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I've never given or received oral sex. I am 15/f. People say it is normal to do it at my age and I sort of agree. I am afraid of having a guy go down on me because I don't have this kind of experience and I am shy. I'm sort of afraid of going down on a guy because I don't want to do it wrong.

People always say you're supposed to wait until it feels right but I think it will only feel right when I give it a try.

Any advice??

i think you really do have to wait until it feels right... to be comfortable and enjoy it. before i met the right guy, i didn't want anyone lookin' down there but once i did, i didn't mind. just giving it a try could end up in a time you regret or just didn't really enjoy. if you need anything else, lemme know.

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How does it work like how much do they usually pay for a clothing item? I have a lot of clothes I can't fit into anymore because I lost a lot of weight and they are all from Aeropostale. If you have ever been there, what brands did you bring, how many did you bring, and how much you got for them. Thanks in advance.

you are much better off taking them to goodwill. from my understanding, they give you 1/3 of what it's worth and take that off your taxes. so if you say your one bag of clothes is worth $150, they'll give you $50. i'm not sure if that's exactly how tho but i know it's more than plato's.

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Okay, since my parents money is going towards my lukeima treatment..a friend gave me a prom dress. The problem witht he dress is that it doesn't fit quite right. Very close though. When I zip it up, I can't get it to go all the way because I'm just a bit overweight for the dress. Mom said that five or ten pounds should do the trick. Prom is the 28th of this month. Can I lose that much between now and then. I have about an inch to zip up in the back. If I lose some of the weight in my stomach, will that help it zip up? I want to kind of crash diet, but I can't really do that because I have to consider the fact the I have lukeima now I and I can't quite do that..

it depends on the dress style... if it's just on your upper back that won't close, there's not use in trying to diet... i have that same issue with most dresses and nothing will really help. you can try shapwear, etc. don't crash diet for this... there are so many reasons you shouldn't. maybe you should find another dress if at all possible. maybe another friend's dress from last year or a formal one from a while back, or one from a consignment shop. i don't think anyone would have a problem lending one to you if you have financial need. let me know if you need anything else.

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About 5 or 6 months ago I had sex for the first time and did all the foreplay and stuff, but with a friend of mine.[we werent going out]
Ever since, Ive wanted to do it so badly again with him and I think about it all the time.
We dont really talk anymore at all, and he now has a girlfriend.
But about 2 months after we did it, he brought it up and said he would do it again.
It was his first time too, and I know him and his girlfriend havent done anything.
Do you think he still thinks about it?
or what?
Its driving me crazy!

I think he still thinks about it... especially if he brought it up. Ask him if he does... don't do it in a way that he thinks you're dying to do it again tho... just casually like do you remember or do you ever think about it? i'm pretty sure he does tho..

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Mmkay. 15/f So my boyfriend and I have been going out for like... since september. We're really close because of what we've been through before our relationship. But now we've both noticed we're drifting apart. When we talk, there isn't much to talk about so we barely talk. Maybe even not speaking to each other for days. Yesterday we talked about all this. What we should do about our relationship and stuff. We both understand why we don't and why we do. He says he'll be happy as long as I'm happy, so I have the final say about ths whole thing. Should I break up or not?

All couples go through boring phases at times... there's just nothing new and exciting to talk about. give it some time but if you are unhappy for a long time, then break it off. He obviously cares about you so at least that's there. my opinion in short: don't break up... at least not yet.

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what's the best shampoo and conditioner in your opinion?

i like loreal vive.. the orange one.

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All of the "cool girls" at my school do drugs. All of the guys like them b/c they are easy. This guy I like only likes easy drug girls and I don't kow what to do to make him like me! Help!

don't go for him. really, he is not worth it. don't do drugs and stuff so he'll like you... he won't. trust me on this one..

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each year for easter my family gets together and has an egg drop contest. for those who don't know what an egg drop contest is, it's where you make kindof an apparatus for a raw egg so that it doesn't crack when thrown off a building. in the past years i haven't been too lucky with the contest and i was wondering what may be some good suggestions for it?

**please nothing about peanut butter, packing peanuts, jello, or balloons. i've tried all of these and they've failed me in the past

This might be totally off topic but my little brother's friend did this for a science fair. he was proving that toothpaste makes teeth stronger sooo he had one egg that was put in toothpaste (idk how many times) for a week and one that wasn't and the one that wasn't cracked a lot easier that the one that did use the toothpaste. I know it's not about the apparatus buttt it might come in handy.

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would you call the greatest in the world if you absolutely had too? Base it on quality of the music, showmanship, and their overall influence. Also say why you chose them:

-Led Zeppelin
-The Beatles
-AC/DC
-The Rolling Stones
-The Doors
-Metallica
-Pink Floyd
-Nirvana
-The Jimi Hendrix Experience

I'm in love with led zeppelin - they made all different kids of music with lots of variety and it's all just amazing to me.
the beatles are also really important... they changed the world.
sorry, can't pick just one.

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I keep looking at the clock when its 9:11! its so weird. like AM or PM, like.. i dont usually look for the time that often but like its been a pattern for a lot of years.. even before like the 9/11 twin towers thing happened, and i was little. (13/f) well when i was old enough to tell time ofcourse. why do you suppose this happens? or is it just a freaky coincidence?

it's just freaky coincidence.
i always look at the clock at 4:20 pm and 11:11 am and pm. it's weird, i know.

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Well next year I'm going to go to high school so I'm finally the right age (14 hopefully) to get a job. What kind of jobs do you think will be good as a first job? No fast foods. Something good for the community or somethign with a really good pay?

When should I apply? In the start of thsi summer? Beginning of the year when school starts?

I will warn you, most places don't hire at 14. Where I live now, not even 16... mostly 17 and up unless you have connections. :(
anyway, at 14, you can be a golf caddy. my friend did it for 2 summers and got paid a lot. he made $50 a day sometimes.
I was a soccer referee for a while. it's around $15 -22 for each game (about an hour). you have to take a training class and pass a test. it's hard work sometimes but it's good money if you're into soccer.

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What is the most you did in a 9 month relationship if you ever lasted that long and what was your age also? or a 7 month relationship any long period of relationship is good

my friend's 9 month was 2 days ago.. she's 15 and her bf is 16 and she's been fingered and given a handjob.

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I know this may sound stupid but like me and my mom aren't very close like most kids and their moms so I don't like going up to her and asking her to get me stuff like pads/tampons. I usually just send like a text or email and she'll get them for me, which probably also sounds stupid. But I recently sent an email and asked her to get me pads and I also asked to get me food and stuff. Well she got the food but she didn't get the pads for some reason. I don't know why though. So I guess I'll have to get them when me and my whole family go to the grocery store. And my family usually just stays in one big group and I don't want to like bring them all into that aisle. Is there a way I can like just put them in the cart without them noticing?

i'm not close to my mom either but just tell her. if you're on and don't have any, ask her for (or just take haha) a few of hers then she'll be the one buying them for both of you. (you're probably not on at the same time anyway)If your family always goes grocery shopping together, don't buy them there.... just get them next time you're at target with your mom. get enough for about 3 periods so you won't have to do it often.
if you don't want anyone to notice just kinda be like oh i'm gonna go get the cereal that i forgot to get and then grab that and some pads and stick it in the cart real fast. if your mom says why didn't you ask me first when she notices (which i doubt she will even mind) just say that you didn't want the whole family finding out and she will understand.

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how do you give a handjob? i know that might sound very weird but i have before and i don't know if i'm doing it right cause it always takes awhile before he cums. thanks.

You should ask him if he likes what you are doing. If he eventually cums, then he probably does. it usually takes a while, fyi.

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I LOVE to run. I'm joining cross country next year (I'll practice over the summer more; but I can run just fine)

My problem is my posture. I do most of my running right now on treadmills & ellipticals (and I'm sick of it so I started running outside more). I always run leaning WAY forward and I always stick my butt out. It's uncomfortable, annoying, and embarrassing. Plus, I tend to trip more. My spine's not curved, and I only take on this posture when jogging/running (not walking or anything).

How can I improve my posture when running? Thanks in advance =]

i don't know if it'll work for you but lean back and put your arms down your sides and see if that helps at all.

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i go to an all girl school and im not a lesbian. ive been fine with no boys for a while, but when i fisted my old school i realized how much i missed boys. I really want a boyfriend, and i know someguys, but they're like my family, and i just want to meet a guy so we can go out becasue im so lonely. Plus i like this guy, but hes younger than me, and my family and his family are good friends, and it would be awkward. I really need help on what to do to get a boyfriend, and how to deal with the guy i like!....

I used to go to an all-girls school so i understand your situation completely.
ways to meet guys - through your friends that have guy friends or borothers, hang out with family friends and meet their friends, find guys at an all guys school, join an activity that has guys in it (like a community service club or theater that needs guys), a co-ed sports team, or get a job. lemme know if you need anything else.

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there's a led zeppelin song that i cannot think of and i've asked like 50 people and no one can think of it..it's a pretty famous led zeppelin song they play it on the classic rock station a lot and the only way that i can describe it is that it's really light and it has kind of a piano type thing in the background in the chorus or something...and i remember it being something about love. yeah does anyone know what this song might be??/

famous- stairway to heaven
not so much but awesome - the rain song
if you can remember anything else let me know and i'll gladly listen to them till i find it.

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I have heard that Tampax pearl leave particles inside of you and are bad for you. Is that true?

I use pearl and i'venever had a problem. i think someone is trying to mess up tampax's reputation since almost everyone prefers pearl. I don't see how it's any different than any other tampon (besides the applicator).

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where can i touch a girl to turn her on??

thighs, neck, boobs, or just finger her.

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Is belly dancing really a great way to slim down?
Cuz I'm thinking of taking belly dancing classes this summer vacation.

I have 2 friends that did it last summer and i think they had one maybe 2 lessons a week and i don't think they slimmed down at all. they had a good time and i guess got some excersize but they weren't any different then how they started. it might just be that they were in beginner classes? that's just what i've seen but it might work for you.

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