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my name is angie , and am 17 . i thought you knew it hehe :)
and yeaa i wished it was that easy. but he keeps telling me that he wants to be with me and that he does loves me. i dont know if tis is all true . he tells em it is. and that if i dont want nothign with him just to tell him and thast it. ahh am so confused iw ished i knew if its true what he is saying.
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Its not, its only temporarily true, because people usually appreciate what they have once they lose it, and he doesn't have you now, but once he does have you back, its all gonna be the same again as it was, and you'll regret then getting back with him.
I've been there and done that, i know how they think, he'll get back to you to have sex with you,it'll be fun at first cause he wants it, so it'll be exciting, then he'll start treating you bad all over again cause he'll get bored, and he might meet someone else and sleep with someone else like he did before,because if he can cheat on you once, he can do it a million times.
And i know that you are trying to think the best of him, and that maybe he made a mistake once,but that he's still a good person, and maybe he regrets what he did and he wants to make up for it. Well yes maybe you are right, i didn't say he's a bad person, he's a good person, we are all good people from inside, we just have our flaws. But its not about his flaws here, its not about that he cheated on you or slept with someone else,it could've been just once and he wouldn't do it again, but its about how he doesn't really love you and how he just wants sex from you. So you are basically trying here so hard to build something here which doesn't even have a base, the basics are missing, there is no love in the first place.
And i know baby, that no matter what i will say or how hard i will convince you that he doesn't really love you and that you are not meant to be together, and no matter how many bad things i can name in him, you will still think differently and you will still consider getting back with him, because you love him and you are blinded by that.
But i promise that what i'm saying is the truth and is the right thing to do, and i know, and i've been there, and thats probably why i work here, to prevent people from repeating my own mistakes and to help them benefit from my own experiences. So trust me, and let go, tell him that you want nothing with him, and for him to leave you. Didn't he say that if you told him that,he would really leave you? Well then tell him that, and tell him not to contact you at all,and that you are really done with it, because you should be angie, because seriously, you are wasting all your time here when you could be with someone else, someone so much better, some one that you wouldn't have to waste your time figuring if you should be with him or not because he cheated on you, because that other person is gonna be faithful and loyal and will really love you at heart, and you deserve that.
Hope i helped, you know you can text me again if you'd like.
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