okay all my friends say that i should go out with another friend i have you see cause were always getting into fights that dont last more then a day and everyone says we should just get togeather but idk if i like him like that and then we sit togeather and when we fight i tell him to leave but he never leaves and he always tells me he loves me and hes always with me and they say he tries to make me jelous by talking about my cuz that he hasnt seen and my bestfriend now is that a crush or is he just weird like that ???????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Lola answered Wednesday October 27 2010, 4:49 pm: I think it sounds like more than friends. I think HE likes you more than friends, but the question is, do YOU like HIM more than friends? It doesn't seem to be so. It seems that you just see him as a friend, cause if you saw otherwise, you wouldn't be here questioning this, on the contrary, you would've been ecstatic that he feels the same thing that you feel and you would've opened up to each other about your feelings.
Whether he likes you or not more than friends, is not the problem here, the problem is what YOU feel, cause say that he does like you more than friends, but you don't, well then how is that something good? This is something entirely up to you, depending on the way you feel, don't rush things and don't jump to conclusions, give the relationship between you time and space to develop on its own, for your feelings might develop with it, but don't force feelings, just enjoy it while it lasts, don't keep wondering what he thinks of you, if he really does love you, he'll come around and tell you so, but for now, you are friends, and that's how you feel about it, so don't try to force something and try to find signals and proofs to convince yourself, your friends do not control you or tell you what to do, you control your own emotions. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Wednesday October 27 2010, 5:55 am: Hey there,
It sounds as if this guy is just attached to you, not in love with you. If you feel he isn't a guy that you would be interested in, then don't bother. A guy should treat you much better than that if you do want to date him and just because you sit together doesn't mean there is a relationship forming. If you two are having real fights on a daily basis (not teasing ones) and he is annoying you, that is another good sign to stay away. I believe it is possible he may have a crush on you, for some guys are jerks only because they like you. This could be the slight case here. I'm not saying this is a reason to like him and I am positive that people should trust their instincts. This could be infatuation too, but believe me... it doesn't sound like love <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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