Question Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 12:55 am
Ok so 2 of my friends lets call them ella and whittny have told me that they have been smoking one when she was little the other has not stopped yet! So i was just seeing if there was any advise for me because they both told me to tell no one so can anyone help me please? Oh and they r both 12 im male just to tell u
Lola answered Friday October 29 2010, 3:20 am: Smoking isn't illegal or a crime, you know, meaning that you can't for example tell an older person like a counseller or their parents, cause this isn't something completely wrong ,it's just a habit, and even if the whole world tries to make you quit it, only you can quit it by yourself, because usually in smoking, people quit and then pick up the habit again a while later. The only thing you can do is to talk to them about it, tell them its wrong, tell them its unhealthy, how it causes cancer in the future when they are older, how it makes teeth yellow and it makes you cough and makes your voice thicker, basically just tell them the disadvantages, and that they should consider quitting and that you can help them. But if they are not convinced, then i don't think there is anything that you can do, because when they told you about this secret, they didn't tell you because they wanted help, they told you cause they wanted to share something with you, so see, there is a difference. This is someone telling you something, but not asking for help, they like it and they are not looking to change. And maybe if you stay clean and do not smoke, you'd be making some kind of statement, and they'd follow you. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
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