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what are some creative ideas that i could possibly make using photos or buy for my mom and dad (seperately or together)?
It would be cute to make your mom and dad a scrap book. you can make one with alot of pictures with you and your day, then one with pictures of you and your mom. They would love it.
Hey, does quitar hero work for Game cubes? cuz i have a game cube, and i really want guitar hero...
thanks.
No that game is only for PS2, sorry
i have thick, curly hair. its hard to style my hair sometimes. do you have any ideas on hair styles for me & if you do, can you tell me how to do them?
I have thick hair too, and it gets curly/wavey sometimes. But curly hair is really nice.. like some girls straighen their hair everyday and never let their natural hair out. If your hair is curly, you can always clip back your bangs (i always do that, its easy and it never gets old). Some times its cute to just put it in a pony and let some curls fall down- just kind of put your hands under your hair by your neck and put it in a looseish kind of pony (like my default picture, it looks like my hair is short but ts just up and theres pieces hanging down). You can have alot of fun with head bands and bows, those are always fun to put in your hair. If you have clips with little bows or little things on them. Be creative, theres alot of things you can do with your hair. Those are usually things i try with mine. Heres a site that seems pretty intresting with hair styles..
http://www.bosshairstyles.com/article.curly-hairstyles.htm
Hope this helped =)
a blowjob, he fingered me and we had sex.
I kno for a fact i was the only one he has ever done it with
do you think he thinks about it on a daily basis?
i cannot talk to him about it becuz of another reason
Opinoions?
I bet he does. That is a thing you cant just forget about. No doubt he thinks about it, and if he doesnt then I would find that strange. Dont you think about it? He probably does too.
I'm 14/f and I know that I should probably forget about it until later or something but this has been lingering on my mind for a while and it's bothering me.
Well, first I believed in staying a virgin till marriage thing and I still do but it's that when I think about that, that would mean having had sex with only one partner and that bothers me, you know? I wanna experiment with other people than just one person. I don't know. Right now all I can think about when I see a guy that I like is: hmmm, I wanna have sex with him. And I haven't even had my first kiss yet. >.<
Haha, anywhos is this weird of me and what do you think on my thoughts on whether to stya a virgin or not.
And please don't tell me the "folloy my heart" or "you'll know when you're ready" thing. i just wan't a really honest opinion b/c right now, I really wanna just have sex with all my crushes
So your stuck between wanting to stay a virgin til your married and wanting to have sex with your crushes? Maybe the reason you want to have sex with all the guys you have a crush on is just your hormones, because if you actually are in the situation you might different, like you might feel nervous and dont feel right about doing it before your married. And if you strongly believe in not having sex till your married, then dont. But if you think its werid to stick wtih only one partner.. then you shouldnt wait till your married if you dont want to. To me it sounds like you want to do it more then waiting. And as much as you dont want someone to tell you to follow yuor heart, you just have to find out what you really want. But before you have sex you should go over all the consequinces and everything you get yourself into and what you think is right or truely want. Best of luck, hope this helped =)
Katie ♥
About 5 months ago I got into a fight with my long distance bf. I tried to reconcile but gave up after two days of him not returning my calls. He can be very stubborn. In the past when we've fought I've always been the one to mend fences but this time I figured he needs to make the first move. Well the other night I was at work and his best friend came into the store. It's a HUGE store. It's a grocery store but it sells everything else too. I know he and his friend are very close. His best friend was actually looking for me- and when he found me he was being very friendly and asked about the job. My gut tells me my ex put him up to this. Also- I now what you're thinking that maybe his friend is interested in me. Well that's not the case because he was there with his gf. So back to my original question- do you think my ex wants me back?
He might miss you. How long have you been going out? You cant tell for sure unless you actually talk to him about it. I would think he might miss/want you back if hes asking his friend stuff about you. Maybe just try confronting him on how you feel and hopefully he will let you know his feelings. Hope this helped =)
What do you do if you think two guys (both that you are friends with) might like you?
Dont toy with them. Because then if you mess with both of them, they might start competing over you (if they do like you) and it can ruin their friendship (if they are friends). If you dont like either of them, then try to lay off flirting with them so you dont lead them on alot. If you like both of them, you should see which one you like more. Hope this helped ♥
I've been seeing this girl for a while now and things are getting serious. We've talked and I think soon we're going to have sex. But I have a problem. I'm really insecure about the size of my penis. I'm not stupid, I know size matters, but how much does it matter? I mean, is it possible to be good if you aren't average or bigger?
Some people think the size matters, others think of the technique. It probaby depends on the girl. You cant help the size of your junk, just like a girl cant help the size of her boobs. If she cares about you, I wouldnt think he would be concerned about it that much.
if a guy is checking you out and you make eye contact and you kinda like him, how should you react besides smiling..? THANKS!
I think noding is cool. Haha just like a little one though, to show you thinks its pretty cool how he is checking you out. You can also check him out back to aknowledge it. A wink or a cute face.. including a smile.. is also good. Or you can just go up and start talking to him. Hope this helped
There is this boy
and i like him alot
but just recently something bad happened[long story]
which caused him to hate me and my friend
my friend talked to him about it and he was nice and calm about it and he said he wouldnt hate us forver
but i was to scared to talk to him so i didnt, so i messaged him saying sorry and all that good stuff
do you think that was the right thing to do?
and do you think he will respond or just ignore it?
im so scared, i cant stop thinking about it but i know he wont get it until tommorow!
please help
It was right to apoligize to him. He should be happy to hear that. If he is pissed, maybe its cause he just wasnt in the mood to hear about it. But I wouldthink he'd be fine about it. If he told your friend he wont hateyou forever, he probably wont. I do advise sleeping it off, cause things seem to be better in the morning.. and when your sleeping you dont have to deal with it =). Good luck
Katie
if i have suppperrrrr curly hair like this
http://s109.photobucket.com/albums/n78/BizDontQuit/?action=view¤t=curly.jpg
(not me)
would a ghd give me pin straigh amazingly gorgeous hair and is it easy to use i mean my last straitener didnt do anything about the bumpieness in the back of my head that i cant get??? please help!
If you already dont, I would try just like geting out of the shower and trying to blow dry your hair as straigh as you can so its not super super curly (if that might help). Then you can straighen it and see if it works. Im pretty sure that it will work well. Hope this helped
for my myspace, i want to put either buttons, or just links to where someone can add me, or like message me, look at my blogs, stuff like that. anyone have a site with a generator for that?
here are a couple of sites ;
http://www.profilejuice.com/profile-tweaks/
http://www.profiletweaks.com/welcomealert.php
http://www.mytweaksite.com/
... i hope those are what you meant? If so, you can always go to yahoo serch and type in "profile tweaks". Also go to xanga.com, and if your familiar with the site.. then go to blogrings and type in myspace stuff. And bunches of blogrings and pages should come up that have layouts and stuff. Hope this helped
ok last year i was a complete dork. i mean it. i did the stupedist things and was a complete nerd. i embarrassed myself when i didnt even know it. this year, i am totally different and im not like that anymore. i dont want people to see me as that way anymore. how can i change peoples opinion of me?
and dont tell me i should be happy with who i am because that wont help me at all.
I wouldnt tell you to be happy with yourself, because yourself wants to change and its fine to change sometimes. You can try being nice to people, and if you tihnk dressing different will get people to stop thiking of you as nerdy then go ahead. Maybe get a cute hair cut, or something to change your apperiacne to get people to see you differently as someone new. But I will tell you, to just be true to yourself. If you want to change, do it for yourself and not cause people around you. Hope this helped =)
arent really into the same kind of stuff. He plays the drums and is kind of emo. But I'm pretty athletic and i guess im a little preppy...so we kind of run out of things to talk about usually we're talking online and i ask him the usually how was your day..what are u doin..how are you..whats up but he doesnt say much back so what are some toppics i can bring up that will start a good conversation..and please tell me accual ways that i can say them.
If you both like the same kind of music (drums seem to be in alot of emo, alternative, rock songs so yeah hah)- if you like the same band you can talk about their songs or about anything else in the music genre. If hes in any sports you can talk about that, or school subjects if you have any classes together. Once you find a good topic that both of you are intrested in, things should flow and the conversation should stay lively. Good luck
Katie
ok i have a friend her lets call her kristine and this guy lets call him rob now, kristine likes rob and already told him but ran away! I want to hook them up! should I just stay out of it or help her get to him!?
You can help if you want and if she isnt going to get mad at you for it. I dont she would get pissed though. Maybe just talk to her about him and see where things can go. Good luck
so there is this guy and ive just started liking him and i told my one friend about him and all of a sudden shes starting to talk to him and flirting with him. Now this isnt new to me either. its happened to me twice before once with the same person. the other time with my other friend. but im really getting sick of it and dont want to loose this guy. i like the guy but i dont know if he likes me. but i dont want my friend to get to him first. help please
Maybe try an indirect approach? Like if your around her talk about how you like him, or give off hints that you like him.. cause if she was a really good friend she wouldnt be talking to him and understand that you like him and she should lay off. If that doesnt work, try telling her how you feel. You might get in a little fight, but just be prepaired and when your telling her about how you feel, be nice and dont be yelling at her. I hope this helped =)
Katie
Ok so here's the deal I was with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday. I really like him and we spent time together we talked and cuddled but nothing else. I really didn't feel confterable when he was hugging me. I know I love him but I don't know what's wrong. I didn't want him too hug me at all yesterday. What's wrong??. Any advice would be useful thanks!
Maybe your just not used to him. You should be feeling better after a while, you might have been just annoyed by him maybe (cause i know when i am annoyed with guys i just think, "oh god get away from me"). Im sureyou'll feel different later.
Katie
ok sorry in advance if this takes a while...
f/13
ok so i was best friend with this girl all thru 7th grade (now im in 8th)...like really really close. long story short, we spent a little 2 much time together over the summer, started getting in a lot of fites, and basicly 1 day she decided she didnt want to be as close ne more. we never stopped completely being friends cause A. we go to the same camp and skool and B. we are in the same "group" of friends. obviously, we got in a big fite about it at first, and some aftershocks for the next month or so, but after a while we calmed down into like just ok-friends mode. well a few weeks ago she told me she missed me and i told her i missd her 2 so now we stuck on the label "best friends" for a few days. but it felt like it was just a label cuz nuthin rele changed so we kinda demoted ourselves bak down. now lately, neither of us has said n e thing, and maybe im just over-reacting, but it feels like we mite b getting closer. we (plus her boyfriend and another of her close friends) went to the movies yesterday, and today i called her and we talked about nuthin for the first time in gosh knows how long. i mean it was only for like 10 minutes, and it was a little strained at times, but it still happened.
now i really miss her, and have for the past few weeks. i dont want to like talk to her about it (as u can see our relationship is complicated enough as it is) so what do i do?
any help appreciated! thanks!
Even if you dont want to talk to her about it, you can always just be like.. "man remember when we did.. bablalba.. last summer" and bring up good times or inside jokes. Cause if she misses you as much, she might be thinking the same thing, or might be scared to get as close. Maybe ask to hang out with a group of people, or just you two. But try taking it slow first, if you jump back into hanging out everyday then you might repet this whole issue. This problem, I think, is one that you have to see where things are going and wait. Best of luck =)
Katie
I don't really know how...and kinda feel embarassed asking. I asked before but really people just sent me links to sites that kinda but didnt really help. Can anyone tell me how to actually make out.
Brush your teeth, have a mint or something to freshin your breath. You never want to kiss, or have someone kiss you when your breath is nasty. Standing up is a good make out position your first time so you arnt twisted if your siting down. If you can picture that? But standing up, its just eaiser. You can put your hands over his neck, and he should put this hands by your waist. Kind of like slow dancing. It can be different though. Okay so you can go in for a closed mouth kiss, then just open your mouth, put your toung in and try spelling your name (or just move your tounge around). Then you take your tounge out and repeat! You should get the flow of, theres a first for everything and after a few times you get better. Hope this helped!
Katieee
for myspace. how do you like put pictures under the catorgory heroes like on the side by where it says favorite books movies songs and stuff like that
Go to a image hosting site like..
www.tinypic.com
and up load the picture that you want and get the code that says HTML for myspace, its the first one. then just copy and paste it into your heros, about me, etc and it should work =).
Katie