another cute idea you could do is once your done baking the cheesecake you can either write like i love you or you can put the date you started going out and i love you. or happy valentines day baby. just an idea. good luck hun, have fun! ♥ LU
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So i don't get to see my boyfriend very much but we will be together all summer. I want to make this summer different and do fun things i've never done before with him. For example, i think it'd be fun to go to a drive-in movie and outdoor concerts. But that's all i can really think of. Anything will help. Thanks!
SUMMER'S MY FAVORiTE (:
there are alot of things you can do!
i use to love going to like a wavepoool or a waterpark with my boyfriend. you can have a picnic, awh. you can do like a slip and slide, or run through the sprinkers HAHA it sounds like something for little kids but it's still fun! you can go to like a professional baseball game if you guys are into sports. go to an amusement park. go rollerblading or ride bikes like at a park or on a trail or just go on a long walk. go to the beach! go fishing, or go camping. go to a zoo! rock climbing!
i hope you like some of these ideas (: if you need more, let me know! ♥ LU
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Well me and my girlfriend are in our late teens, not yet sexually active together, but I'm wondering, if she would mind a little play around..hmm any tips?
Hi!:)
well what my "guy friend" always does with me is he sits with me in the same chair and we'll like both be under a blanket and he'll start touching me like my stomach and then we'll just flirt hard core. i'll get turned on and then he'll try to go down my pants. you can also give her a massage or she could give you a massage and kind of go from there. you know what i LOVE? when a guy kisses my neck, it makes me go crazy. i'm not quite sure what you were asking, but i hope i was on the right track. if you need more advice on this let me know! ♥ LU
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What are some songs about like messin around with someone that has another boyfriend/girlfriend. & you like eachotherr but they wont leave their other boyfriend/girlfriend.
haha, kinda like the sogn "cant let you go" by fabolous and lil mo
thanksssssssssss
awh i've got some good one's for you
leona lewis- best you never had
taylor swift- white horse and breathe
pleasure p- boyfriend number 2
beyonce- halo and roc
miley cyrus- goodbye
jesse mccartney- told you so
usher- his mistakes
nikki flores- let it slide
keri hilson- promise in the dark
brandy- true
rick ross ft flo rida- birthday (cake on my birthday)
well hope this helps (: if you need more let me know! ♥ LU
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Um.... I have headaches but i always have those and i have a discarge but its green what does that mean?
Luv, Olivia
hey sweetie, well green discharge is abnormal. if you have this, i would go see a doctor. yellow or green discharge may indicate an infection, especially if thick or clumpy like cottage cheese or has a foul odor. trichomoniasis, a common sexually transmitted disease (STD), may cause a musty, stale odor. discharge may become grayish or yellow-green and may become thicker. trichomoniasis also often causes vaginal itching and pain during urination. i'm not sure if you are a virgin, but either way i would go see a doctor to be sure. i don't want to scare you, but i want you to be okay :) ♥ LU
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i'd like to hear from people who have experience in going away to college while you were in a relationship? what happened? did it work out? my first love and i dated for a year and a half, we were inseperable, then had a BAD break up, were broken up for a year, and just got back together a little over 2 months ago, and everything's perfect again. in the fall, im moving to alabama for college [we're from georgia], and i dont know what to do. he said he is NOT going to lose me again, but i dont know how i feel about trying to maintain a long distance relationship in school. we talked about him moving there with me, but i highly doubt that will happen because he'll be in school here, and i'll more than likely have to live in a dorm my first year. i honestly think breaking up would be best, but i dont want to break up with him. that would hurt us both so much because we love being together. i just dont know what to do, and college is quickly approaching. any experience on this?
i didn't have to experience this, but a couple of my friends have AND the outcome has been good so far:) my best friend has been going out with her boyfriend for two and a half years, and is currently transferring back to where she lives because she was homesick and her boyfriend will be two and a half hours away. she is sad about it, but she knows their strong enough and that they can get thru anything together. my other friend is going out with a senior in high school and she is a freshman in college, and she thinks it helped their relationship. she said they don't fight as much, and that it's good to have space away from each other. it makes the time you have together even better. i know you and your boyfriend will be just fine! it will be hard, but if you love each other enough you can get through anything. best of luck to you two! ♥ LU
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Umm im fourteen and idk what to do i want to have sex but i just dont know how? also i dont know if i should shve..
hey i'm not sure if this is a guy or girl, but i'm guessing you're a girl? alright i'm just going to tell you right now, 14 is a young age to be losing your virginity and i'm not going to tell you not to do it but i do want to make sure you think clearly about EVERYTHING before doing it, okay? it probably will hurt, and if you decide to do it i hope it's with someone you really love :) and please be smart and use protection. so it's kind of hard explaining exactly how to do it, but you shouldn't have to worry about it because the guy should guide you through everything he is the one putting it in haha. shaving is a personal preference, but personally i would do it. you will have to continue shaving afterwards though because the hair does grow back thicker. it's kind of a pain, but i think it's well worth it! i am so SORRY if this was a guy, if it is let me know haha and if you have any other questions don't be shy to come back and ask! ♥ LU
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hey i need to ask something.. my boyfriend talked to my mom and said i was beautiful and im a nice and amazzing girl.. should i believe this from him.. i really love him and he really loves me.. but like he said im a good girl for him bc he needs someone like me in his life.. please help and i will rate U.. Thanks and merry christmas=)
AW YES YES YES :) SO CUTE!!!! he is a keeper. i know alot of people have answered this, but i just had to tell you i think it's adorable. don't let this boy go sweetie. i would love a guy who said that about me. awh i'm still really happy about this haha. best of luck to the both of you! ♥ LU
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For girls,
Where is the most attractive body part you think would be suitable for a tattoo on a guy?
forearm? biceps? shoulders? back? chest?
DEFINATELY BETWEEN THE SHOULDER BLADES! hurts like hell i hear, but it's hot :) haha good luck! ♥ LU
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i know that everyone is different, but i just wanted to know how long it took for anyone to get over thier first love....i went out with this guy for about a year, and i love him so much...he's always on my mind, i do try to keep busy and i'm really working at it, i know i will get there. Someone told me that it takes about 4 years. I guess it depends on the person but how lon did it take you to get over them?thank you!:D
i went out with him for two years, and it took me a very long time. probably about two years to get over him but it does get better, trust me :) and i am still friends with him, without having those feelings which to me, is what matters. i hope things get better sweetie. happy holidays! ♥ LU
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Oka I wanna know i liked this boyu for liek 4 years already and i havent made any moves or done nothing about it. And im just wondering what should i do. And what it means since i liked him for that long and i never really liked a boy for that long. Is it bad.
well if it makes you feel better, i've been stuck on a boy for about four years too. it's hard, i know where you're coming from. first of all, are you friends with him? if you are, flirt with him and flirt ALOT :) don't be scared to go after what you want. unfortunately the guy i like has a girlfriend and there is nothing i can do about it but there is something YOU can do and if you have the chance take it. don't wait too long, because he may just get a girlfriend and boy let me tell you it sucks. i definately do not want you to have to go through what i'm going through. if you two aren't friends, try and talk to him. whether it's in person, through a text or even online if you're more comfortable doing that first. try hanging out with him and it doesn't just have to be you two it can be with a group of friends. he will never know you like him, if you don't hint at it or tell him. he may just think you two are friends! be confident, guys love girls who are confident and know what they want. but girl, i'm not saying its bad that you've liked him for so long but you must do something about it! otherwise you may just keep wondering "what if" everyday and you do not want that do ya? i know rejection is a horrible fear, everyone is scared of rejection but within the past two years i've realized i have to go after what i want, and who cares if i get rejected at least i tried and at least i could move on if i knew they didn't feel the same way. if you need anything else, or want something answered better don't be shy, ask away. good luck ♥ LU
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well next time we talk I'll try and bring it up with her. But sometimes I just think I'm wasting my time? Well in case I do meet someone else, (hoping that I do..), what's the best way in getting her attention (as I've said before) just to be someone that she will remember? Oh and any other tips? (it's only because I tend to mess these kinda things up!)
And REALLY THANK YOU for all your help! It's honestly made me think in a different way! I really appreciate it!
number one thing, BE FUNNY! :) i love love love guys who are outgoing and can make me laugh. i love guys who can keep my attention. i love guys who know how to keep a conversation going. i love when they don't care what other people think, and when they do what they want. if you find another girl, try to not be so flirtatious with other girls as i said before. by doing that she may think you are just a player, or are not intersted. don't be afraid to text her frequently, i mean everyday might be over the top but don't go weeks without talking to her, get what i mean? when i don't talk to a boy i like for a couple days, it makes me want him even more ;) don't be a perv and only talk about getting with girls, and talk about sex the whole time, i HATE when guys do that. it make me think thats all they want. remember be confident but never cocky! you gotta believe in yourself, and go for what you want. i'm glad i could help you out! i wish you the best of luck, i'm sure you will find an amazing girl because you sound like a good guy ♥ LU
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well the thing is...i don't even know why she broke up with me?! all i know is that she ended it ONLINE..because she 'never felt right'..have no idea what that means..and by the way this was over a year ago when me and her went out..lasted just about a month..damn I'm still hooked on her and she's moved on. Oh and sometime in January, we both just stopped talking because she moved on, and I still hadn't. Eventually I did. But around summertime we started talking again, and she became one of my great friends, and then the feelings came rushing back. Plus, I think we'd both find the situation awkward if I randomly came up with the topic that I want to get back with her, I mean, we don't even talk about the topic of relationships, I'm just one of her "best guy friends" ahh and that doesn't help! But ever since she's broken up with her last ex (which was about two weeks ago) she's started to talk to me more often. Ahhhh! I don't know what to doooo!
well she could of started talking to you more because you are one of her best friends. i started talking to my best guy friend after i broke up with my boyfriend. it was because i knew i could talk to him. i mean yes, i broke up with him but we were going out for a year and half, so it was difficult. i just needed someone there, i needed someone who was going to listen and he was the one who understood me. maybe she does just want to be friends, but you will never know if you dont bring it up. i know, it might be weird and awkward. but if she starts talking about boys, just say something like "why did we ever break up anyways..?" and if she says like well i dont know.. just say "well there has to be a reason" and ask her what didnt feel right. and now since you guys are so close, it could be different and tell her that. i know how hard this is, i'm going through something similar and it does suck, so bad! don't be discouraged though. ♥ LU
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