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okay..well im a female 14 and i went overr my friends house yesterday and we invited over her bf and our guy friend jake(<-he has a gf rachel) and my friiend jenn. was cuddling with her bf so me and jake started cuddling and stuff i kiinda fell bad cuz did he cheat on his gf? and y did he comeover if he knew something like that was gonna happen? i dont no what to do now should i just forget about last night and act like nothing happened? p.s jakee is in love wiith his gf right now.
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You both cheated on his girlfriend. Let it go. Even though something did happen it is up to Jakee to deal with it. And know in the future to stay away from guys with girlfriends. You are just as responsible as Jakee. You knew of the girlfriend too. The fact that you two fooled around didnt just happen. Find a single guy to make out with and ask yourself how you would feel if some girl was making out with your boyfriend. Have some self respect and control.
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Some people are just cuddlers. I've done it with friends before. With my boyfriend's best friend while my boyfriend was sitting right there. It meant nothing and my boyfriend didn't care. It only means something if it goes any farther. Don't worry about it too much. If there was a problem it would be between Jake and his girlfriend. There's nothing you can do other than refuse to do more than cuddle with him if he tries anything. Act like nothing happened because nothing did! Good luck. :)
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Um cuddling isn't cheating. It's just cuddling. If there was kissing then it's cheating. But you didn't say that happened.
He came over because he wanted to hang out, some things just happen .. but it's no big deal.
Just act like nothing happened, because NOTHING did happen.
I don't even think it's flirting because.. it's just a friendly type of thing. If your friend & her bf were cuddling.. Jake probably thought you might have been lonely or something.
Since "he's in love" .. it didn't mean anything.
So don't let it bother you.
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I wouldn't make a big deal out of it if he was just cuddling with you. Yeah, it's flirting, but flirting isn't cheating. If you don't like how he does that to you, and if he tries to do it again, just tell him.
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omg this sooo happened to me over the summer! i was hanging out with this guy i had liked for the longest time and we actually kinda dated for a while. but he had gotten another gf and so i knew my boundries when me and him hung out. despite the fact he had a gf, HE was the one flirting and wanting to cuddle. but the next day, he wouldn't even look at me, almost like i was to blame for what happened. his excuse... "i cuddle with girls anytime i watch a movie, just don't read into it like that" and i'm like "yeah, it's kinda hard NOT to read into it bud". so i'd say that the best thing is to just wait and see what happens next time you guys are together
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hey things happen.
i mean dont plan on him dumping his girlfreind or anything like that for you. personally i would get over it. because he probabley doesnt think anyhting of it. it was just cuddling.
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