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* hey, my name is Alex.

* i am 16 years young.

* i'm an easy to talk too person.

* i do have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart.

* there's nothing that can describe me completely

* barely make typos.

* when you personally ask me for advice, i read and re-read and try to put myself in your situation to see what i would do :) i try my best, honestly!


I'm only here to give you my honest advice &+ to help others, it's either take it or leave it.

i honestly could care less about my feedback, although it does help me know how to improve myself on giving others advice.


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i am like everyone else, i'll come to a point where i will get on this site and search for some advice as well. so, for those who are on my favorites, i'll turn to you when i need a little advice.

BUT... I do delete those who haven't updated in over 3-5 months.


Thank you :)

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How did Evanescence get their name and what are the names of the people who are in evanescence (besides amy lee of course) and what part do they play?

I honestly don't know how they got their name. But you can go on this site for other information:

http://www.evanescence.com/

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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you know those little sayings that are in people's aim profiles that are all pretty colored and with different fonts and stuff? does anyone know where to find those like a website or something?

please dont tell me google, i have already tried

thanks in advance =]

http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=Aim%20Profiles

That is the best one I could find. Sorry, if it didn't do much.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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on my myspace when i view it it says my age and it says what town i am from.. i recently just moved and want to change the town name

how do i do this??

Log onto your myspace, where your current default picture is (the the right of it)

There is this link that says "Edit Profile" Click that. Once that page opens up. Click on 'Basic Info'

From there next to 'City' and simply type in the city you currently are living in and 'Save All Changes'

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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My dad is gay and married another man!! AHHHH!! I hate being around because he used to be straight!! AHHHHHHHHH!

I don't think you can do anything about it.

He's still the same man just a different orrientation. You know? Even though you hate being around your dad knowing that he was once straight. But there's not much of a difference he's still the same person.

What should really matter is that he's happy.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Is there a website that allows you to read books for free on the internet? I would like to read The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks. I ordered it online but it will take a while to get here and I wanted to get a head start and read it online.

http://www.thenotebookmovie.com/excerpt.html

I think that's it. That's the best one I could find.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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what exactly is blackmail?

From: http://www.dictionary.com

black·mail
–noun 1. any payment extorted by intimidation, as by threats of injurious revelations or accusations.
2. the extortion of such payment: He confessed rather than suffer the dishonor of blackmail.
3. a tribute formerly exacted in the north of England and in Scotland by freebooting chiefs for protection from pillage.



But the way I put it is:

Something you've done wrong; don't want a certain person to know; embarrassing photos, videos, proof of some sort etc, etc, etc. That another person knows of you. If you don't do what they desire, they can show them what you don't want them to reveal.

Hopefully that made sense.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I'm new to this site so bare with me.

I am a 14/f. My sister is 13. My sister always steals (excuse me.."borrows") my clothes to wear to school after I leave for school (I'm in High School &

she's in Middle, so I leave an hour and a half earlier).

This is SO annoying, for several reasons. One, she doesn't ask, she just picks them up and goes. I used to not mind if she asked, but it's gotten so

frequent now that I get agitated, anyway.
Second, when I ASK her if she has any of my clothes, more often than not, she'll lie to me and say no. A lot

of times, I've tested her by finding some of my clothes that she has taken. Then, I would ask her if she wore it, and she'll say, "no." Of course, I

know she's lying because I already found the clothes in her room. Also, whenever I ask, she's always like, "WHY WURR U DIGGIN 'ROUND IN MAH

LAUNDRY" and frankly, that is so hypocritical of her, since almost everyday she digs around in MY closet. And besides, I don't dig around in her laundry:

I find the clothes when emptying her stuff out of the washer/dryer.

The biggest reason of all why I HATE it when she takes my stuff, is she fucking stretches them. I first notied this a couple of months ago - one of my

shirts that she had borrowed was looser on me. I didn't say anything because I thought I was imagining it. But my fear was confirmed when she

borrowed a pair of my shorts, WHICH WAS CUSTOM MADE *FOR ME* (8th grade home ec class..good times :P) and *BY ME*, and after I found them, they no longer fit me as well as they used

to. They slide down when I jump now :( Also, a white shirt that I had went missing last year (I think she borrowed it and never returned it), and I only found it in the basement this past weekend. I've only worn it once, and it was a nice fit on me. Then my sister comes along, TAKES it, and of course, I noticed immediately it was gone because I now have to keep tabs on all my stuff so I know asap when something is missing. Anyway, I washed it and tried it on again, and now she stretched it SO much that the bottom lining of the shirt RIPPED so it's all loose and not that good of a fit anymore. (note: it was a size small, so it was kinda tight on me anyway)

She says she takes my stuff because she doesn't have enough clothes to wear. Bull fucking shit. If she only took the time to find all her clothes and pack them neatly every once in a while, she would see she has just as much stuff as I do, if not more. My closet only appears full because half the stuff in there are stuff I'd only wear to parties & stuff.

So my question is, how can I make her stop taking my stuff, and how can i tell her politely it's because she stretches them? (I NEED to tell her she stretches them, because no other reason, not even for the sake of my privacy, will stop her from raiding my closet, apparently.)

Please don't tell me to tell my parents, my mom neutral and all about "sharin' is carin'" and my dad is on my side but he doesn't enforce it. ty

I am going through the same exact thing, except my sister is 11 and I'm 14.

But I would have to agree with the person below me. Maybe go out and buy a locker and know the combination to it and make sure you keep it away from her.

I would put the clothes I could care less if my sister wore to school in drawers. But sometimes if she just comes in and 'borrows' it CAN get annoying once in a while. Knowing the someone else has YOUR clothes on without asking permission.

I would deffinatly try to get a lock for the door and a spare key to go along with it. That way each time you leave to go to school. Lock it until you come back after school.

I'm hoping after doing that 'key to lock the door' works out that way she can learn a lesson that it would be A LOT better if she asks first.

And about the whole 'stretching your clothes out' part. You should tell her, although you are her older sister that you two have different body images and sizes of clothes and maybe if you two have such a good relationship to one another, take her out shopping (sister-to-sister) and buy some clothes that fit her.

Like you mentioned, she did say she needed more clothes because I'm guessing the reason why she 'borrows' your clothes was because she doesn't have as much as you do.

Hopefully everything works out the way it's suppose to.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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There's this guy Dean who I just started to talk to on myspace. He's two years older and really hot... blonde surf hair and gorgeousss blue eyes. I havent talked to him in person before, but he commented me last night, and we've been talking a lot on myspace. He seems really sweet. We don't ever see eachother in person, and he has different friends. I think I'm starting to like him... is that bad?

In my opionion that is not bad at all.

Maybe you should start talking to him at school, sitting next to eachother at lunch (if you have the same lunch shedule)

Get to know him better on MySpace, School, and Outside of school. But outside of school, maybe bring along a group of friends, or just a friend because you never know, if you two ever see eachother in person.

So it's not bad, at all.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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how do i get them copyrighted?

The second you put it on the internet it is automatically copyrighted.

You can post them up at:
http://www.allpoetry.com

you can post up, poems, stories, anything really. Good luck!

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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On MySpace, how do you change the colour of the background and writing etc.??

Thanks xxx

The best place to do this is at:

http://www.whateverlife.com

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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On piczo whne you type they give you some choices of font. Well, they suck. And there's this code something like
If I type in fiolex girls in there will it actually work? if it does, will only I see it and everyone who comes to that page sees a diff font since it's from my computer and they don't have that font??

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i have been dating my boy for a little over two years now. when we had been dating a year & a half we lots our virginity to eachother. since then we have been having sex about twice a week. i dont really enjoy it. it feels good and all but i could live w. out it. im on the pill but i always get parinoid before i get my period that i might be pregnant. i decided that i dont want to have sex anymore kas it stresses me out so much and i told my boy and he got mad. i knew he would but how do i convince him that we shouldnt anymore? & how can i get him not to be mad at me?

No boyfriend should ever get mad at their girlfriend for just taking a break of having sex. If he really loved you, I'm pretty sure he'd understand that there are more things to life rather than having sex. It seems to me that he obviouslly doesn't care whether or not if you get pregnant.

Maybe when you're convincing him not to be mad at you, is just talk about becoming pregnant and all the responsiblities you two have to go through for just having a kid.

He would have to understand and he has absolutely NO right to be mad at you just because you don't want to have sex. He should respect your answer.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a year now, and I wanted to spice things up. I was thinking about sex games. However, I'm kind of shy about asking him. Would a person who plays sex games tell me if theyre worth the risk of rejection?

You shouldn't be shy about asking him to 'spice things up'. He's you're boyfriend! You should be opened to things. NEVER be shy, that shows guys that you are open to them when you need them or want to 'spice up' the relationship. Most guys find that a total turn-on. I guarentee you that he most deffinatley not reject you at all.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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ok so i see like a hot guy on tv and ill be like "oh he's hot i wanna have sex with him". Like ryan seacrest for example...or simon cowell....or a couple guys at my school....is this normal?

It's completetly normal. There's absolutly nothing wrong with that. I bet everyone does that.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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how do you communicate with your boyfriend when your in the same class? like all lovey dovey, or like.. as friends? idk.. i just got my first boyfriend today and i dunno how to act tomorrow.. he sits near me for like 2 classes and we already had our first kiss.

Try sitting next to him or be as close to him as you can. Write eachother notes. Smile at him, or maybe if you two have your own cell phones, if you're sneaky enough, send text messages to one another. But try not to get caught!

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Hey i have a freeweb site how do u put icons and avatars on it ?? please help i am so lostt. Thanks.

Good icons AND avatars are located at:

http://www.iconator.com

after finding which icons and/or avatars you're looking for; save them onto your folder. Then go to:

http://www.tinypic.com

and upload them there and just simply copy and paste the code to your website, submit, and it should be there.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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i am 18 female. i have meet a boy who is 16 and will be 17 in April. he is a wounderful person great personialty and soo sexy. i'm s0 worried about what everyone is going to say about me and him? right now he is grounded and it's hard for us tohang out with each other and by the time he is gettting off grounded he will be moving over here closer to me and i'll be getting my license back. my question is. should i give this a shot and just say screw what everyone says?
cuz i can honestly see my self fallin in love with this guy

YOu shouldn't care what other people think about the age difference between you two.

'Age is just a number'

I bet most of us heard this before, but i honeslty think that the age does not matter. It's who he is and what you love about him.

Forget what everyone think about it. Just go for it. You only live once!

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Ok Im a 15 year old male. My sister and mom think Im gay. Imagine your own mother telling you that. I'm def not gay I know me better than everyone else. Even my best fruend austin which knows me the most even more than my family knows im straight, My sister says I think like austin, you guys are always together. However, arent best friends supposed to hang out. This is coming from my own mother, well atleas thats what my sister told me what do I say to them when they say that?????/ I know Im not gay?

If this is coming from your sister. She's probably just messing with you. That's what most siblings do.

But confront your mom and see if she is really going around telling your sister that she thinks you're gay.

I don't think anything is wrong with you hanging out with your best friend. It doesn't mean you're gay. I mean.. you two are best friends. That's normal.

But if they still think you're gay, just ignore them. They're just probably going to mess with your mind. Then after a while they'll probably think you know it's a joke.

But if they DO seriously think you're gay. Just tell them straight up.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Do you know any Good sites w/ Really good myspace layouts?

http://www.whateverlife.com/
http://www.createblog.com/
http://www.myspacestop.com/
http://www.headrush-layouts.com/

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I cant even go to www.myspace.com..it says somthing about it benig in available.. or.. yea..somthing in that field. My sisters compuiter, my computer, and the laptop all are doing the same thing... anyone else encountering this?

This has happened to me before. But it's probably just "Undergoing Matience" or something similar to that.

But don't worry it only takes up to half hour for it to come back for members to log on.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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