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there is this boy at school and before this year, we were never really that close of friends. but this year we have gotten to be almost best friends even though i have never called him over the phone or got together with him out of school before. but lately, it seems as if maybe he likes me. i won't know for sure though. is there anyway to find out if he likes me? the thing is, most of his friends are girls. also, i don't like like him at all. i only like him as a friend and thats it. but i may have feelings for him, but it seems like i'm trying to fight it. as if i'm afraid to like him or something. part of my mind has feelings for him and the other half is trying to stop it because it feels weird. on the other hand, i really like this other boy who i am pretty good friends with the boy who i think likes me. but he doesn't like me at all. just as friends. what do i do?
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hey there =) so, first off i think you should follow your heart, no matter what. because, the truth is - its never wrong. and i know maybe you are fighting to not like your friend, but maybe its meant to be. okay anyway - to tell if he likes you [ heres some things to watch out for! ] : you catch him smiling at you from across the room; when you two are talking, hes non-stop smiling; he stares into your eyes for that EXTRA second; look if he focuses on you in a crowd; if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends; he always teases you or makes fun/jokes; ask yourself if he wants your opinion? cares what you have to say?; he tries to like all the things you do. hope those are some hints that will help you.. i also found you a site you can go to also, if thats not enough things to look for - [ [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ]. and as for this other boy, you can use those tips/hints too look for on him too, to see if it seems he's interested. but, if the second boy isnt interested - then i say forshure dont hide your feelings and see what happens with the first one. good luckk
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Maybe you should slow your mind down and give yourself some more time with this. You seem to like more than one guy or you may not have any feelings for them at all.
Sometimes a way to tell whether you like someone or not is if you find yourself day-dreaming about him and you as a couple and you like it. Who knows why you are fighting to like this guy you are pretty close to, but maybe it's the fact that you wouldn't be happy about most of his friends being girls that's keeping you away.
Instead of jumping to the question of whether he likes you or not, maybe you should call this guy over the phone and see if you can get to know him better and then start seeing him after school. Maybe you feel ackward thinking about dating a guy who is pretty close to your best friend and that might scare you.
If you know for sure that this other guy doesn't feel anything more than a friend for you, then I'd consider him no longer a problem on your list. It's hard when someone doesn't like you back, but try using the warning signs of how you knew for sure you liked this guy and apply it to the way you react to this guy that might like you and that could help you decide whether you like him more than a friend or not.
-TheTeenGirl
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