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Thirteen Female; My life feels boring but its not at all. There is something seriously wrong and I have no idea what it is. I use things as escapes like reading writing music sometimes even pot but those things ware off while I'm in school. I have no clue what’s wrong with me. I'm always frustrated, tired, tense and sketchy. I have tons of friends and my family life is perfect with the acceptation of my father but I can't blame everything on him. I know what your thinking-shrink. But see I’m not aloud to go to a shrink because of my father and issues so what do I do. My friends are all upper class richies who could never understand. I feel as if everything I do is inflicting pain on me and I can’t stand to even breathe anymore. My friend went to a hospital for depression but she’s fine. I just want to know what to do because all this makes me so out of it all the time and I really miss my friends and family. See there a rip in all this though because when I'm with this one guy I forget everything and I am all myself but at the same time I can't remember what I have to tell him but that's okay because he makes me feel okay. This is also a problem because we talk less and less every day so now I’m like dying. I rate high. And I really am not insane. Believe me.
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u know what this is practicaly the age wher your thoughts start to change and your perspective on life is also very different it doesnt mean your going insane
drugs arent the answer to anything not ecehn if your really extremly bored dont ever use that as an'escape' cause it just comes back and bites you in the ass
fuck that shit go and try to get help your dad dont have nothing to do w/it if you dont want to just try to tell your mom shell be glad no matter what
try to get closer to your ton off friends and spend time w/them instead of dwelling in your saddness get out of that black hole as fast as you can
***trying to get help doesny mean your going crazy it just means that you want help***
if that guy makes you feel ok um you might want to spend time w/him tooand try to keep in touch
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Of course you are not insane, you really do have a lot of symptoms of depression so you should talk to a doctor about it. Forget about "not being allowed to", this is your health you are talking about. You might be young, but you ultimately have to be responsible for your own health. Tell your school counselor that you would like information on the subject, show him or her this very letter in fact. They will help you even if your parents won't for some reason.
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I dont see why you cant see a "shrink", you dont have to be crazy its for people who fell as if "There is something seriously wrong and I have no idea what it is" Youc ould have depression and you need to find out why. If you feel like that there is obviously something wrong. Once you find out what that it is you can start to feel better, Depression runs in my family so I understand you. I know you are not insane other wise you would not know there was something wrong, you are very sane but you need help and I really would like to know why you cant see a shrink please tell me so I can help you.
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Insanity has nothing to do with the way you are acting.
There are times in your life when you feel like nothing really matters and that's usually because you've lost somene or something really important to you or something has happened to make you depressed, or you can even feel this way when nothing has even happened.
I think you are escaping in great way aside from smoking pot. I think that you should bring attention this this method you are using to escape because it only makes you away from your problems in the moment, not forever.
You said that your family life is pretty good aside from your father. Instead of taking your problems to a therapist, try telling your mom what's going on. I know you might feel a little ackward and afraid of how she will react, but if anything, she'll be glad that you told her. If you find yourself depressed a lot and trying to get out of it, then you should try getting some help because you might be depressed. And who knows why you would have it, but you can for no reason and it could be your father's issues and how you find yourself blaming a lot of things on him.
Sometimes friends can really surprise you. There was a time when I thought my friends really wouldn't do a lot if I were upset and came to them for advice, but one day I was crying in school and I can't believe how much support I got that day and how many of my friends were wanting to take me to the counselor and talk to me. That's when I knew that if I really needed to talk to someone, I could always go to my friends for help. Friends don't have the solution to your problems, but they have emotional support by telling you that it's ok.
-TheTeenGirl
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