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I'm planning on getting married hopefully in St Lucia next May.
Its cheaper than the UK whole big wedding thing but still alot of money (to me!), £2500 for 2 weeks per person through Sandals all inclusive.
I would really like to hear from somebody who has either done it there, or just done it abroad?! Is there anything i'm forgetting? Ive never done an All Inc holiday and am wondering whether it IS truly all inc. Also spotted cheaper price on Virgin Atlantic and not much more info....hell im just stuck what to do next!!!
Hope somebody out there has some helpful/useful advice.
Thanks
Miss C Bennett
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hmm i have no idea...n i got no advice to give u but all i wanted to say is "CONGRATULATIONS...-N- BEST WISHES FROM ME!!!" xoxo effy
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ok you people should know I'm the one who likes the 6th grader well how do I talk to him if I'm so nervous anytime I'm around my crushes I can barely speak as in my voice is all stuutery so how do I talk to him? (link)
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hi, well first try to relax...take a deep breath.....in.....outt....;) n then try to b relaxed...n talk to him just think of him as nothin more then just a simple friend..n think that ur better then him n everything will b fine...dont worry...its just a freakin guy ;)) xoxo effy
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thing is that started this summer. I got upset when he ask girl out in from of me then he knew I like him he says we are friends, girl say no to him, he typ no ones like and every ones say he is annoying and some people thinks he freindly and nice, He drop out of school last month I think becouse he Don't want be around people. thing is he lied lot this summer he told me he love girl name lacy he meet her fl. but he came school he dating one girl. then few week lather i think they broke up and being freinds. well things is i thought he be mad at me what i did over summer I got his webpage and i want find more bout him. i change his profile and everything.. well thing is he came hallway he say hi to me. but nobody in hall way. I dont know I feel sorry for him or not? it okay think bout someone who go though that. well thing is I sard next time I talk to him or not? sould I email him see he email me back if we freinds but i think he hate that he wront talk to me.. but I dont know why I care.. i think i need stop and it ok think things that help me not htink bout him?
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gurl...just move on...stop wasting ur time going after that kid...get over him...just entertain ur self wit other stuf...like go out wit ur friends...do something that interest u...:) xoxo effy
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*~Confesions*~
You say you wanna be true with me
So you start confessing
Befor you start already a tear drops down
You confess everything
It feels like my heart broke
Tears are pouring down
I say how can you do this to me
He says Im sorry
I know Its over
I say Its over
Even though i know i did the right thing
I still love him
But i cant trust him
He lost y trust
So now its over
Maybe someday
My tears will go away. (link)
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very nice :) xoxo effy
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Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. One of his really good friends is a girl and she and I don't get along. I dislike her because she has talked trash about him behind his back early on in our relationship telling me that I shouldn't like him, that he's a horrible person and he's a bad kisser and all this mean stuff. She used the fact that she dated hima s an excuse as well. She and I never were really good friends but she and he always have be like good friends. I now realize how hard it is for him. Because we dont like each other. He's told me how she'd make a comment when he would say he was with me or something about me and sometimes I'll admit I would roll my eyes and maybe make a comment when he talked about her. I've realized this is hard for him. I'm not sure if I want to be her friend but I do want to make things easier for him and easier for our relationship because at one point this situationw as a big factor and reason for our fights. And after our last big fight it came up again after it wasnt for like 2 months. I don't know if I should set aside my differences with her or if I should just ignore it? help please! (link)
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hi, well i think that you should tell ur baby boy why u dont like her...you should talk to him n tell him that b4 she use to tell u how much she desliked him n how horrible person he was...n from that moment on u just didnt click wit her...see wut he is gonna say bout that...also tell him not to tell his friend b/c u dont want them to ruin their friendship...i think he'll understand better y u dont like her as much as he does...(as a friend) bout his friend just try to ignore her and avoid her as much as possible...(not in a mean way though)...i hope i helped this is a hard case i would feel confused if i was in ur shoes 2 =/...xoxo effy
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Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!! (link)
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hi, well i see that ur going through something tough there...i'm sorry...well, wut i think is that the idea of running away is not so good...b/c if u run away anything could happen...u can even get raped from someone for gods sake...u never know...so i wouldnt recomend that...wut i would recoman to you is to talk to your mom n tell her how u feel...tell her that sometimes he is not so nice to you...n tell her that you want to get along but u cant see anyway how?!?! tell her that sometimes you feel left out b/c he favors ur 2 lil brothers but not u! so my advice to u is talk to your mom n tell her how u feel...i bet ur mom will talk to him n things will change ;) xoxo effy *best wishes*
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well i posted a message stating my problem with these three guys. well i talk to one of them and told them that it wasnt going to work that was this boy named bryan. Now i am faced with the big decision of picking Joseph or Donald but i dont know wich one. See i have known Donald a lot oonger than Joseph but we have all ways been friends but we never had those conversations dealing with getting to know each other like fave color and food things like that. Well he has a friend named Joseph and i like joseph and donald keeps telling me the Joseph really wants to get with me. Me and Joseph have talked a feew kissed a few. But see i really like joseph i like a lot of things about him. But see he is a big flirt and so am i so evan though one of us would be in a relationsship we would still end up fliorting with some one els. But im not really worried about that i want to know how can i pick between them which one to choose and if i should tell the one that i didnt pick that i go with his friend pleaz help signed~ worried to pick (link)
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ok...good thing u talked to bryan...n u finished things up wit him....now from wut i see i think u like joseph more...b/c thats the one u actually talkin more about...n thats the one you kissed n flirted with...I think that Donald is just a good friend n u love him as a friend...Now think bout it...n think bout who makes u happier...n who puts a smile on ur face everytime ur down...try to see wit who u see ur self more...good luck *best wishes* xoxo effy
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There is this boy named Joseph he his really cute and really sweet and im really into him and he is into me to. But see he is friends with one of my friends his name is Donald. And Donald has a little brother named Bryan. Ok see my problem is all three of them like me and want to go out with me. But see i didnt know Donald and Bryan like me till recently. I asked y didnt they say any thing and response was cause joseph wanted to go with you but see i dont know if i want to go with joseph. I think i might want to go out with donald but i cant do that with out one of them finding out and turning into a big mess but i think i really do want to go with joseph what should i do sign~Triple Trouble (link)
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wow....confused =/...hmmm u said that u wanted to go wit joseph at the begining...n then u said u dont know if u want to go wit joseph....then u said that u wanna go wit Donald...but u cant do that b/c then it will b a big mess n so on...n then u thought that u relly wanna go wit joseph...ok make a big scraxh on top of Bryan's name...now DONALD OR JOSEPH....hmmm clear ur mind n see who u see ur self wit....n for who u have more feelings...tell them ur confused n ur gonna think bout it (dont think to long cuz u might loose ur chances) so then go wit the one who u think is best for u n always puts a smile on ur face even though ur on the worst moments of ur life ;) xoxo effy GOOD LUCK
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What car is better Porsche GT2 or Ferrari 575 Marrenello (link)
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i would say ferrari...;) xoxo effy i like porsche 2 though..but ferrari better...so Ferrari :) xoxo effy
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my boyfriend is 15 and i'm 13/f well i think that his friends are telling him that he is stupid for going out with me, i want to talk to him about it but i'm scared to. he is my neighbor and i want to call him but i'm to scared that he is going to break up with me. what should i do (link)
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hmm talk to him n ask him if he cares wut his friends thinks...if he likes u n he relly care bout u that wouldnt effect ur relationship...so just go ahead n do it...if it ends up ur relationship it just wasnt ment to b n he is not that Mr.RIght...move on n get to know new ppl...give some other guy a chance ;) *best wishes* xoxo effy
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f/16: there are 2 guys that i like the good boy and the bad boy. please tell me which u think is better and why.
the good boy: likes to have fun, former bmx biker, likes to chill, friends kinda boring unless you like to just sit there an talk; in band, up to do pranks, doesnt do drugs,and likes kids but doesnt have any.
the bad boy: loves to have fun, skater, drummer, never a dull moment, always up to pranks, does drugs, likes kids but doesnt have any, always ends up in trouble (not major trouble).
thanx for your advice
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that depends on wut kind of gurl u are..on wut u like to do..n depnding on who u see ur self more with...if u like to sit around and b bored or w/e then go for the good boy...if u like to have adventures n worry bout ur b/f being in trouble or w/e n u dont care that he does drugs then go for da bad boy....xoxo effy
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hey.. okay i like this guy.. and he likes me.. well he tells me he loves me.. BUT hes going out with my best friend... he said he doesnt like her that much anymore and he really wants to go out with me.. and i want to go out with him.. but he doesnt like to break up with people so hes gonna try to make her break up with him.. if she did break up with him, what should i do if he asks me out? because i really want to say yes cuz i like him a lot... but i also dont want to lose a best friend... PLEASE HELP!! thank you!
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hi Nikki, well thats tough...n heart breakin...if i was you i would never do that to my bestfriend...unless she doesnt like him much n she is cool bout it...try to see if she cares bout u going out wit her ex...try to ask her one day n b like "would u care if for. ex: one of ur friends would go out wit one of ur ex's?!?!" see wut she says...i duno but in my opinion i think going wit ur best friends ex isnt such a good idea...i wouldnt do it...n i dont recomend it unless u talk to her bout it n she's cool wit it...if u dont wanna loose her then dont do it...if u care so much bout the guy n u dont care bout no one else exept him then do it...that depends on how u feel :) hope i helped xoxo effy *best wishes*
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Please tell me what you think: What is better, the truth that brings a tear? Or a lie that brings a smile?
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a truth that brings tears!!! xoxo effy(my opinion)
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Do Guys like to get clothes as birthday presents from their girlfriends? (link)
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yah...xoxo effy
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Im 16/f and i think im addicted to alcohol...whenever i see it i must have one...its really bad....ive been drinking for abotu two years now...and im always safe about it..i just ALWAYS want it...like if my rents go out for 15 minutes im in the cabinet taking out vodka...i really dont know what to do... (link)
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go get help...try to keep ur self entertain wit other stuff...try to always keep ur self entertain by going out wit ur friends n w/e so u wont think bout it ;) xoxo effy
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i like guys but I think about gurls a lot.. does that make me gay? (link)
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hi,well i would say....yup!i guess ur by.. xoxo effy
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i accidentally asked my question to myself and i meant for it to be for the whole site. How do I get it posted on the whole site without waiting seven days? (link)
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rewrite the question again! ;) xoxo effy
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My best friend "Cara" is honest. A little too honest. In that sort of brutal way. She tells everyone the truth, but she does it in such a mean way. Me, Cara, & our other friend "Kandi" all went shopping one weekend for swimsuits. I tried on a bikini, & Kandi said I looked great, but that I should get a blue one instead of a pink one. Cara, on the other hand, said that it made me look chubby (even though I'm super thin) & that I should get a one-piece, like she is. Later that day, she criticized me & Kandi bcuz we were pigging out on pizza, while she only ate a salad. Another weekend, me, Kandi, & Cara went to see The Stepford Wives. On our way to Kandi's house, Cara was whining the whole way there. Even Kandi's mom agreed that Cara is a pain in the @$$. I have to see Cara again on Friday. What should I do if she's bitchy to me & Kandi again? (link)
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tell her to get a grip on her self n not worry bout u guys...tell her to stop being sooo juging..n tell her that next time she gives advice or w/e tell her not to b so mean bout it...there are plenty of other ways to tell someone something....xoxo effy
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This girl Deanna R. always give me an attitude, but today i got really fed up. she started givin me an attitude because i had a qupte in my profile that she didnt like. So she starts threatining me to take it off. so i did. cuz i kno if u get her pisst off she'll throw a hissy fit and get a whole bunch of her friends to try to make my life shit. and i hate it. what should i do. i try as much as i can to avoid her, and ignore her rude comments but it really bugs me.
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STAND UP FOR UR SELF EVEN IF UR ALONE!!!! dont let ppl treat u like that...stand up to her...who the hell does she think she is that she treats u like that....be like "i didnt ask for ur opinion missy so dont give it to me...when i do then OKAY...till then leave me alone!!" n thats it...block her or w/e :-D xoxo effy
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Is it ok to eat once a day? That's about the the meals I eat a day. (link)
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no its not okay...u can become sick n anorexic..u better start eating b4 its 2 late...xoxo effy
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