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is this a sign my ex might want me back?
About 5 months ago I got into a fight with my long distance bf. I tried to reconcile but gave up after two days of him not returning my calls. He can be very stubborn. In the past when we've fought I've always been the one to mend fences but this time I figured he needs to make the first move. Well the other night I was at work and his best friend came into the store. It's a HUGE store. It's a grocery store but it sells everything else too. I know he and his friend are very close. His best friend was actually looking for me- and when he found me he was being very friendly and asked about the job. My gut tells me my ex put him up to this. Also- I now what you're thinking that maybe his friend is interested in me. Well that's not the case because he was there with his gf. So back to my original question- do you think my ex wants me back?
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He might miss you. How long have you been going out? You cant tell for sure unless you actually talk to him about it. I would think he might miss/want you back if hes asking his friend stuff about you. Maybe just try confronting him on how you feel and hopefully he will let you know his feelings. Hope this helped =)
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I am thinking that this may just be a case of wishful thinking on your part.It is truly obvious that you want this to be a sign that he does want you back but, consider that he himself has not contacted you. His friend could have just felt obliged to say hello to you and question just to see how you are doing.When a man truly wants to be with someone he surrenders to that fact and his pride becomes nothing.He will find a way to get to you but, not through someonelse. Five months later you should figure that he is not exactly dying without you . I know this may all be a little harsh but, it is not meant to be . I simply think that you should go on and find you someone who will bring you happiness that you deeply deserve. Even if he did send his friend to checkup on you , do you actually want a man who can't speak for himself . Don't settle for that !
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If your ex really wanted you back, he would have come into the store to see you himself. Seriously, even assuming that he sent his friend, why would you want a guy that isn't man enough to talk to you himself but has to send a 'friend'? I think the correct question is, do you want your ex back? Maybe you do, but give some thought as to why it has taken this guy over 5 months to get in touch with you (assuming that's why his friend came to see you in the first place). Don't you deserve better than that?
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