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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

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OHkay so I really like this guy. Currently he is dating one of my friends. the girl and I aren't really that close but we are on the same basketball team. The problem is in his relationship...they dont talk. I think the only reason he asked her out is because he liked him. But i could just think that because I like him.

Should i tell that I like him now, after they break up, or never?

I dont want to do it now because I dont want to ruin a friendship, but at the same time we are going to different highschools next year and I wont see him.

PLEASE HELP!

This is a hard one, but I would wait until they break up because they probably will soon since they obviously arn't going well.

Think about it like this, if you were going out with a guy, would you want her to go and tell your boyfriend she likes him to get him interest in her? Probably not.

So just let things happen and take it from there.

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I had a scary dream last night:
was looking in the mirror and there was this lil peice of skin hanging out of my face and i thought it was dead skin so I pulled it out then there was more then i kept pulling and pulling til i looked in the mirror and i had no skin on my face just blood everywhere..

Does anyone have a dream dictionary to tell me what my dream meant? I could look online but I don't know what word to look it up..

I searched Blood and this is what came up:

To see blood in your dream, represents life, love, and passion as well as disappointments. If you see the word "blood" written in your dream, then it may refer to some situation in your life that is permanent and cannot be changed.

To dream that you are bleeding or losing blood, signifies that you are suffering from exhaustion or that you are feeling emotionally drained. It may also denote bitter confrontations between you and your friends. Your past actions has come back to haunt you. Women often dream of blood or of someone bleeding shortly before or during their periods and when they are pregnant.

To dream that you are drinking blood, indicates that you have a fresh burst of vitality and power.

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Okay, I'm a 14/f.
The guy I like is a senior, he's a good friend of mine, hes 18 going on 19 this June. I won't be 15 until August.

I really like him, but unfortunately, he is obsessed (and believe me when I say that) with my best friend. She's 15 and a year above me in school.

Anyways, she doesn't think of him as more than a brother and has told him this multiple times yet he can't get over her. She wants to go to prom with a guy she dated and he's actually thinking about asking her. However, the senior I like has already jumped and asked her, but she hasn't answered.

I don't know what to do.
Should I tell her she is leading him on if she goes with him?
Am I too young for him, do I have a chance?

I think you should tell her because she would be leading him on and she should go to prom with someone that means more to her romantically anyway. Just don't be mean about it and let her know you like him also.

Usually I would say yes you are probably to young for him but he obviously likes your friend who is your age so just give it some time. Good luck :]

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i hate my height..i'm 5 6...i hate being this tall...i'm 14/f...is there any ways of being shorter??

Buy shoes that don't add height like flats, etc.

Also bend your legs a little when your standing, like stand on one hip if you get what I'm saying.

Besides that I don't know what to tell you. When you're older you will appreciate your height most likely :]

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Okay, i'm like soooo in love with the guy who lives next door to me. Last summer we talked sum and we told each other that we liked each other, but now, we don't talk at all. And, i still like him....ALOT!!! How do i get him to talk to me again???

Ring his doorbell and ask if he wants to hangout. I know that will probably be a litte nervewracking but once you guys start talking again it will most likely pick up from where it ended. Good luck :]

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what are herpes and how do people get them

It's a sexually transmitted disease.
You get it from having sex with someone who already has it.

Read this if you're still confused..

http://www.niaid.nih.gov/factsheets/stdherp.htm

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my itunes is all of a sudden saying that my ipod is corrupted? and it says i need to restore it, but that will erase all the songs i have and i cant do that. whats wrong and is there another way to fix it?

Restoring your ipod doesn't erase all your songs, it's just like refreshing your ipod.
When mine froze I had to do that, trust me it will work :]

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where can i buy etnies shoes? ebsides journeys and pac sun?

Yeah Pac Sun has them, that would probably be the easiest :]

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13/f
5'2, 115 pounds

i think im fat. i told my dad that i'm gonna go out for track, and he said that im too fat. i dont know if hes joking or not but i really don't care. what should i do? don't say talk to my dad or anything cuz im not.

You arn't fat trust me. I'd say he was kidding. Parents don't usually tell their kids they are fat (beside jokes maybe) so don't worry about it.

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how old do you have to be to work at stores such as abercrombie, hollister, or limited too?

Sixteen :]

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Ever since I got my first tattoo 3 years ago, I have bee dying to get another. I know basically what I want and where I want it at.. but I'm having problems coming up with a design for it?

Basically, I want it to be in pink and black. I want a pink heart, and either inside it, around it, or next to it I want the words 'Everything Happens For A Reason."

So my question is, does anyone know of any websites that have really good examples of pics of tattoos, or maybe a website that will help you design them? I'm really bad at drawing things up & I want this tattoo to look awesome.. since I'm obviously going to have it for the rest of my life.

Any help would be appreciated, thank you!

This is for a temporary design for a kids party but it tells you how to make the design on the computer so this might help. Sorry it's all I could find.

http://www.microsoft.com/canada/home/projectsandcrafts/2.5.17_designyourowntemporarytattoos.aspx

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what does viagra mean??

It's for guys who need help getting 'happy'

:]

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i no the age of consent is 16 but if iam 16 and the guy that i want to have sex with is 22 is that still ok?

It's illegal since you're a minor and that guy shouldn't even be thinking of having sex with you. It's completely wrong. Sorry

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I think I'm a lesbian. I've read in the Bible that homosexuality is wrong and that if you commit the sin of homosexuality, the you will be sent to hell. But then in other Bible's, they say it is natural and that God will love you no matter what.What should I belive, that homosexuality is wrong, or that it is natural?

You will probably get different answers for this question because people believe different things, but personally I think God will love you no matter what.

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ok so i just got new furniture in my room. most of it is from this collection:

http://www.thomasville.com/Item2942/Bridges-2.0-Bedroom-Chest.aspx

I have that chest, a dresser, a desk, a night table, and then a hand painted greenish with flowers lingerie chest and an iron silver headboard (full size bed) My room is not huge so I feel kind of closed in with all of this furniture. I love all the space on the desk and dresser and the furniture is all really pretty.

But what I dislike is how my room looks like it belongs to an old woman. Haha it just looks so boring. Sophisticated maybe? But I don't want that. I am allowed to get a new bedspread... mine now is SO boring it's white with blue and purple flowers. And my walls are just a boring light ivy green color. I want to add more color without it being too much. I don't know if I want a theme or anything. But I have almost an entire empty wall space above my desk to utilize and with enough convincing I may be able to repaint my room. I'm 14, and I would like my room to fit that! Thanks for any help!

Definately add COLOR.
It will lighten up the room and make it more cheerful instead of boring.
Here are some colors to chose from just to get an idea.
http://www.w3schools.com/html/html_colornames.asp

And also add personal touches around your room.
Examples:

Pictures frames, Mirrors, A Rug, Curtains, anything you want.

Have fun! :]

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I want to know If its okay to try and get to know my husbands daughter of 17years. He and his girlfriend at the time had this child well he was never allowed to see this child and now after 17years later she the girlfriend decides to contact him and ask for child support, they finally met and everything seemed fine until my husband said some things that the girlfriend didnt like and now the daughter doesnt respond to him, she the 17yr old just found out who her real father was the mother lied to her or didnt tell her who her real father was until now and when they met for the first time they both wanted to get to know each other and get to know my children. I guess my husband told the girlfrien that he couldnt forgive her since she wouldnt allow his dying mother a picture of her 1st granddaughter and she died not knowing what she looked like. I want nothing to do with the mother and so does my husband but his 17year seems to be holding resentments towards him from her mother, I guess she is siding with her mother and is avoiding my husband I want to help her and my husband to get to know each other but I just cant seem to I feel like I'm interfering. Now it seems as the girlfriend wants to get with my husband in a romantic sort of way because she is constantly calling him and not about their daughter she is being selfish. What can I do or should I do anything? Do I just let it be and let time takes it course, the 17yr has been emailing my oldest 14yr old and seems to be getting along but I can sense that the 17yr old is hurting, the girlfriend had a dysfunctional family she didnt know who her father was and her mother was a drug addict and alcoholic alot of things happened between my husband and her and he had alot of resentments towards her and cause his depression to become severe due to this and now after 17years later she decides to come looking for him and disrupt my life. I am 41, a mother of 6 children I dont know how to handle this situation I am at a total loss here. Am I wrong to have such terrible thoughts about this "other woman in my husbands life,I dont understand how another person can hurt another so badly in this way and ask for forgiveness after this many years because she needs money...but I dont want those feelings to be toward his daughter if anything I want to console her that its okay and that we all want to get along I want a family like relationship to develop between my husband and his daughter

Don't feel bad for thinking badly of her because your're right. She caused multiple people pain for many years and now suddenly she thinks everyone can just forgive her. She needs to learn how to take responsibility for her immaturity.

I don't think you should try to get to into the daughters life for right now. Just because she already has a lot to take in and she might take it the wrong way, thinking you want to replace her mother, etc. For now just let things happen how they are supposed to and eventually things will fall into place. It's already off to a good start with your oldest and her getting along, maybe that will start things up.

I wish you luck and I hope I helped you.

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does anyone watch the show THE SURREAL LIFE??

(SEASON 2)

because i just saw it today, and i was wondering how long the people lived in the house for?

it says 12 days, but that seems too short!

This question got me curious because I watch that show and that seemed really short.
So I googled it :]
And I found this in an article about the Surreal Life..

"The premise of The Surreal Life – in case you have a life of your own or taste or pride – is essentially a rip-off of MTV’s The Real World, the grandfather of reality shows. Six former "celebrities" – a term used extremely generously in this context – agree to spend twelve days living in the same house, keeping each other company and allowing TV cameras to film all the wacky hijinks that ensued."

So apparently it is twelve days.

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ok i have this so called guy friend who likes my good friend, my friend knew that he has a crush on her and he knows it too
and him and i always talk about her and i always listen and trying to help him out and he said this to me after my friend told me to tell him:
"friend": she said she likes someone ?
me : yeah
"friend": : ic...
me : yeah
me: ey no meeting in the library for a while
me : cause people are being UGh
me: so annoying
"friend": : well theres no need to talk to you anymore
me: as in?
"friend": : i only talk to you cause of her...
me: icic
me: umm ok then
"friend": : nice knowin you
and he signed out so was he using me?

Well I don't really understand your guy's conversation but I will try my best.
To me it sounds like yes he was 'using' you.
Because one he found out your friend liked him he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, am I right?
I'm not sure what to tell you except to watch out for people like that.
I hope that helped :]

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where did you get your layout i really want one like it=D

haha thank you=]


you give good advice.

Aw thankyou :]

And I made my layout, I just played around with the colors and layouts they give you until I got what I liked.

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would you say its slutty for a 15 yr old girl to be regularly hooking up with a 19 yr old guy ... but they have no interest in getting in a relationship with one another?

Naw but it is illegal.

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