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does anybody think its tacky to tell somebody you like them over instant message? it just feels so much easier to let everything out that way than in person. (link)
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ITsort of depends if you know the person you want to tell that you like them then no its NOT tacky
but if you dont know this guy personnally then yeah i kinda think it is
BUT im a new version of an old skool chick i do stuff the old fashion way face2face but thats me i dont know
7ROCK7ANGEL7
STAY COOLIO
ZEN*PSHYCO
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im a 13 year old female. my mom is very strict about "getting enough sleep" and i have a VERY early bedtime. i have to be off the computer by 8:50 pm and i have to be in bed and be watching a half hour tv show from 9:00 to 9:30. i HAVE to be sleeping by 9:30 pm. even if im not done with homework or want to read a couple more pages of my book, I HAVE TO BE SLEEPING. so i go to sleep at 9:30 pm and wake up at 6:45 am. I think i don't need that much sleep. my friends go to bed at 11:30 and they are still wide awake at school. and what makes it worse is that i have the SAME exact bedtime as my 9 year old sister. thats 4 years apart!! i don't think it's fair and i don't think its neccessary to be sleeping by 9:30 pm i feel if i went to bed at 10 or 10:30, i would still get the sleep i need. what time do you guys go to bed and do you think my moms being fair? how can i get my mom to change my bedtime? and shes very strict so i need some good ways to pursuade her with.
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since your moms very strict and all i dont know if this will work but give it a shot anyways
----BEG!-beg your heart out
just kidding but not to rub it in your face or anything but mu mom didnt evr really give me a bedtime i would just go to sleep at 11pm
its really not that fair
theres no actual way to make your mom change her mind i guess wait till summer?
i have a weird feeling this wont help you at all but whatevr
ZEN*PSHYCO
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ok so im your tipical f/14. i have kissed a guy and all that good stuff but im not a slut. i kept some notes from recent years that i didnt want anyone to see. well i keep them in a box thats ALWAYS locked. one day i left it open and i went to school. my mom went in the room that was it and read EVERY SINGLE NOTE. now she has gone to far. shes done stuff like this before but not this bad. im about to either run away or just block her out of my life. shes pissed at me for not talking to her about "stuff" and im pissed at her for going through my "stuff" no matter what in my opion she should have never looked at any of the stuff it had nothing to do with her. shes made me so upset, i cried and my blood pressure is so high my face is as red as a tomato and has been like this for about 2 hours. i cant eat im so upset. i dont know what to do but this stuff is getting old FAST!
HELP before i go insane... (link)
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Don hate me for this answer but i think you kinda should let your mom into a bit more of what goes on in your life (NOT EVERYTHING)but some stuff just so she can get off your case a bit -she shouldnt invade ypur privacy like that but it just goes to show yhat she actually cares about you and that shes worried that at this age you might be experiensing these new things
but whatever case im just a 14 year old to so
7ROCK7ANGEL7
ZEN4EVR!!!!!!!!!
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ok well i have a temper problem and i tend to get frustrated and moody and annoyed over the smallest things reeeeeeeeeeeeally easily.
how do i get over this and what do i take it out on????
also, my family is really nosy and always wants to talk to me and wont let anything go, but im getting reaaaaaaaly annoyed of them
i just cant stand them!!!!!ughhhh
what do i do to talk to them the least i can but not have them get mad or jus keep talkn to me more??
plzzzzz helppp!!!! (link)
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ok all these small anger problems are easy to solve
*try karate or any thing physical join a gym buy a punching bag take out all your anger
*meditate
light a candle(scented)sit in the middle of your room and buy one of those soothing sounds cds and shut down your brain and dont think of anything
*put your face into a pillow and yell as loud as you possiblly can (but you might loose your voice)
*write in a diary,poems,songs that helps me a lot yeah it sounds stupid but if no one sees them their you precious and own inner most thoughts and they really mean alot
find a hobby something youre good at anything to distract you from your anger ART thats cool it also helps Me big time!!!!!!!!!
or maybe you have PMS I dony know
goog luck
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Thirteen Female; My life feels boring but its not at all. There is something seriously wrong and I have no idea what it is. I use things as escapes like reading writing music sometimes even pot but those things ware off while I'm in school. I have no clue what’s wrong with me. I'm always frustrated, tired, tense and sketchy. I have tons of friends and my family life is perfect with the acceptation of my father but I can't blame everything on him. I know what your thinking-shrink. But see I’m not aloud to go to a shrink because of my father and issues so what do I do. My friends are all upper class richies who could never understand. I feel as if everything I do is inflicting pain on me and I can’t stand to even breathe anymore. My friend went to a hospital for depression but she’s fine. I just want to know what to do because all this makes me so out of it all the time and I really miss my friends and family. See there a rip in all this though because when I'm with this one guy I forget everything and I am all myself but at the same time I can't remember what I have to tell him but that's okay because he makes me feel okay. This is also a problem because we talk less and less every day so now I’m like dying. I rate high. And I really am not insane. Believe me. (link)
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u know what this is practicaly the age wher your thoughts start to change and your perspective on life is also very different it doesnt mean your going insane
drugs arent the answer to anything not ecehn if your really extremly bored dont ever use that as an'escape' cause it just comes back and bites you in the ass
fuck that shit go and try to get help your dad dont have nothing to do w/it if you dont want to just try to tell your mom shell be glad no matter what
try to get closer to your ton off friends and spend time w/them instead of dwelling in your saddness get out of that black hole as fast as you can
***trying to get help doesny mean your going crazy it just means that you want help***
if that guy makes you feel ok um you might want to spend time w/him tooand try to keep in touch
luv
if you still dont feel like i answered your question write back !!!
7ROCK7ANGEL7
LUV LOTS
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um..... this may be a wierd question but i'll ask it. when is about the age girls start shaving their legs? (link)
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omg this question is so not weird
their is no 'age' that girls start shaving
in my case it depended on my parents since they wouldnt let me shave i didnt but one day i just deciced like 'fuck them' so i shaved them anyways but if you dont shave your legs in like a couple of days the hair starts growing back relly tjick and cactus like its very pricly so if you do decide to shave make sure you do it often
luv
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i have known my this girl ashley since like 1st grade we were like best friends up until the summer going into eigth grade we had so much fun together we never stopped laughing and with my other friends we grew apart but nothing wood ruin are friendship or atleast thats what i thought during the summer going into 8th grade we had a HUGE fight like it was crazy but the weird thing is i dont remember what its about or who started it but it was big so big that its almost then end of 8th grade and even when i walk by her in the hall there is anger in are eyes we havent even talked since the fight and were going to high school next year and i really wanna just be friends again but i dont no what to do i refuse to talk 2 her because then it would be to acword so i need to no what to to 2 be friends with her again other then some cheesey answer like talk it out should i even try to be her friend anymore idk please help!!! (link)
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i agree w/island in the sun x0
you have to talk to her or write her a letter anything to get you talking again *********i was in a similar situation and im about the same grade and age as you but i already worked out my problem Anyways i just started talking to her in the hallway and saying hi and bye every once in a while and everey now and then she would say it back
our friendship hasnt been the same but at least now i dont feel as bad because everytime i would ignore her in the hall it would kill me but just try to ease your way back into her life
Hope it works out!!!
fill me in!!!
luv lots
ZEN*PSHYCO
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I have a crush on this kid in my grade and the thing is i don't even like know him...I never talk to him and when he comes online i go onto my friends sn to talk to him because they talk more...i don't know why i like him and i think it is ridiculous but i really want a way to be closer to him and start talking any suggestions? (link)
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Start up a conversation and try to get to know him better and find similar interest
and if you like him nothing is ever ridiculous!
if this dontr work out i dont know what will!!!
hope everything goes badass between both of yall
suggestion:
go bowling everyone loves bowling even if yall dont know how its always a fun experience for everybody!!!
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I'm 17/f and I've known my best friend, Ryan (well, ex best friend) literally my whole life. Our dad's were best friends in high school and they live next door.
Well, Ryan and I used to be really close. We hung out all the time and were really good friends. We hung out with the same group of people and I thought I knew everything about him. About 2 years ago, I was in his room waiting for him to get out of the shower and I was just looking around when I found LSD tabs and pills that I couldn't identify.
I waited for him to get out and I asked him about it. Turns out that he had some friends that I didn't know about and he had been into drugs and such for a few months. I couldn't believe what he was saying and even more so, I couldn't believe that I didn't suspect anything.
He told me not to say anything to anyone but I refused and said that I at least was going to tell his older brother and see what he thought about it. We argued about it for a while and he told me that he did not do it that much, it wasn't a big deal and that he would stop. So I trusted him and didn't say anything.
Long story short, I shouldn't have trusted him. His parents put him in Rehab a while after and he's supposed to be clean now.
Well, we haven't been talking as much lately and I don't really see him at the usual parties and friends' houses and things but I just thought he didn't want to see me because we had gotten into a big fight a few months ago (reason to why we weren't talking).
I was at the mall yesterday and I saw him there with a guy named Zach. This guy was the one that had gotten him into drugs. Seriously, he's the biggest druggie anyone knows.
Know I don't know what to do because I'm not certain he's doing drugs again for sure. But, I don't want to keep it from his parents again because I don't want it to end up like it did 2 years ago. And, I'm not sure how he'll take me asking him about it considering we don't really talk anymore.
What should I do?
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first i suggest you tell his parents that hes hanging out with a perpon that is involved w/that type of shit (just so they know)but make sure to tell them that your not certain if hes gone back to his old ways
- and you arent as close as you were before and i dont think people that are clean should be around people like that. try to talk to him if he doesnt seem interested leave him to his ways cause the consequences are GoinG to catch up to him no matter what.
Luvlots
if this doesnt work out i seriously dont know what will!!!plz tell me if anything happens ZEN*PSHYCO
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hello advice givers. does anybody have the motorolla razor phone? because i kinda want it but i heard it gets bad within like 3 months, is this true? if any one that has experienced with this phone, let me know if its worth buying (link)
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well this a tough one caue my siter had the same phone and she didnt like it at all but she has pretty high standards.
she also mentioned that most of them would be staticky when you would use them .and they werent closed right, so dirt would get into the screen. if you use it alot the battery wont last very ling and you have to keep charging it over and over. a lot of the people i know that have that phone they complain that the keys dont work.
i dont want to bag on motorolla or anything but i dont think that its worth it.
so yeah it kinda sucks. but if you do get a razor get the Samsung black razor it has a lot of very awesome features on it!!!
7ROCK7ANGEL7
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Does anyone know ways to start a conversation with someone? A way that doesn't make you seem like a rambling idiot. Lately there have been many of those "awkward silences" in conversations I have with people. (link)
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it kind of depends
if your talking to your friendssay"well anyways"
and conjure up a subject you were just talking about
-if its a guy (maybe hott)say "well this is awkward"it always makes them laugh
-if its a stranger say(anything related to what your doing at the moment you meet
let me know if any of these work out 4 you!!!
7ROCK7ANGEL7
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On weekends, and such, I go out with my mother and grandmother. I'm very close to them, and they're really cool. We relate a lot even though we're all different generations. I guess I'm a lot closer to my family than most people my age.
I look at other seventeen year olds though, and they're always out with their friends, partying and stuff. I very rarely go out with my friends, because a lot of them annoy me and I have a lot more fun with my family.
But I'm starting to think I'm the only teenager who goes out with both my mother and grandmother, and I should be going out with people my age doing more "teenagery" things, as I don't want to look back on my youth and think of all the things I missed out on.
Firstly, is this pathetic? Should I be doing things with people my own age? If so, how do I meet some new people?
Be honest! I can take it. And thank you. (link)
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i think that hanging out w/your mom and grandmother is the most awesome thing you can possibly do
cause some people never get to do that like me. appreciate every moment w/them.
but you stillmight want to try to do stuff your own age because you Might regret it in the long run but falling into the paty scene and all that junk isnt always that glamorus
because if you drift apart from your mom and grandmother they might end up being just relatives and not your friends they end up being a figure of athourity the relatives that lecture and punish you.
All im saying is go out once in a while but always make sure to still spend time w/ur mom & grandmother because you never know how long your going to have them with you
7ROCK7ANGEL7
A.K.A
ZEN*PSHYCO
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Okay so I'm pretty thin; 5'4 and 110 lbs. I really don't like fat, at all on girls. I think girls should be thin and wear a pants size no bigger than a 3 or 5. Five is pushing it.
All my friends are thin and have nice figures as well, like me but I have a few that don't. I mean, they aren't huge but they wear like a 5 in Abercrombie pants. And those of you that shop there know that their sizes run bigger. When I see them in like a bikini (we're always at my house laying out and stuff) I want to throw up.
I don't know why I feel this way and I feel extremely bad sometimes because in my head, I want them to loose weight.
Now, I assure you that I have never said anything along those lines to them and I NEVEERR would, ever. I know I have some sort of problem with weight so I know better than so say something to them.
Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get over this?
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I think that its okay that you want them to lose weight.But if its for health reasons not just because theyre fat because being too skiny isnt that healthy either.
im sorry if i missunderstood but obiously your aware that you have a problem and i think that your stuck in a world where you only see the outside and you need to get out of there as fast as you possibly can. because not everybody is perfect and neither are you even if your skinny. some people are born overweight
im not fat but real people have curves and embrace them and so should you most of my family is not 'skinny' and they are diabetics but i never tell them that theyre fat i just always make sure that theyre healthy
Iknow this site might not always answer your question directly but if you really want help try seeing a proffesional and get some because i dont think that i should be the person to be telling you what to do seek some 1 with more experience
if you still fell this way tell me and i'll help you in anyway i can Thanx anyway!
7ROK7ANGEL7
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I'm 14/f...I like my best friend and unfortunatley its a girl (no offense to anyone). I want to tell her just so I can talk to her about it but she seems like she could care less. So what do I do? Do I just blab it out or not tell her at all? Thnx in advance.
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dear Duckie,
I really dont want to offend you in any way so dont take any thing the wrong way because the last thing i want to do is offend you.
I understand how liking one of your best friends could be weird but if you do want to tell her that you like her, you should go ahead but you might want to know if she likes you in the same way because if she doesnt it might just push her farther away and thats the last thing wwe want aint it so fill me in on anything
luv lots,7ROCK7ANGEL7!1hope everything goes well!
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18 years old/female.
K, this is the situation I am in. There is this guy that I work with that I simply can not get out of my heart. This is the 4th year I have worked with him, and for all of that time I have found myself attracted to him in a big way. At first I just felt like it was an adolesant crush, I mean I was 14 afterall and crushes are not a rare thing at that age, they come and go. But this one came and has yet to go. Anyways, quicknotes version- He is 2 years older then me and impossible to read! I am oblivious to flirting-incoming or outgoing- and don't know how to tell if he has feelings for me too. Most of the time I really just wish I could forget about him, but something won't let me. It's not like an obsessive kind of thing where I think about him 24/7, he just seems to find his way into my mind in the quiet moments or when I'm admiring a beautiful sunset or watching waves break on the ocean I wish he were there to see it. But yet thinking of him often makes me sad, and sometimes even angry or frusterated. If I'm not even sure how I feel about him how am I supposed to tell how he feels about me? And how can I tell how he feels about me? I'm sorry this is so long I can just use all the help I can get. If LOTS of people could all give me their opinions and advice it would me great!!! I will rate you. (link)
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This is weird because im kind of in the same situation as you but the difference is that i am 14 years old hes 13 but i havent known him as long as you have so i totally relate.Just try to make conversation and see the things that you both have in common and just see where friendship and trust can take you and if it doesnt work out maybe its not meant to be
luv
7ROCK7ANGEL7
A.K.A ZEN*PSHYCO
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I'm wearing a lime green dress to prom and it has some silver at the bottom half. My date has a black tux and a white tux. Which do you think he should wear? (link)
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your date should definately wear the black one you can never go wrong w/black.
and if he wore the white one both the bright colors would clash to much
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my essay has to be a Persuasive essay. any ideas on how i can make ur topic or my topic work?? (link)
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it depends if ur trying to pesuade some one not to do whatever your subject is you might want to write about all of the negative things that happen if you self injure or get pregnant at a young age. try to make the concequences as dramatic as possible.If your having anymore troubles make sure to ask again
7ROCK7ANGEL7
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i have to write an eassy on a socail issue. i was thinking about teen sex and pregancy about pros and cons about it. the more i think about it the more it makes me think that i couldnt write an eassy about. my question is
1) is it possible to write an eassy about that?
2) what is a good social issue that isnt as known? like abortion i know a lot of perople that are going to do it.
if it helps i want it to do with teen age problems
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I had a similar essay for an english class and i did mine on teenage self injury which is when mostly teens injure themselves like cutting,carving,burning and other selfinjuries i got an A minus and i really liked my easy to and i felt that it was very differant from the others in class an its a very deep subjact when you get to the real meaning of why people do that to themselves (dont get this twisted its not suiside 'its a way to relieve themselves from stressfull situations)
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im 16, male. i have been out with this guy before, andi broke his heart. i still love him and he says he still loves me but he has a boyfreind. i would do anything to have him back but he says he just can't trust me. were getting along great now but i still want him back. (link)
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dont try to pressure this guy into going out with you that would just ppush him farther away prove to him that he can trust you and see where trust can take you
7ROCK7ANGEL7
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Late last year I mustered up the courage to see a gynocologist because my period is unhealthily sporadic. One of the questions they asked before the check up was "Are you sexually active?" At 15, I don't think it's appropriate to have a partner. However, I would like to know if they ask you the question because the office needs to know if your hymen is broken... or if it has to do with something else. In my case, my hymen is already broken, but I haven't had sex with a partner yet. What should I answer in the future? (link)
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say the truth make sure to tell them that you havent been sexually active there are a lot of things taht can confuse some one about ur sexual relations just make sure to be honest and confident in the way you tell them
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