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soo i'm wondering between the two..
Mmkay. 15/f So my boyfriend and I have been going out for like... since september. We're really close because of what we've been through before our relationship. But now we've both noticed we're drifting apart. When we talk, there isn't much to talk about so we barely talk. Maybe even not speaking to each other for days. Yesterday we talked about all this. What we should do about our relationship and stuff. We both understand why we don't and why we do. He says he'll be happy as long as I'm happy, so I have the final say about ths whole thing. Should I break up or not?
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Wait awhile, and see if things get any better. You could just be going through a phase in your relationship and soon you'll be as close as ever. But if it doesn't get any better then you should consider breaking it off with him. When you're with someone and it's meant to be, you'll have a connection and you won't have to worry about drifting apart. It seems like you both really care about your relationship, and I hope everything works out for the best. Good luck!
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break up! I've never regretted a breakup, if it's "meant to be" than it's meant to be and you'll get back together anyway. Being single is healthy, it gives you time to think and be independent. It's okay to drift away from people, I think it sounds like a great situation, the way you're both being honest with one another, you'll still be friends.
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All couples go through boring phases at times... there's just nothing new and exciting to talk about. give it some time but if you are unhappy for a long time, then break it off. He obviously cares about you so at least that's there. my opinion in short: don't break up... at least not yet. <3
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Actually, I think most relationships will go thru such a phase. At some point in their relationship, most of my frens tell me that they and their bf have nothing to tell each other anymore, and tt they're fearful bout having to break up. But after some time, they'll tell me that they're back to normal and everything's fine and dandy again.
I think such things do happen between frens too. Sometimes there's nothing to say, while other times we're just bursting to tell each other things. I would say continue with the relationship and see how it goes. Try to bring things up to talk bout. And if at the end of the day, despite all the trying, things still dun work out, you at least know that you've tried.
Don't stress bout having nothing to talk bout. Talk bout your day, what kind of peoeple you've met, any wierdos, idiots, admirable, enviable people watever just bring it out and talk bout it. Even though sometimes it can get really silent between the two of you, there is still something called companiable silence, where both of you aren't talking but you two just feel comfortable around each other without having to say anything.
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Give it another chance, and if it doesn't work out, then consider breaking up. If you break up now, you could regret it later & end up hating yourself.
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I think you should give it a last shot,you never want to throw anything away and then regret it later.
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