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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end. I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.
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I was drinking last night and got really, really smashed. I know, I was being very stupid by drinking SO much. Anyway, I was at a party and I know this guy was really hitting on me and trying to get in my pants all night long. I was grinding on him some and we were making out. I'll admit that I remember him sliding his hand down my pants and fingered me for just like a few minutes, but I was really, really horny so I KNOW I totally let him do that to me because it feels good.
I'm a virgin though and I want to save myself for marriage and I kept telling him no to putting his penis in me but he kept trying to persuade me. Anyway, I ended up passing out sometime and woke up without most of my clothes on (I only had on my thong panties). It wouldn't have been a big deal but it was like someone had taken off my underwear and put them back on me? I can't be for sure.
Anyway, my loser friends weren't there to take care of me and now I'm worried that the guy succeeded and we did have sex. I called the loser "friends" and they told me crap about me screaming at them a lot to leave me alone with the guy. I know I didn't do that because I'm not that kind of person so they have to be making that up. They are probably too stupid to just tell me the truth that they don't care if I have sex or not. One of the loser friends told me that the last time she saw me I was with the guy and his pants were down and I was giving him head. I PROBABLY did do that because I usually give some really hott guy head at the parties I go to. This guy was WAY hott too. I don't remember that this time though.
Today I'm not bleeding or anything but I have before when I fingered myself and masturbated with things so I think I had already ripped my hymen out. How can I tell if I'm still a virgin? Do I need to see a doctor to find out? Is there actually a way? Should I find out the guy's name and take him to court because he totally took advantage of me last night?! I'm furious if he did have sex with me because I totally didn't say yes to that!
To start off with, you do realize that your whole argument here is completely invalid, correct?
You were drunk. You could've agreed to things (or not have agreed to things) and you'd never remember because drinking ruins your memory. That guy could've totally raped you, you could've also have given him permission but would you even remember? Probably not. You have no recollection of what happened after a certain point of the night, so how you're to know whether or not you said yes or no is beyond me.
You can't really take him to court for anything. You were drunk, don't remember much, and were giving him head at a party. What case do you think you have here? Sorry to say but your actions will work against you if you were to take this to court. And why are your friends losers? It is not their job to "take care of you." You are not their kid, and you're a big girl. You can make your own decisions & take care of yourself. They are not there to baby you or make sure you're okay. Yes, it'd be nice if they did but the world is dog eat dog. It's every man or woman for themselves so the sooner you realize that the better.
I highly suggest that you go get checked for STDs and pregnancy. If he took advantage of you, there's a pretty good chance he didn't use protection. Go get yourself checked out & next time stop drinking. Alcohol makes people throw their morals out the window & then play the blame/denial game. No thanks.
I have a 5 year-old daughter studying ballet and dreaming of going pro, her brother is 2.5 years old and she wants him to learn ballet. I also want him to learn, but have a husband that thinks it's gay... Any advice on any side?
I don't see anything wrong with it. Just because your son does ballet doesn't mean he'll end up being a homosexual. Your husband needs to get his head out of his ass. He's being a homophobe and a discriminatory. If I had a son & he did ballet, I'm sure I wouldn't love him any less.
Enroll him in ballet. If your husband doesn't like it, too damn bad. Your son can be whatever he wants. If your husband is going to be a homophobe then he needs a serious lesson.
At my shool, we're having decade day.
Its where you dress up as like, a hippie, or somthing old school
I'm not lookin' to go all out with it since I'm late, and it's TOMORROW and I can't really get props.
But I need some I deas.
I don't want to be a hippie either, it's not original and everyones going to be doing it.
haha.
Help?
Dress up for the 80's! Lots of neon, off the shoulder, leg warmers, etc.
what is so bad about pot?
It can:
Ruin your chances of getting a job.
Kill your brain cells & ruin your lungs.
It really hurts your memory.
for people who get really wet when they're turned on does sex for the first time hurt?
You can't really tell if your hymen is broken because lots of different things can break it. As far as sex hurting, it'll hurt no matter what when you have it for the first time.
Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. This sounds extremely creepy and unhealthy to me? I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Should I do something about it.
He's either really attracted to her to the point of a crush, or he's just saying all of this for shock value. It's normal to be attracted to someone, especially older people.
I sometimes say the same thing about Ryan Reynolds, but I'm normal. I think he's okay. He's just attracted to her. If it keeps up, just discuss your concern.
3 months ago i had heartburn for about 2 weeks and i took gaviscon and i had no more heartburn. Now, I have heartburn again and my bf told me also that I have bad breath. I have no infection in my teeth or gums so I think it's something from the stomach.
I think it is better to go to the doctor!!
Can heartburn and bad breath be related?? Is it something serious or nothing to worry about? Is there someone who had the same problem?? Any help pls?
I don't think it's anything serious. You may just have bad breath. I don't think bad breath can be related to heartburn. Just brush your teeth more, use mouth wash & carry mints or minty gum around with you. :)
As far as heartburn goes, try and refrain from eating spicy foods. You could just have acid reflex, but your doctor would've told you about that.
If you think it's a big deal, see a doctor just to be sure that you're okay. It'll put your worries to a hault!
so i plan on going to new york for a few days in november! how much money should i be looking to save (minus plane tickets)and i already have a place to stay at my boyfriend's house)i would just need money for food, random spending, etc! thanks guys!
I'd say a few hundred. New York is probably really pricy so you wanna have a good amount of money with you. Have your boyfriend take you to the cheap spots though. Chances are, he'll know where all the good, fairly priced shopping is located.
Have fun!
Okay so recently Ive been talking to this guy (I'm fifteen, so is he) we'll call him Mike and he's really nice and funny and sweet and sincere, you get the idea. Well for the past month or so we've just been hanging out as friends, flirting a lot, and a tiny bit of physical stuff. Well I've started to really like him. He's awesome and I think he likes me too. But see theres this like senior girl who likes him (kinda creepy, yeah) and her two friends who are also like okay buddys with me were talking to me about it. They said that Mike had sent their friend (the one that likes him) naked pictures of himself, like no pants... Ew. I asked one of Mike's really close friends/my friend if this was true and the friend said "I knew they were talking but I asked Mike and he said he never sent them." Now I think I can look at this one of two ways. 1. It's true and Mike lied to his friend, and the two girls (who said they actually saw with their own eyes the pictures) are right. or 2. The girls are making it up because they know their friend likes Mike and they know I kinda like Mike so they want to get me out of the picture... I REALLLLLY hope its option two. But I don't know what to do!!! So here are my questions; which option do you think it is, or do you think its something else? and also, what if it is true??? That is something that would really bother me... I don't know if I could look at him the same... And third... How do I deal with all of this???
It's probably option 2. If it's true, then get over him. Obviously he doesn't respect you enough to talk to you & only you. When you like someone, you don't talk to other girls with an interest in them, it's rude.
There is a new show on Nickalodeon called the troop and I wanna know how i can find Nicholas Purcell's email address.He plays Jake on the show. He is so hot! PLease tell me and find the REAL one. Thank you very much. Or how do i find his cell number or AIM.
You're not going to find any of that stuff. It's creepy.
My best friend hasn't been acting like a friend. She is always blaming things that I didn't do on me and even blaming them on my mom. I really don't know what to do. We had some great times together, but is it right to let that go?
She's dragging family into it, and that right there would cross the line for me in any friendship. Once someone says something about my family in the wrong tone or aspect, the friendship is over. Blood is thicker than water.
Yeah, so there's this girl in my school, and she's so annoying and we are not friends anymore because she was just being so mean to me and all. I made new friend's and this girl wants me to be her friend again, but my friends tell me not to. What should I do?
Do what you want to do. If you want to be friends with her again, then go for it. Just keep in mind how she was before and that chances are that she may be exactly the same.
Really take the time to think about if you want a rude, annoying friend around.
i broke up with my boyfriend cuz all my friends were preasurin me about going out with a total loser. its been about 3 month since i dumped him and i still like him. i want to go out with him again cuz i know i made a mistake by dumpin him but i dont no how to tell him that i still like him?
Just tell him you made a mistake & that you regret breaking up with him & would like to try the relationship again.
Next time, don't listen to your friends. You can date whoever you want & if he's a loser, so what? They don't have to date him & it's not their choice anyways. Tell them to fuck off.
anyone know where i can find a cheap underoath tshirt?
Hot Topic has them ranging from $20-22.
Other sites have them for $15 or cheaper. My boyfriend & I use merchnow.com
You can also try buying merch from the band when they come through your town! The money goes directly to them, and it's much better than buying from a store. The money they make on the road helps them to eat everyday, have money for hotel rooms if they need to stop there so they can shower, and have gas for their buses & vans.
It seems to me like more and more places are having earthquakes lately and I was wondering what causes earthquakes and if there was something we could do to prevent earthquakes? Are there places more vulnerable to earthquakes anyway? :\
Earthquakes are caused by the fault lines shifting & moving. There's no way to prevent this. The only thing we can really do is be more prepared for them whenever they may strike. All the places that sit on fault lines are very vulnerable. California has a high Earthquake count, so does Asia. It's pretty unavoidable. It's a sad thing, but it's a natural disaster that's out of our control.
My best friend and I were talking yesterday about racism and we got on the subject of President Obama being a black man. We both heard people saying things like, "I'm not afraid to vote for a black man," and, "I'm voting for Obama because I'm not racist!" A lot of people we came in contact with seemed to not care what Obama was about but focused more on what color he was. Well, we both got to thinking and...isn't it racist to vote for a black guy just because he is black? Isn't that like NOT voting for a black man because he's black? It sounds pretty much like the same sort of racism, right? I don't know maybe we're over-thinking this sort of thing. What do you think?
I would say so. I wouldn't want someone being friends with me based only on the fact that I'm Hispanic. Think of it like a Sorority. On TV (this isn't real life, keep that in mind), they show sororities to be judgemental. Often times, they are told to keep their groups diverse because having only one race in their sorority is seen as racist. So, they add one or two different races because if they don't, they'll get shut down. Now, just because they added those 2 people, doesn't mean they necessarily like them or want them there & they'll probably be rude to them in hopes of getting them out. You see what I mean?
To vote for someone or to accept someone just because of their race would (in my personal opinion) be racist. People should vote for a candidate because of what he stands for, not what he looks like.
I've had fake/acrylic nails for such a long time now (done by a salon). I'm just sick of going every few weeks, so my problem is.. is there any way I can get them off at home? I don't like it when the professionals take them off because it really hurts their way. Is there any products I can use or soak them in to get them off? I've heard soaking them in soapy, warm water helps but that takes forever! Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.
There's no reason it should hurt when you get them taken off at the salon. That should be painless. It would hurt more to take them off yourself than to take them off professionally.
You can try going to a different salon. Each one is different and probably has different methods.
If you really wanna go through with taking them off yourself, get 100% pure acetone. Put the acetone in a bowl, and put your nails in for about 10-15 minutes. They should pretty much peel off after that. If they're still a little hard, keep them in longer.
What factors make a guy last longer in sex? Is it just genetic or does it have to do with experience? And are there any ways to make a guy last longer if he's done too fast?
Have the guy masturbate first. He'll be exhausted when he's finished so it'll take him longer to orgasm while having sex with you.
ok, so i love my boyfriend, but hes a little bit too small "down there." Are there any ways to get me more satisfied during sex since hes so small?
I've said this before & I'll say it again:
No guy needs to be built like a porn star to pleasure you. Size does not matter when it comes to the bedroom. As long as he knows what he's doing when it comes to sex, there should be no problems with his size. It's not the size that matters, but how it's being worked!
Anyways, try foreplay before heading into intercourse. Also, be sure to use protection. :)
There is this girl, Sally, who is really sarcastic. She hangs out with me and my other two friends. Super annoying, but... I deal with her.
There is a foreign girl (Kelly) that goes to our school that Sally has been translating for. Kelly doesn't speak English really well but she seems very sweet so whenever I see her in the halls I try to be friendly with her and say "hello." She sat with us once or twice at lunch. Otherwise I don't talk to her at all. Of course, because she doesn't speak English.
Kelly added me on Facebook, and, trying to be nice, I wrote on her wall and said, "Hi! :-)" She posted back on my wall and said hello as well. Was I weird doing this? I was just trying to be nice, because she added me. Of course Sally had to make a sarcastic comment on what I said to Kelly and say "FUCK OFF KELLY LOL."
I don't think that's weird. You were just saying hi & being nice. Most people add others on Facebook & then forget that they've added them & never talk with each other. It's great that you said hi. Maybe you can try & get to know her better. :) Just don't forget to be like that in person.
Also, is she talking to Sally in her first language, or is she speaking broken English? I think if she's speaking in her own language, that's a bad thing. It's best for her to learn English by trying to speak it. If she's just going to use her native language, it'll become harder for her to learn English, and it'll take her longer to converse with you. Just a tip! :)