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whats wrong?
Ok so here's the deal I was with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday. I really like him and we spent time together we talked and cuddled but nothing else. I really didn't feel confterable when he was hugging me. I know I love him but I don't know what's wrong. I didn't want him too hug me at all yesterday. What's wrong??. Any advice would be useful thanks!
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Maybe youre not used to having a boyfriend. is he your first? Some days, its just like that. You dont know why but Youre not the only one whos like that. Everyone else is. Youll get through it.
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When you start spending time with him, you will probally get used to being with him, new relationships are always akward in the beginning because your not used to being around the person and you may not be comfortable around them yet. So I honestly don't think anything is wrong, unless after getting to know him better you still have that feeling.
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Maybe your just not used to him. You should be feeling better after a while, you might have been just annoyed by him maybe (cause i know when i am annoyed with guys i just think, "oh god get away from me"). Im sureyou'll feel different later.
Katie
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if this was your all's first time being together, then you just aren't used to being with someone.
it's all right, the more you spend time with him, the more you will get used to hugging him.
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I honestly don't think they're is anything wrong with that. First of all, it's the first time you guys have actually cuddled or even been together. If you love him, the physical things shouldn't be important. I think you should just give it some time, let yourself get comfortable with this new person in your life. If he loves you back, he'll let you take all the time you need. Now, to get all mom-ish: If you don't feel comfortable with him touching you, don't let him.
Hope I helped
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