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Now that he's got her...
So I was really close with a guy for almost a year...and I've liked him for the past 3 months. Well a few weeks ago he started going out with this girl from my old school, I know her.
I know he's happy...but I want him so much. I know he liked me at one point, but he never made a move..
Should I tell him how I feel? Even though he's got her now...I just think that I would feel better...but it may be a bad idea?
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Honestly, i've got to disagree with the person below me. I was in a situation like this before, i have a best friend. i was friends with him for about two years and i've always liked him, i knew he was attracted to me but like your guy, he never made a move. well then he started going out with this girl and i was honestly crushed. then i thought oh they'll eventually break up, not knowing that this was going to last for THREE years. yes i had to go three years miserably watching them two be in love. it was honestly the WORST thing i've ever been through. you need to talk to him, maybe he didnt make a move because he didn't think you feel the same way. did you tell him you liked him before? yeah it's bad timing, but it would really be for the best if you told him because you never know what he's thinking. maybe he wants you but he never knew so he thought he had to move on, ya know? i do not want you to go through what i had to go through oh boy it's horrible. if you need anything else feel free to ask! good luck hun ♥ LU
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Put yourself in her shoes. If you were dating him, would you want another girl confessing her feelings for him?
This is a difficult situation, I know, but it's best not to interfere with their relationship. He might get the wrong idea if you do, anyway. That maybe you're just trying to ruin what they have together. Chances are they'll break up eventually, so make your move then.
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