Question Posted Thursday October 28 2010, 12:45 am
ok so i have this friend who i just met about 2 months ago, and ever since ive been obsessed with her. its not like i stalk her because were actally good friends and at least i think she likes me too. the only thing is i really like her too much (not in a lesbian way, i just mean in a friendly way) like i get jelous when other people talk to her and my day doesnt feel complete without seeing her. like if she doesnt come to school one day because shes sick, my day is siginificantly worse. i realize its a good thing to like your friends but i spend way too much time obsessesing over with person and waiting to see them or for them to text me or anything.
what do i do?
pleas help!
Lola answered Friday October 29 2010, 3:30 am: I know exactly how you feel, I've been obsessing over my friend whose a girl, for 4 years now, and I'm still not over her, even though we broke up our friendship in the end, cause of certain reasons, I never got over her, and I always tried to have her back, but she wouldn't. I just love her so much, that even my own family thought that it might being something lesbian, but its not, and i'm the only one who understands that, she's just amazing, everything about her, and its like i want her to myself and no one else. I wrote about 10 stories about her, and I even counted the days I cried over her when we broke up, it was crazy, but it was never lesbian like.
There is nothing wrong to love someone so much, or have a person who makes your day and makes you happy, just enjoy it, stop questioning what's between you, cause what's between you is completely normal, so enjoy it and live as much as you can of it, and take this advice from me, don't ever lose her, don't ever hurt her in anyway or fight with her, just don't lose her, cause losing her would kill you and you'd regret it for the rest of your life. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
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