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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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ok about a month ago i started talking to this guy from myspace that lives in the next town over. He is super sweet, everytime we talk he says, "hi beautiful" and i always get like butterflies in my stomach whenever i talk to him or think about him. Well last night a differnt guy from myspace started talking to me who lives in my town and after talking for a awhile he asked me out, which i said no to b/c we just started talking and caous ei like the other guy. the second guy is not as sweet but we have things in common. Now my question is whenever i talk to the first guy i get excited,buterflies in the stomach kinda feeling but i have a hard time talking to him, but with the second guy i didnt have that butterfli in the stomach feeling (well i did when he said, "u know what i like you")and i didnt have a hard time talking to him so why is this and which guy is it i should go for??

Thanks so much in advance!!

oh and im 16/f

it smarts choice i think would have to be the guy that gives you butterflys in your stomach. the other guy you should jsut be friends with.
*~Stephanie~*

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OK for anyone that can help me.
Every time me & my husben have sex & I have an orgasam its like a water fall. I have had sex with outher guys & I never had this problem and its not like it just happens onces it will happen 2 or 3 times. One night I had to make him stop becouse I could not handle it any more I felt realy bad about it. thanks pooh bear

i dont think it should ba a bif problem.. i think it would make any guy that he can make a girl orgasaim like that all the time. i eman it isnt liek you can control it that is against your power.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well i kno this song but i cant think of the anme of it or who sings it

the chorus goes like this

Here we go,
Here we go again,
Now your telling me,
That she is just a friend,
And then she's calling you,
At 3:00 in the morning,
I can't take this no more

And a girl sings it, and i think is r&b or rap

Thanks!!!

it is called here we go by trina ft kelly rowland.. (one of my favorite songs) sry i dont know where.
*~Stephanie~*

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I want to put a photo of me on my website, but it's really big, and my mom said I should make it smaller so no one can see my face up close (for safety reasons). I tried to resize it, but I don't know how to. I don't have Paint on my computer either, so I don't know how I can make it smaller. Please give me some advice on how to do it, or some websites I can go to that will help me with this kind of stuff.
Five for everyone that helps!

www.photobucket.com that will make your picture smaller.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey Guys ! Does anyone know the code for a dropdown music player on xanga ? If you do i would really apprecitate it if you gave me the code !

Thanks a Bunch !!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=best_hiphopmusik_provider


that website has ti for you. hope this helps. if you need anythign else for xanga drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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18/f
Is there ever such thing as unselfish sex? I'm not talking about when you are only giving to receive.
I'm having a usual weekend (too much time on my hands) existential crisis, and wondering whether I really do it because I want to make him happy, or simply because I like being physically close to someone, to have someone in my arms, because I like to touch him, because I find him physically attractive.
And in the same way, when he touches me, is it actually just because it makes him happy to have a girl in his arms?
So, does anyone think its possible to be truly unselfish in this regard - is it ever really about the other person?
And should I be worrying about it?
(NB I should just add that our relationship is fairly on-off - a lot of the time we are more like very close friends who hug and kiss, but will then cross the thin dividing line now and then!)

i dont think you should worry about it because you both are equal he is doing it to get something in return and so are you so nope. you got nothing to worry about. and even so the only way to really enjoy havin sex is to do it with someone you have some feelings for atleast a little bit.
*~Stephanie~*

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The first time you make out, is it 'scary'? I know that sounds weird, but I would imagine it would be that way. How do you know when someone's about to kiss you? Can they usually tell if you've never made out before? Help! :)

to tell you the truth people get way to scared. i personaly did be4 my first make out. and my bf still dont believe me that it was my first time..lol.. i was scared juts like you but actually if you are with someone you care about a lot you will just follow your heart and you will do it righgt. and no they cant figure out if it is your first make out or not. so dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just started a job two weeks ago in a large store where I am on the floor as a sales rep in the clothing department.
Before I was working at the store I had a lot of spare time and would work out every day at the gym for a half hour or more. Since I started working I havent had the time or energy to work out anymore, but suprisingly I've lost more weight at my job than at the gym!! My jeans are hanging off of me and a month ago they were tight. My job consists of a lot of walking and cleaning up. I have to walk around quickly to assist customers and put away all the clothes. Do you think this is the cause of my weight loss?

yes you can. i know a lot of people who have lost weight because of there job. so yea it can happen.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is hair removal of any kind bad for you?

nope actually i use nair more because it is different then shaving for me it makes the hair coem back out smooth not as prickle. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok I know I always talk bout my bf in here but. I want to know is it scary when u first like make out with someone? Like I want o and stuff but it's scary

i was scared my first time to. i was nerves and shy but to be honest with you if you go with the flow and just do whatever you think is right. dont be shy just go for ti. hope this helsp you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok well lest year I had the perfet boyfriend! We loved each other so much, and during the summer we just stopped talking! Now we talk but it just doesnt seem to feel right! I really really liek him still, and i want to ask him if he would ever go out w/ me again i just get scared! please tell me how to ask him please!

you need to face ur fears and tell him how you feel. dont be sacred. if you eb scared you will never be able to tell him how you feel and furthermore you wont be able to be with him.
*~Stephanie~*

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My friend said that Orbit gum causes cancer is that true!?

nope not that i noe of.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have dirty blonde hair and am considered the quiet shy girl at school. i'm not really, i just want to do something fun and make them all be confused since they won't expect it. i want bright, but light, blue hihglights in my hair. i want it to last for at least a few weeks without fading too much. but what's the difference between streaks and highlights? is there really? and if anyone has a picture of someone with blue streaks/highlights, it would be greatly appreciated!

i think that stricks look more natural because they are thin pieces of hair adn i guess highlights are thick i am not exactaully sure though but i am about 90% sure. so i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey do u know any scary movies PG 13 i was gonna have a movie night at my house this saturday night

respond by thursday PLEASE thanks bunch latta

to be honest with you i think one of them are but i am not sure which i know that scary movie 3 is R though. sorry if this doesnt help.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok, well my exboyfriend broke up with this girl that he went out with after we broke up... and they broke up... well then he asked her back out like a day after words... I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY and im sad that he likes her instead of me...
HELP

to be honest with you there is nothing you can do. i mean loving him or i should say liking this guy that doesnt liek you back will eb a wats e of time for you because he doesnt like you back. by him doing this to you it proves that he already is over you and is ready for a new one and i guess is commited to stay with her. i am really sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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There is this guy that i really like, but he is my friend's brother. I like him so much, but he is in a whole different grade. He goes to church and he plays basketball. i even had a dream about him, and in it he gave me this beautiful necklace. i wish SO MUCH that it would really happen. i want him to notice me (not by me staring idiotically at him) on his own terms, but how? i see him every morning in the gym and all i can do is stare at him. what do i do?
signed
broken

sounds like someone has a big crush ;] lol.. if you really want this guy to notice you i suggest you get the nurver yourself to go up to him and at least try to start a confersation with him. it will be a lil hard but it will prove to him that you are an out going person and are interested at the same time. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i like this kid and my friend asked him why he didnt like he and he said it was because i was too skinny. like i kno im skinny but not so much that you shouldnt like a person because of it and its really bothering me b.c a lot of people lately have been commenting about my weight.. i just dont gain any no matter what i eat.. its not my fault. but what should i do?

personaly from what you have said i would rather be like that then be over wieght. i mean if the guy doesnt like you because of your weight then fuck him i mean come on guys can be sooo picky some times. they shouldnt be judgin you about the way you look it should be more of personality. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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13/f

Hey peoples, um i waz wondering, why do i lose my apitite at publik places like school and stuff? latly i have been eating less to... im not anerexic im like 160somthin to 170 pounds.... if you could help that would be sooo great, i rate 5s!

i am just like you. i can tell you why. it is because of two things one you dont like people look or watch you eat and 2 because it is uncomfrontable for you to eat areound people. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriend is the type that flirts with girls and when I first started going out with him I was hoping he would stop doing that because he has a girlfriend. But since then..my friend saw him feeding food TO HIS EX GIRLFRIEND!! wow that made me really mad..and I let him know!! but we worked it out and he said that he would never do anything like that agian. But, just a few days ago one of my friends saw anouther girl sitting on his lap!! So I talked to him about it and he said that she was only sitting on his knee and that they wern't even talking. Things keep happening like that and I don't know what I should do about it..or tell him. If you were in this situation what would you do/ tell him? Thanks soo much!!

i would talk to him about it if i were you and tell him that if he loves you to stop messin around wit other girls. tell him how you about all of it. explain to him that evrytime he does that you you feel like he is loosing uinterest in you and that he is interested in other girls. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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What does 14820 mean?? if it means anything...

it doesnt mean anyhting. it is just a number.
*~Stephanie~*

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