When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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Ok so 2 of my friends lets call them ella and whittny have told me that they have been smoking one when she was little the other has not stopped yet! So i was just seeing if there was any advise for me because they both told me to tell no one so can anyone help me please? Oh and they r both 12 im male just to tell u (link)
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Smoking isn't illegal or a crime, you know, meaning that you can't for example tell an older person like a counseller or their parents, cause this isn't something completely wrong ,it's just a habit, and even if the whole world tries to make you quit it, only you can quit it by yourself, because usually in smoking, people quit and then pick up the habit again a while later. The only thing you can do is to talk to them about it, tell them its wrong, tell them its unhealthy, how it causes cancer in the future when they are older, how it makes teeth yellow and it makes you cough and makes your voice thicker, basically just tell them the disadvantages, and that they should consider quitting and that you can help them. But if they are not convinced, then i don't think there is anything that you can do, because when they told you about this secret, they didn't tell you because they wanted help, they told you cause they wanted to share something with you, so see, there is a difference. This is someone telling you something, but not asking for help, they like it and they are not looking to change. And maybe if you stay clean and do not smoke, you'd be making some kind of statement, and they'd follow you.
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I have been married a little over a year. I didnt know my husband very long before we got married but I loved him I know I did and I still do but he wont work, he doesnt help with house work unless i beg him to please help me. He complains when i go to work and has to stay home with our daughter. I have a 3 year old son who isnt is. But my son knows him as his father. It just seems like he is constantly yelling at him. Hes spanked him before and left a big hang print but he doesnt touch him now since i yelled about it and made him apoligize. We have been arguing a lot. We have our good days and our bad but it seems to just get worse. Weve has fights were hes taken a part off my car so i couldnt leave but he told me to get the F out. I love him and care about him I just dont know what to do. I am looking for support and advice and your opinion please and thank you (link)
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Well the situation seems a mess, and I'm not married, but i've seen my parents, and your situation reminds me of them.
Maybe your husband is too lazy to go look for a job himself, so maybe you should look for him, go job hunting, try to ask people you know if they have any positions free, what does he work? Maybe if you point out a good opportunity, he won't miss out and he would actually consider. I'm sure he gets bored himself, and that's exactly why he fights with you, cause he doesn't like the concept of you having something to do and being busy and he's just sitting around like that being useless.
And when he treats the kids bad, its again because he can stand himself and he's angry and upset so he takes it out on them. So definetly, the solution is him finding a job to occupy himself, cause then, when he comes back home, you'd be done with work too and you'll see each other and you'll miss each other, and you'll have things to talk about and share, and it will be better than. If you can't talk to him yourself about job offers, maybe you can talk to a family member related to him to talk to him about it, maybe then when he finds everyone nagging him about it, he'd start to consider.
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is it possibale for girls to fart thourgh thier pussys? (link)
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The thing is, that sometimes when you are wet down there, either cause you've just been to the bathroom so you washed down there, or when you are wet sexually, the liquid accumulates so forms bubbles, sometimes you even feel little bubbles popping down there as you move, but its just cause its wet and your legs are closed on it.
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how do you spell " I still love you" in Arabic using the English alphabet please (link)
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Ana lesa ba7ebak.
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i really like my best guy friend. we have one class together and we met this year. Wellmy friends thinks that he likes me but im not 100% sure. i really likehi but i dont want to tell him i like him and make our friendship awkward.
well h walks me to the bus, wesit by each other in art, it seems like he trusts me.
well i was sitting with him and he reaches into his pocket and pulls out this littl piece of paper. I wan't gingto look since its not my business but he was smilingand then he folds it back. well was oviosusly peeking to the point where he could see me (i was hintingfor him to tell me) and he showed me it and it was my phone number ( i gave it to him weeks ago)
dos he like me?
and how can i approach him ad asking him without puttng him on the spot?
thanks, (link)
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I think you shouldn't approach him or ask him. Sometimes when you like someone, you start to force yourself to believe that the opposite person is sending you positive signals, when in reality, they are just being who they are, or a good friend. He might like you and you might be right, but at the same time, he might not, or he might not be ready. I think that you are rushing things, and jumping to conclusions, and sometimes if you do that, then you might make the wrong choice, and end up losing him as a friend as well. Just enjoy the relationship you have as it is, and give it its own time and space to develop, for your feelings and his feelings well develop too, and according to that, you can then start to define what you two really mean to each other. Give it time, and if he really does like you a 100%, HE will approach YOU.
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okay me and my ex boyfriend had a fall out about 7 weeks ago and we ended up breaking up. i was completely heartbroken and he seemed to be too. we stayed friends for a while but recently we just stopped speaking. so anyway i went on a date with this guy from my work and my brother told my ex i had. when i spoke to my ex next he was like thats hurt me, i dont suppose there is anything i can do though. i said well i wanted to get back together with you and you wouldnt so im just moving on with my life. he said well i know youre talking to other guys now. i said well im single so i can speak to as many as i want to. its your loss at the end of the day. like a couple of days later my brother told me hes just gone crazy now likes hes out trying to kiss lots of girls and just literally flirting with any girl he comes across. obviously it hurts because i still love him and ive gone on a couple of dates but im not behaving like he is. do you think hes doing it to ease the pain or something? i just wanna make it clear that im not saying what he is doing is wrong, its his life and no longer anything to do with me, but id hate to think what id said to him had caused this (link)
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No he's not easing any pain, it's simply an act, obviously, anyone can figure that out, and i can even bet you that he almost made a deal with your brother, for your brother to tell you that, but he might not actually be behaving like that, at least not to that extent. He's just trying to make you jealous ,trying to make you feel the same way he felt when he found out that you've already moved on, so he's basically trying to send over the message,saying, if you moved on, then so will I. And since you won't get back together, then the best thing you should do is to completely ignore him, don't let this get to you, act like your brother never even told you anything, and don't talk to him about it or confront him or tell him that it hurts or anything, and soon he'll ask your brother how you took the news and when he finds that you don't care and it didn't get to you, then he'll grow up and stop acting like a child and be a man and then he'll either come tell you that you are the one he really loves and that this is all an act and that he wants to be with you and at that moment, you get to choose whether you want him or not according to how you feel about him and if you are willing to go through this all again, or either he'll just leave you alone and stay away.
And this might not be related to the question, but I think that your brother should start acting as more of a brother to you, than a friend to him, he should defend you and stand up for you, not just send messages from him to you and encourage your ex on whatever plans he's doing, and I say that with all do respect.
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okay all my friends say that i should go out with another friend i have you see cause were always getting into fights that dont last more then a day and everyone says we should just get togeather but idk if i like him like that and then we sit togeather and when we fight i tell him to leave but he never leaves and he always tells me he loves me and hes always with me and they say he tries to make me jelous by talking about my cuz that he hasnt seen and my bestfriend now is that a crush or is he just weird like that ??????? (link)
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I think it sounds like more than friends. I think HE likes you more than friends, but the question is, do YOU like HIM more than friends? It doesn't seem to be so. It seems that you just see him as a friend, cause if you saw otherwise, you wouldn't be here questioning this, on the contrary, you would've been ecstatic that he feels the same thing that you feel and you would've opened up to each other about your feelings.
Whether he likes you or not more than friends, is not the problem here, the problem is what YOU feel, cause say that he does like you more than friends, but you don't, well then how is that something good? This is something entirely up to you, depending on the way you feel, don't rush things and don't jump to conclusions, give the relationship between you time and space to develop on its own, for your feelings might develop with it, but don't force feelings, just enjoy it while it lasts, don't keep wondering what he thinks of you, if he really does love you, he'll come around and tell you so, but for now, you are friends, and that's how you feel about it, so don't try to force something and try to find signals and proofs to convince yourself, your friends do not control you or tell you what to do, you control your own emotions.
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Me and my boyfriend have known each other for awhile. Dating for almost 4 months now. We used to see each other a lot, but now he started college and has a part time job. That was fine.. it was a little difficult to set up when we'll see each other. Now his sister is moving in and she has two kids who she will have my boyfriend watch. It's bad enough of that.. but she doesn't have a car, and she might take the car which will make it even harder for us to get together. If she has a job, she might have him watch them when she's away. Plus her room is right next to his, which will make things weird if I stay over. We wont be able to stay up too late or watch tv, talk too loud. Honestly.. it's just a pain. I feel as if I wont see him anymore. I can't stand it. Advice please? (link)
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I know how that feels, it sounds awful, but your just scared and your hating the situation. But it sounds like you love each other and you always try to work things out together, so I'm sure that's just another problem that you're going to work out. There is no way that you're going to lose him because his sister moved in or that you might see him a little less than before. I know it sucks, but usually people who love each other, bare sucky situations lol to be with each other. Maybe things will just have to be a little different, you can still stay over, but try to keep things a bit quiet, maybe eventually his sister will move out again, maybe its just temporary, or maybe she'll get her own place. All in all, the situation will be temporary, maybe you can suggest getting a babysitter or something to watch the kids. Or maybe you could get to know the kids and you can hang out together while watching the kids, its still kind of fun I promise. But I don't want you to worry, I know how it feels freaking out that you'll see each other less, which means things will be less fun, which means a probability of losing each other, but eventually things get worked out, and you just find that you worried over nothing. I'm sure he's not liking the situation either, so you should bare this together, for each other, for his sake.
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My ex boyfriend broke up with me around 3 months ago. Things got quite complicated between us, we had a lot of stress and whatever. I still wanted to be with him, and I expressed that. Throughout the time we split, he still text me a couple of times a week. I made it clear I didn't want to wait around for him to decide whether he wanted to get back together or not, i'd given him enough time. He disagreed with me and said "I still want you in my life" and all of that rubbish. He still told me he loved me whenever I saw him and on a number of occasions he said all he wants is to be with me, he just can't see past the last week of our relationship (when we argued constantly - bare in mind we hadn't argued at all before this) So I explained we wouldn't speak to eachother. I don't want to be friends with someone who I have a lot of feelings for. He said he was upset about that and said I was being mean. I ignored him and a week later he sent me his new phone number. I made it more than clear that I didn't want anything more to do with him so do you think he sent it to me so he gets a reaction from me? I'm now completely out of his life, whereas before I was always "there" (link)
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I just think he's confused, I think that he broke up with you and then immediately regretted it. Because sometimes we don't really appreciate the person we are with except after they're gone, and that's exactly how he feels. When you were together, its like he didn't really see you, and he didn't care if you fought or if he hurt you, but then when you were out of his life, he suddenly realized that there is this gap and that there is something missing. If you get back together, he might change this time, and he might actually appreciate you, but at the same time, he might not, cause some people go back to their old selves once they have you back.
So the thing is, if you're sure of your feelings that you want him completely out of your life, then make it clear, do not respond to his message about that new number, and just completely ignore him, and eventually he'll gave up and stay away. But if you do like him, and obviously he still has some feelings for you and is really trying to get you back, then maybe you should give him a chance, he looks like he really loves you, its not everyday that you find someone who fights for someone like that, no matter how many times he gets rejected or you push him away.
So having him in your life or not, is up to you, your choice.
And yes, if you do respond to that message and accept his new number, then its as if your sending him a positive signal and giving him a second chance, but if you ignore it, then i think he'll get the point that you really don't want to have anything to do with him anymore.
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how would i say "I still love you to a man? (link)
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You want me to translate ' I still love you' to arabic? Well you say 'انا لسه بحبك'.
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How do you study for O level math IGCSE?
I know you have to go through the pastpapers, but how else can you prepare, what topics do you focus on in math?
Thank you. (link)
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Well you study each chapter from your school book, and solve the 'by topic' atlas on each chapter, and then at the end, you solve the past papers. Its usually about solving as much as you can, ask your teacher about reference books you can buy or borrow from your library where you could find more problems. I've been there done that, i was an IGCSE student, AS math is much easier and more fun than O.L, believe it or not lol. So the trick is just to solve as much as you can.
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Hey , can someone please tell me a good program to download free music , i've tried limewire but that dosent work and i also have tries ares and frost wire , but then dont work. Can someone please tell me a good program , or even page . thanks =D (link)
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http://www.torrents.to/
Torrents!
You can download any music, albums or songs, movies,books, whatever you want.
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I am a 25 year old female. And it's this guy I've been seeing for the past month. Ok here goes... Our first time being togeather we went out to eat. And everytime following we only went to his place. We have been intimate everytime we see each other and we only see each other like at night mainly after ten at night.
I have gained really deep feelings for this guy in such a short peiord of time. I usually go over his house because he lives alone, and my aunt lives with me until she gets her own home. And when I do go over we usually watch a movie. But what I've come to notice is he don't cuddle with me during the movie he don't put his arm around me only time he wants to cuddle is mainly when we are about to have sex. And we mainly have sex after we finish watching the movie. And another thing I notice is that he shows no emotion towards me. He's always getting phone calls late at night and he runs in the room to answer the phone.
And just the other day when I was over, I forced him to have a talk with me. I asked him how he really felt about me and I told him I tiered of just having sex and I didn't want to this time. So he told me told me thathe had to meet with his brother and I had to leave. I was hurt and really confused.
And yesterday I found out my best friend of twenty years past away. And when I got the news I was over his house. He didn't confort me he didn't hold me and I was really crying... He just took me home and he still haven't call to check up on me. It's easy to just leave a guy alone that you don't really care about but... When theres feeling involved it's always so hard for me to leave. Usually their the ones who leave me and that's how I usually move on. And it's so hard right now alot of things in my life haven't been going right. What should I do? And how can I do it? (link)
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First of all, about your best friend, I am so sorry for your loss, there is nothing you can do about it but remember her with the good, and pray for her to be in heaven.
Second of all, about the guy, from what he said, he doesn't love you, this is not love, but it could be several things. It could be him wasting time, or it could be him only using you for the sex but indirectly, covering his act up by watching a movie or doing anything else so he wouldn't look like he just wants you for the sex, or he could be involved in another complicated relationship maybe where he isn't satisfied sexually or it could be a long distance relationship or something like that.
Either ways, he doesn't love you, but apart from that, he doesn't even have humanity enough to care for you when something like your friend dying happens. Any human being, even if he doesn't love you or care for you, a stranger would still comfort you in a situation like that, and apparently he's some freak who just spends with you time to get laid and to cum or something and be satisfied.
I advise you to leave him completely and to lose complete contact with him, and do not talk to him or go over to his house again, and don't even confront him about it, cause obviously he'll hide from your confrontment like how he did last time, when he was probably not going over to his brother. And i mean, the phonecalls he gets, and how he leaves to go answer them, then its obvious he's doing something wrong or is involved with someone else.
I know its hard letting go, but its amazing and a great feeling to be with someone else who loves you and would cherish you and respect you and cuddle you while watching a movie, and care for you, and be the shoulder you want when something bad happens to you like your friend passing away. See the bad in him and what a horrible freak person he is, and please back out and leave him for good. Try to take a break from everything, especially after your friend passing away and everything, if you can just sit alone for a while, not in a depressed suicidal way, but in a way to figure things out. Don't rush into relationships and intentionally look for love, but let love come on its own and find you, because then that would be true love, you can't force love out of someone.
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omg thank you sooo much :)
i LOVE your advices soo much :))))
this is all true. am just going to let go of him because its ovious he only wants sex. i wished you were able to talk to him and make pretend it was me . so you can see how he is. but thanks so muchh :) there is this kid he is cute and he is 20. he always writes to me thru myspace but he takes long to reply but its ok because he is busy. but he always tells me to chill with him . on monday which is tomorrow we are going to chill and am going to see what happens. i really want to go out with him. but i need to see what can happen. (link)
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"Chill" ? What do you mean by Chill? What does HE mean by Chill? Chill has several meanings lol, it can be as in hanging out together, or it can be as in having sex together. I'm not sure what he or you mean by it, i'm sure YOU mean well by it, but you haven't specified.
I'm guessing this is the first time you'll go out with him, and that you met him over myspace or something, so practically he's a stranger, no matter if you've talked alot before and you think you know him. So first time dates should always be outside in the open, like among people, no houses or dark places lool.
So yes you can go out with him, I can't really tell you much, cause i know nothing about him, but lets just say that you can go out and get to know each other and maybe he'll be cool and u'd like him, or maybe you wouldn't actually be that into him as you thought you were, when you actually meet him in person. So its worth a shot, you've got nothing to lose, just be careful and be sure of his intentions. He might be the one :D
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on facebook and ur friends list, what are the mutual friends? i have no idea what they are, and how to be one (link)
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A mutual friend is a friend you have on your list which is in common in someone else's list. For example, if you have a friend called liza on your list, and then someone else has liza too as a friend, then she is a mutual friend between you both. You can't become one intentionally, its not a function on facebook or an application. And you appear as a mutual friend on other people's list, you can't appear as that on your own list.
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well im 15. and i had sex for the first time. im wondering..could i be pregnant? i mean..i havent gotten my period yet..so..idk..could i be prengnat? thanks. (link)
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Well when is your period due? is it very late?
Did you use protection while having sex? A condom maybe? Did the condom break while you had sex?
You can be pregnant IF he cummed inside of you, and a possibility if he cummed outside near your vagina opening. To be on the safe side, you can take a pregnancy test, you can find that in any pharmacy, its not 100% accurate, but it will do just fine for now.
Other than that, if you can go to a doctor, then consult one,although i think you are too young, so that might be a problem for you.
And if you didn't use protection, use protection next time, it would've been best if you'd consulted someone about protection before having sex.
Hope i helped, if you need anything else, please be free to contact me. Best of luck
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I'm 13 and i cut myself,drink, suffer from depression, and have suicidal thoughts. i need help but i don't want to speak to anyone because no one knows. and i want to stop without some one even knowing i had this. how do i do this?? (link)
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When i was about your age, i had suicidal tendencies too, and i used to be so depressed, and i had those angry thoughts and i held grudges against people, and at times i thought i was losing my mind. And i couldn't tell my parents cause i didn't want anyone to know.
But i did tell my school counseller, and he really used to listen to me, and sometimes i even wrote him letters expressing how i felt and my thoughts, and he'd read them, and follow up with me, like he was my private shrink,and it felt good, something i looked forward to. You know sometimes, its not just about someone telling you some advice for you to stop doing what your doing, but its about someone you regularly talk to, and whenever you feel upset, he'd be there for you, so it makes you feel like your not alone and that there is someone there for you, and that makes you feel good, that alone makes you feel like your improving, makes you want to do what you do less, cause this person encourages you when you look forward to talking to this person again, and you share with him how you've improved or how your changing.
So it doesn't have to be a family member,and it can't be a shrink, because your too young and then you'd need to tell your parents, so it could be a friend, or a counseller in your school, or sometimes there are those hotlines for advice. You just need to talk to someone, you need to know that someone is there for you, cause this is what will make you feel better and encourage you to stop what your doing.
And in the meanwhile, try to occupy your time, like pick up a sport, or some activity, online or in real life, or focus on your studies more. Find something you like to do, what about art or music? Usually when you like something, or you have something that you do and takes up your time, it distracts you, and thats exactly what you need.
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my name is angie , and am 17 . i thought you knew it hehe :)
and yeaa i wished it was that easy. but he keeps telling me that he wants to be with me and that he does loves me. i dont know if tis is all true . he tells em it is. and that if i dont want nothign with him just to tell him and thast it. ahh am so confused iw ished i knew if its true what he is saying. (link)
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Its not, its only temporarily true, because people usually appreciate what they have once they lose it, and he doesn't have you now, but once he does have you back, its all gonna be the same again as it was, and you'll regret then getting back with him.
I've been there and done that, i know how they think, he'll get back to you to have sex with you,it'll be fun at first cause he wants it, so it'll be exciting, then he'll start treating you bad all over again cause he'll get bored, and he might meet someone else and sleep with someone else like he did before,because if he can cheat on you once, he can do it a million times.
And i know that you are trying to think the best of him, and that maybe he made a mistake once,but that he's still a good person, and maybe he regrets what he did and he wants to make up for it. Well yes maybe you are right, i didn't say he's a bad person, he's a good person, we are all good people from inside, we just have our flaws. But its not about his flaws here, its not about that he cheated on you or slept with someone else,it could've been just once and he wouldn't do it again, but its about how he doesn't really love you and how he just wants sex from you. So you are basically trying here so hard to build something here which doesn't even have a base, the basics are missing, there is no love in the first place.
And i know baby, that no matter what i will say or how hard i will convince you that he doesn't really love you and that you are not meant to be together, and no matter how many bad things i can name in him, you will still think differently and you will still consider getting back with him, because you love him and you are blinded by that.
But i promise that what i'm saying is the truth and is the right thing to do, and i know, and i've been there, and thats probably why i work here, to prevent people from repeating my own mistakes and to help them benefit from my own experiences. So trust me, and let go, tell him that you want nothing with him, and for him to leave you. Didn't he say that if you told him that,he would really leave you? Well then tell him that, and tell him not to contact you at all,and that you are really done with it, because you should be angie, because seriously, you are wasting all your time here when you could be with someone else, someone so much better, some one that you wouldn't have to waste your time figuring if you should be with him or not because he cheated on you, because that other person is gonna be faithful and loyal and will really love you at heart, and you deserve that.
Hope i helped, you know you can text me again if you'd like.
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does sex give u much pleasure? (link)
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Well it depends on several things, starting with who you are having sex with, if its someone you love, so you'll have so many feelings to share with him and it will be great.
Depends on the positions, there are positions which give more pleasure than others, either to u or your partner or both.
Sometimes its a pleasure when both partners cum at the same time.
Its a pleasure if you like it rough using toys and handcuffs.
It does hurt the very first time, when your still a virgin, and the first time is usually just about getting opened, and nothing more, like just one round of sex, and not more, so you wouldn't get hurt cause you'd be bleeding and stuff. But later, you can keep doing it several times in a row.
So supposedly, it gives anyone pleasure, but depending on how each one defines pleasure, and how each one can experience that pleasure in their own way of having sex that makes them pleased.
Hope i helped, if you need anything else, please be free to contact me.
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ok so i have a problem...is it normal for your vagina to smell? even when you take showers every other day and wash "down there"??? also...what do gynecologists do cuz i am scared to go to one!!! (link)
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Hey baby i think its normal. You haven't mentioned whether you masterbuate or do you have sex or what exactly that could cause the smell, but its normal in either cases. You should wash well after using the bathroom either after urinating or masterbuating or after you have sex, and sometimes if you don't usually pee alot everyday, because there are some people who just go to the bathroom like twice a day,once in the morning and once at night, so thats not good, cause they don't wash up regularly down there, so try to use the bathroom more to wash up,instead of like showering your whole body.
Also about the shower,make it regular that you shower once everyday, and wash well done there, use showergel and soap.
If this still continues, then you should consult a doctor, he won't really do you any harm or anything, and he'll keep your case confidential, and you can tell him whatever you want, he'll just check it out, maybe he'll recommend some kind of cream or something,but its not like you'll have to do something major like surgery or something, cause there is nothing that can make the smell go away, the smell either comes from the cum you secrete from your vagina, or from your urine. So you can just use scented products to overcome the smell.
Other than that, it could be something else that the doctor will be able to diagnose when you go to him, might be something in your vagina causing the smell, whatever something that we can't diagnose from here, so its better to be on the safe side and book an appointment with a doctor.
Hope i helped, please be free to contact me. Best of luck :D and update me if you'd like.
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