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Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a year now, and I wanted to spice things up. I was thinking about sex games. However, I'm kind of shy about asking him. Would a person who plays sex games tell me if theyre worth the risk of rejection?
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Most guys love sex games. As long as you dont like bust out a whip and collar, things will be okay. Guys love when girls take control in the bedroom. You guys have been having sex for a year, so you are probabily pretty comfortable with each other. and Yes, they are worth the risk of rejection. It really does help spice things up.
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I've never been with a guy who doesn't want to 'spice things up'. Unless your bf is a little shy himself or 'prudish' then don't worry and just make a move or ask. Some or worth it so decide what you want to do before hand.
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You shouldn't be shy about asking him to 'spice things up'. He's you're boyfriend! You should be opened to things. NEVER be shy, that shows guys that you are open to them when you need them or want to 'spice up' the relationship. Most guys find that a total turn-on. I guarentee you that he most deffinatley not reject you at all.
Hope I helped. :)
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If a girl wants to try new thigns in bed I'm sure no guy would reject. Don't be shy if you guys have been having sex for a year, then you shouldn't be shy to ask him to spice it up a bit. I'm sure that he would not reject you.
I hope I helped.
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i was in the same position..i talked to my guy about spicing things up and he said it was amazingly sexy that i was so open about wanted to do that stuff and talk about it. i guarentee you that he wont reject you. guys think its a major turn on. dont worry about it too much! if you are comfortable having sex with him then you shouldnt feel shy about introducing new things :)
good luck!
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