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Hiii everyone (= im Brianna but people mostly call me bee & im the sweet 16. i was born 9 - 9 - 90. i have two younger brothers which makes me the only girl and the oldest. im in 10th grade at HAHS. i plan to either be a pediatrican or an accountant. i have a problem trusting boys. just boys in general. i think because of my past relationship, it made me realize how easy it is to believe a lie. but dont get me wrong, i will give a boy a chance, i just learnd not to believe everything someone says unless its proven to me. i dont really have a best friend actually i consider my mom my best friend. i tell her everything and i cant picture myself hiding something from her. i plan to get married eventually but no kids. im a unique person and i could be trusted with anything. i like to help people out and make them realize things from a different view. so thats what brings me to this site. if you have any questions or need help with a situation, im here (=

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theres this girl i like and i think she likes me too but she said she cant have a boyfreind till shes 16, i want to ask her out but shes a realy nice girl and i am kinda shy what do i do?

maybe her parents are the one that made this decision and if they were, i think you should respect it. also even if it wasnt her parents decision, maybe it was hers`. she probably does like you too if thats the feeling your getting but she could be wanting to focus more on her school work or her friends. im not saying wait for so many years, give it more time, more time to see if the feeling really is mutual and if its something that you really want. i wish you the best of luck.



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ok so im going out with this guy and if we are not hanging out he always wants to be on the phone i mean i love hanging out with him 24/7 and i LOVE talking to him on the phone but i am a human and people like there space so sometimes when i need time to my self i ask him if i can get off the phone and hes like .." why ,are you just trying to get rid of me " or he says stupid crap like.." ok whatever bye"
and it makes me so angry because i really like talking to him but it makes me mad that he wont even let me take a shower because he thinks that i am not really trying to take a shower, im trying to get off the phone with him ... how do get off the phone and not start a fight?

i been there so many times. but except i was in the opposite position. whenever my ex would tell me he was going to get a shower or go eat, i would honestly never believe him. i think its because i didnt trust him. i would just think he was always going out with his friends or talking to another girl. my point is that maybe he doesnt trust you enough. hes too insecure and really a relationship like that will only fall apart. i know you like him cause you are obvisiously putting up with it but there comes a time where you have to let things go especially when the situations arent getting better. before you make your decision, tell him how it bothers you and how if he cant trust you then a relationship without trust is nothing then see if it changes. if not, then theres other fish in the sea. i wish you luck.



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i like this guy a lot but he doesnt like me and i no it. i get really jealous when he says who he likes because i feel upset that he doesnt like me. hes the type of guy who only likes girls who are hott. but he has hurt me so much he has made me cry like everyday cuz it seems to me tht he doeant care bout how i feel i dont no what to do or how to feel im so confused i no ur all gonna say just move who cares bout him but i cant i like him so much and i dont no how i can just stop please help i dont no wat to do.

heyy hun!
everybody goes through this point in their life one time or another. i kno i went through it. let me start off by saying boys are always going to be boys. theres only a good few that are going to actually care about girl's feelings or even care that we like them. my best advice to give to you would be if you really like this kid, then hey u like him and theres nothing no one can do. but i kno evenutally you will get over him just because of what a jerk he is and your going to get too upset one day and your goin to have nuttin to do with him. if he cant see how special you are and how much you like him then its not meant to be and soon you will find the right one for you
good luck and dont ever change yourslef for anyone! always here

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My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..

i went through that situation alot of times, and it is hard but i got over it. i mean my best friend means everything ot me and im sure your's does too. i would be lost without her, and the same goes for you. my point is that you and your best have a bond that no one could ever have. not even a boy and you. your best friend and u have been through so much hard times and great memories, and im sure you dont want to risk that over a guy. buys will be guys and theres alottt of them out there. i kno its going to be hard, my advice to you is dont screw everything up over a silly little boy. maybe ask your friend to go boy scouting with you =] hehe. i hope i helped and good luck sweetie

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In about a week I have this huge presintation i have to do in music class. IT has to be 10 minutes long, including an oral presintation and a song to go along with it. The teacher puts so much pressure on you because she is really strict. I don't know what to do, I am so afraid of stage fright I can't even deal with it. Please help me, if you think of anything I can do to get over this, including pills or sumthin....but not like serious drugs! Please don't say you have to take deep breaths and imagin no one is there, because it doesn't work and you kno it too! please help me..


luv..
in need of major help

wOw am i so much like you. i know exactly what your going through. i wanna tell you what happened to me when i got so worked up and when i kept telling my self i couldnt do it. i had to do a presentation on a president in front of my whole class. i mean of course i was nervous, i couldnt even bare witth it. i kept telling myself omg im so nervous, im gunna fail, and basically just telling myself that i couldnt do it. well when i got up there to it, i had a panic attack. my eyes went blurry i couldnt see anything, i got dizzy, and i fainted. i mean i was ok and everything. but my point is dont tell your self you cant do it. you have to have self confidence. keep telling your self im gunna do great or i can do this. even if you would like practice in front of a small group pf people, like family or friends. or even in front of mirror. good luck with your presintation and i wish you all the luck

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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!!

wOw does that sound like something im going through. i know exactly where your comming from and ill tell you what i had did. i think next time he says that to you or says anything to you, tell him the honest truth. you dont wanna be with him because of the way he acts. hes gunna be crushed but your gunna feel so realived that hes not bothering you any more..you kno what i mean? so basically just come out and tell him the truth. he'll realize that it wasnt meant to be and you two can both go on happy. haha. good luckk!

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all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !


~confused and lonley

thats a tough situation to be in. i never went through this before but ill try and give you the best advice i can. insense your just flirting with each and everyone of them, you should stop doing that cuz the boys are just gunna see you as "easy" if you dont know wat i mean by that, its like the more you flirt with them the more their gunan think they can get something off of you. you should stop flirting with them and maybe try and get to know one of them better. start hanging out with one that attracts you. im sorry for the useless advice but i hope i helped in some way. good luckk with making your decision!

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(14/f) Everyone thinks I make all my boyfriends up because they don't go to our school.. I don't understand why they'd talk such crap about me behind my back or why one of my 'friends' doesn't even believe me.. it makes me feel like they think I'm not pretty or nice enough to get one and so I have to make one up! Someone please help me.. what should I say?

im sure alotta people go through this problem. in each and every school your always going to have your gossipers and what not. my best advice to you is just dont worry bout what they say. all that matters is that you know your not lieing, you know you have someone right for you. i used to be just like you, i mean i would worry about what people thought of me, and what people would say about me. let them think what they wanna think, you just stay true to your self and dont stoop to their level. as for your friends, id say the heck with them. if their not going to have trust in you and believe you, they're not your friends to begin with. so to sum this up, stay true to yourself and all that matters is you know that your not lieing, and thats all that matters. good luck with whatever you and i hope i helped.

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there is this girl at my school n i like her n i think she knows i like hre but i no she dosent like me ..but ill do n e thing 2 have her wat should i do keep on likeing her or move on n do u have n e tips??


Thank You

JOJO Scatton

alotta boys and even girls go through this situation at one point in their life. i could see that your goin through it right now. my advice to you, is if this girl is so special to you that you like her so much, keep likeing her. theres no one that coiuld stop you from likeing her because thats how you feel. no one can help their feelings. sooner or later your going to move on, theres alot of other people in the world. im sure youre gunna meet someone just as special. maybe just talk to her, tell her how you feel because if she doesnt know, your going to regret not telling her. so talk to her, tell her how you feel. if she doesnt feel the same way then hey you tried? its not like your gunna regret it? good luck with whatever you do and i hope i helped

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There's this girl at my school who's a total bitch and talks about everyone. She always says nasty things about people who aren't just like her and thinks she's so much better than everyone. Just the other day she was making fun of a guy that's in a wheelchair & in the hospital because he's having problems with his lungs. She said "wow what a retard... Why are we wasting our time talking about him?" like it was some big joke. People told her that was REALLY mean but she burst out laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.

She also found out that me & my friend said something about her.. Now she yells shit at us in the halls & even drew on a picture of us in a classroom. I'm so sick of her acting so childish. We'll both tell her to grow up & get a life but she just keeps on doing it & dragging other people into it. It's getting so irritating and really getting to me.

What am I supposed to do? I can't just ignore it anymore.

soo many people go through this, weather its in junior high or high school. im in junior high and theres just soo many fakes and so many that think their the shiit. my advice to you is just get even. yea payback is a biitCh but i believe you and your friends can do it. if you and all your friends get together and like just when she says something, be like you have no life what so ever goin around hating on other people is gunna get you no where in life. im sure if you stand up to her, she'll realize that shes starting to losse alot of her friends. good luck and always remember if someone can see your fear, they'll walk all over you. hope i helped

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My friend just got a boyfriend awhile back. He's a really sweet guy, but he always flirts with me & my other friend. At a dance last night he kept touching me! I told my friend that he's bad news but she didn't think much of it. I know she deserves so much better than him. What should I do?

he deff doesnt sound like good news, and i think your friend should find out before he does something to hurt her. i think you should just come out with the way your feeling and tell her, "your really one of my best friends, and i would never do anything to hurt you, its just that this boy isnt good news." explain to her what hes doing and how you dont feel comfortable with her being with him. She'll understand just because you two have been good friends. & plus friends will always choose their friends over boys. i hope i helped you and good luck!

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hey! awesome site!

I'm 13 and at my school there's this guy that i like and he likes me too.His friends and my friend have been snooping around him and asking him all these questions. He said that he WAS going to ask me out but hasn't yet. He acts really shy around me and when i try to talk to him he kinda says a few words and leaves.I can tell that he likes me but he's gone to Mexico for this week and the next! I need to know, what should i do! I like him A LOT and have known him since kindergarten! Help me PLEASE!

i think you should just tell him how you feel. it seems to me like he feels the same way, but hes just too shy to come out and tell you how he is feeling. i mean maybe if you come out and say that you really like him, he'll open up to you more. when he comes back from Mexico, maybe go for a walk with him and talk about it..just between you two. i hoped i helped and good luck!

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okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx

wow..thats a hard situation to be in. just be reading that i could understand what your going through. guys will always be guys, confusion, attitudes. you know how it is? what i think you should do, is try and talk to him one on one. tell him your truely care about him and that you'll always be my his side through everything. ask him if hes feeling anything between you 2. if he gives you attitude or he just isnt listening, its not meant to be. its going to be a heartbreaker but im sure you'll find a guy just as amazing. you never know until you talk to somebody, hes probably feeling the same, ya know..like mixed emontions. especially whats goin on with the family and friends. i wish you alotta luck.

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so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high

i think he honestly likes you. i mean if you can have a boy likeing you for 50 days or more, you should really hold on to him. boys these days i think, take girles for grantete, but when you have a boy thats willing to wait for you, he really likes you. just stay really close friends with him and then when its time to date, see how it works out. i wish the best of luck!

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ok i have a problem i wrote this embarssing email to my friend and i told him stuff lik i lik him and really ambarissin stuff lik that and i wanted to kiss him i fell lik he doesnt lik and he read and he didnt care but he sent it to his step brother and his step brother sent it to everybody in my class and i said some stuff bout a couple of them and i didnt want them to no how much i acctually liked him and i dotn no wat to do i really wanna cry im so upset plzz help

heyy hunn!

you shouldnt be upset for expressing your feelings. i mean, you feel that way so what? theres not on person in that classroom that doesnt feel that about their crush right? dont be upset because of the way you feel. theres nothing you can do to stop your feelings. As far as the boy goes, what a jerk? ha am i right? hehe. you have nothing to worry bout cusz the hardest part is over! now all you gotta do is find a new crush cuz that boy is soo gOnee! hehe i hoped i helped and i wish you luck =))

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i've had a "friend with benefits" for almost a year now. we didnt really have feelings for eachother but now i have feelings for him and im the one who got attached. i don't know if i should just continue being fwb or i should stop because of my feelings? Whats the best thing to do?

i neever had friends with benifits but im sure its tough. in your situation i see where your comming from. youve been with this boy with fwb and im sure now your getting more feelings. my best advice for you is tell him fwb isnt working for you anymore, tell him that your starting to feel for him. im sure he'll understand. One, he might be having those same feelings as you, and then it will turn out for the better. two, he might get mad but you dont need someone like that in your life. just a silly little boy looking for someone to give him his needs. you kno what i mean? so just tell him how you feel and explain it isnt working out with the fwb. good luck and i hope i helped!

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i have a crush on a boy and i can't get him to notice me!i tried everything but the only thing he likes about me is my mp3 player!i started bringing it but that only made him attracted to the player!wat am i supposed to do???

hrmm..thats a toughyy! hehe. Dont change anything about yourself for him. Dont change your looks, dont change your personailty, just be yourself! if hes too blind to see how pretty you are and how much you like him, then you deff dont need him! theres plenty of fishies out in the sea and im sure you'll find someone that will love you for who you are! just keep playin kelly clarkson- since youve been gone and be happy that you dont gotta change yourself for one person! good luck with everything and i hoped i helped =)

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I know this is wrong but i got myself into some serious mess.My bestfriend has a bf and they been together for 9 months and the other day me and him saw each other at this one place and we ended up in his car doing things.I feel really bad i don't know if i should tell her or not.I dont want to but i dont want her finding out from anybody else because i love her so much she is like my sister.IM confused plz help!

well i went through this with one my really really close friends. i had found out the hard way, from lots of other people, even people i didnt know. i kno its going to be hard, but you just have to come out and tell her. You two are probably really close and when you tell her, yes she'll be upset but your being honest and your telling the truth. Explain to her how sorry you are and how much she means to you. & besides she cant be with a jerk like that anyways. obvisiously he wasnt a very good b/f. i hoped i helped you and i wish you the best of luck!

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i think im really feeling my friend right now. we dont know each other like so so much but we know some things about each other. we talk, but hardly about us. he smiles a lot and sometimes he flirts, but i dont no. somethings are movin kinda slow. i mean school will be over in two and a half months. what do i do because he talks to me sometimes and sometimes he doesnt. not unless i say something first. i dont no if he really likes me like that, but i want him to. and i just feel right around him, ya know. so what do i do?

well this is my first time trying this so im gunna take a shot mmk here it goes... i think you should sit him down and talk with him. like question him does he feel anything for you, does he think you 2 will be together. dont over do it with the questions, but if he gets distracted on that then he obvisiously doesnt care about anything. just sit him down and tell him how youve been feeling and see what he is feeling. you might miss out if you dont speak soon! hehe , i hope i helped and good luck with whatever you do!

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