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I'm having a party tonight and i dont know what games we should play. Does anyone have any suggetions. Please no dirty suggestions b/c my parents will be home!!!

Well I hope you get this before your party but here are some games and activites:
Truth Or Dare
Marco Polo (if you have a pool or something)
Twister (regular twister)
Monopoly
Shrades (kinda dorky but if you're desperate...)
Dance with good music!


OR If you have a trampoline, there is this game you can do when one person does a trick on the trampoline, then the next person has to do the trick that person has just done. Then they need to make up their own trick. The next person in line does all the tricks the other people have done until they mess up or can't remember.

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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my dad usually makes me lunch before he goes to work when i have a 1/2 day of school.today he forgot and there is nothing i can make!HELP!Any food recipes i can make?!
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Here ya go:

peanut-butter and jelly sandwich
1. Get two pieces of bread.
2. Put peanut-butter on one piece of bread.
3. Put jelly on the other piece of bread.
4. Put it together.
5. Eat it.

salad
1. Get lettuce, carrots, cheese, and whatever else you like on your salad. Also a bowl or plate, and a type of salad dressing.
2. Break up the lettuce into small and big pieces.
3. Put them in the bowl and put the cheese, tomatoes, and othet toppings on it.
4. Put the dressing on it. (Not too much)
5. Eat it.


grilled cheese
1. Get a few pieces of bread, butter, cheese, and a pan.
2. Put the butter on the bread and put the bread on the pan.
3. Turn on the stove.
4. Put the pan on the stove and cook the bread.
5. While cooking, put the cheese on it and let it melt on top of the buttered bread.
6. Eat it.

Look on the cooking channels and you'll find more recipes. Also, look in a cookbook.

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okay well i like love my best friend, he means everything to me, but the thing is i dont wanna like him. i mean, he knows i like him, but he doesnt know how much. i like cant ever stop thinking about him, hes everything to me. i would give my life for him. i have a boyfriend right now, but i still love him. how can i get my mind off him?

Well this is a tricky situation. It could be just a crush, because some people go through a time when they feel like they love someone, even though you really don't. If you already have a boyfriend, then liking your bestfriend would be kind of like lying to your boyfriend every time you tell him you "love" him. I suggest thinking about why you like your bestfriend, and why you like your boyfriend. The one with the most positive feelings is for the person (I believe) you really love. If you have more feelings for your boyfriend, then you like him. If you feel like your bestfriend has better qualities, then you want to be with him.

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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ok mi name is blake and mi best friend is mitchell!!!....if ur wondering i am a girl...i love him with all my heart..but as brother....if he died idk wat i wood do hes mi life..it wood jsut come crubling down..ok he went to maryland to visit family and he flew thr..ok..i had a dream last night and i was crien for 2 hours... i was at a funeral and he was dead...i cant get him out of my head!!...wat shood i do to get him out of mi head until i no how he is???

It's unhealthy to be like this when someone is away in another state or place. God has planned everything in our lives, and everything (I believe) happens for a reason. Just don't think about Mitchell, because if you get into a habbit of thinking that whenever he's gone something is going to happen, then you will live very worried and scared all the time. Dreams are just things in your head to either make you scared, or make you happy. The devil makes bad images in people's minds, and if you do something fun with someone else, it will keep your mind off Mitchell.
Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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I was just wondering if anyone had any good pages for icons. Thanks a bunch! xo

Well for your AIM or MSN go to:
www.iconator.com
www.starlightmks.com
www.carrielynnesworld.com

To learn how to make an icon go to:
www.xanga.com/icons

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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I really like this guy but i dont know how to tell him that i like him. He kinda likes me too.. but i dont know how to tell him...I rate high!!!

love,
how to deal

Well, to SHOW him that you like him, you could:
1. Smile at him (showing your teeth).
2. Touch him when you flirt with him.
3. Open your eyes wide when he talks to you, so he knows that you're interested in what he's saying.
4. Ask him something (like to help with your math). Guys like when they feel needed around girls.
5. Push your hair behind your ear when he talks to you, so he knows you're trying to be hot.

To TELL him you like him, you could:
1. Ask a friend to tell him for you.
2. Write him a note at school and ask someone to pass it to him.
3. Send him an email/IM message to tell him.
4. Call him on the phone. If you get nervous by looking at his face when you tell him, just call him so it'll be easier.
5. Or, you could just tell him in person.

Hope I helped,
~Alexa~

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all right, i'm going to this wedding today and i'm bringing my best guy friend and now i'm feeling nervous. see i have this huge family and i'm worried they will bug him or make him feel uncomfortable. i can't cancel because he seems to really want to go an i'm just worried my family will scare him away or something. what would you guys do in this situation? i already warned him but he just laughed and said he was sure it would be fine... but still i'm nervous. help?

It seems as if everyone feels this way when their friends are around their family. The truth is, everyone feels this way, even though nothing will really happen. I'm sure your friend will still have fun even if you're family is kind of annoying. If you tell your family members about this, I'm sure they'll understand and try their best to make him feel comfortable. All you have to do is expect the best and have fun with your family and friend, without being all touchy when you're parents do the slightest thing. Your family members want to have fun too, so let them have fun with you also. If you need anymore advice, just ask.
-Alexa
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i want to kis the person i like but i cant put my self to doing it i am to shy what should i do

Well I suggest getting to know him better if you're too shy. To kiss someone that you like, it would be better to get to know that person until you're not shy around them anymore. When you get to know them better, then smile and put your face close to him. Then, when they get the hint that you want to kiss them, they'll kiss you back. I'm sorry if this isn't what you need, but it's all I have to say. If you have anymore questions, you may ask me at my advice collemn.
-Alexa
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my girlfriend latly has been ignoring me, and she has a real short fuse with me. Whenever i try to do somthing that shows i love her, she takes everything the wrong way and is like "why are you doing that" or somthing. we thought it was PMS a while back but she's been like this a while now. then i cant ever really show any affection for her, because (well i think anyway) that she feels crowded with this girl, who might i add is completly obsessed with her...the girls name is Ally, and all is CONSTANTLY hugging on, or holding onto my girlfriend and i think thats part of the reason she is acting the way she is. i cant pull her away for a long enough time to give her our first kiss and we've been together for 4 months. she doesnt ever really want to cuddle durring any movies at my house, because if ally happens to be there then ally is on her, and she doesnt want to leave/be rude to ally...sometimes she will blow me off for no apperent reason at all or with some excuse. is there anything i can do to make my girlfriend pay a LIL more attention to me, or is it pretty much hopeless?

She sounds like she's being very dramatic. I suggest talking this out with her for the final time, and if things do not change, break up with her. You don't have to deal with this. If she's your girlfriend, she should want to be with you and get affection from you. Just tell her what you said in here, and then she'll either understand or wont. Tell her exactly how you feel, and do not hold back ANY of your feelings. A relationship is supposed to be based on honesty and affection. Good luck!
-Alexa
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What kind of makeup should I get and wear like tell me brand names and what kinds of colors and where I can get them. Okay I have brown eyes, really dark brown hair it almost looks as if it is black, I have pale skin, and freckles. Honestly I wouldn't like to have freckles but yeahh...Soo please tell me what kind of makeup I should get!

Pale skin looks nice with pink eye shadow to add color to your eyes and have them stand out. Dark brown/black eyeshadow would also make your eyes look prettier, but don't put too much on. On your eyelids I suggest putting a cream colored eye shadow so when you blink, people will see your eyes nicely. For lip gloss/lipstick I suggest wearing a light color because of your skin color. Light pink and shiny glosses will make your lips look moist and healthy. If you don't want to wear lip gloss and just a nice lipstick, you could cover your lips with lip balm to make them look healthy and kissable. Freckles look cute on girls, so if you have them, don't get rid of them! Just think of it this way: "A face without freckles is like a sky without stars," I hope I helped!

-Alexa
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okay, well me and this guy are planning to hang out. my friends tell me i should just go to his house and hang out because we might end up making out. dont get me wrong, i feel fine around him but i havent seen him in a long time. I still want to go to his house.. but either that or the mall because at the mall we can hold hands but idunno. What should I do? and if you say go to his house, can you tell me how to ask him to go to his house?

I think when you next talk to him on the phone or at school you should just say, "Well how about we meet at your house or something?" and then he should probably say, "Okay," Of course, if you just want to go to the mall, you should go there. Your friends shouldn't tell you where you and your date should go on your first date. Wherever you're comfortable is where you should go to with him. I also suggest planning it out so you have more things to do instead of just making out. The mall is a good place because it could keep you busy with him and you can have fun.

-Alexa

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I'm going to a swim meet to see my friend swim (I won't be swimming) and I want to wear some nice makeup that doesn't look too overdone but is nice and flirty. What colors should I wear, and what kind of makeup should I wear?

I suggest wearing bright clothes for starting spring. Colors like pink, blue, green, and yellow are nice colors for spring. For makeup, I suggest using light shades for your eyes, shiny lip gloss for your lips, and LIGHT blush for your cheeks if you have pale skin that is always white. If you have rosey cheeks, don't bother using blush because you naturally have red cheeks. For your eyes, I think if you have dark skin, use light purple or pink, if you have tan skin, use white or pink, if you have really pale skin, use blue to bring out the color of your eyes. I hope I helped!
~Alexa~
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one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand?

I suggest telling your friend how you feel about this girl and why. Tell your friend what you said in here, and explain to her why you think Sam is not a good person to be friends with. Tell her she really hurt your feelings by replacing for awhile, and if she was really your bestfriend, she would understand your feelings. I hope I helped! If you already did this, I suggest not being friends with her anymore and keep your distance.
~Alexa~
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I have tried to eat exactly 3 meals a day iwthout anny snakcs, but I'm having trouble. As soon as I come from school I NEED a snack. How can I keep myself occupied while I'm doin homewrok so I don't snack?!

I suggest doing what I do: Get a larger lunch with greens so it will be more filling, go on the computer while you do your homework so you will find more occupying things to do, and eat less carbs. Carbs usually taste really good, but do not fill your stomach and its needs.When you eat a salad though, it fills you up, and still keeps your stomach flat. Eating a salad for a snack shouldn't be a big problem, and try NOT eating every few hours.
♥ Alexa ♥

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hello ms. butt. my name is Suneil Raghvan. I am kind of concerned about my life since everyone around me says im a little weird. I think its not weird for a guy like me to love the colour pink and me to only hang around girls and cry everytime i get a 90 and under on a test or quiz. I am a very sophisticated and elegant young man from the very rich country of India. India might not be really rich in real life but in my dreams and justice of peace i think it's rich and very pretty and hott. My question is "what does sexy mean" this girl names Bob asked me a question called "Do u think ur sexy its a poll" i thought she meant its a pole. i became very low blood pressured and i fainted. What does sexy mean? Is it appropriate? Tell me! thank you. I pray and support your future and past family and generations and ancestors!

Are you kidding?
Well, I think sexy means very attrative to someone else. How old are you? Sexy can be appropiate if you use it nicely meaning that someone is good looking. I think the word is appropiate probably because they say that word on Nickolodeon television shows.
~Alexa~
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Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!!

Tell your parents about your brother and how he bothers you around your boyfriend. Explain to them that you'd like to have privacy while your with your boyfriend, and would like your brother to leave you alone. While your boyfriend comes over, I suggest going somewhere like a movie. Somewhere where your brother wouldn't like to go (tell him you're going to an educational movie or something). Hope I helped!
~Alexa~
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Ok well I like this guy but the problem is, we havn't met in person yet. We've talked on the phone and computer but havn't met! And im like, So crazy about this kid its weird! And i don't want him to see me in person 'cause i think im really ugly and fat. People say no but i think they're lieing! But i need help on what I should do. Because what if we do meet and he thinks im ugly or what ever and doesn't talk to me anymore? He's seen a few of my pictures but i don't think they look like me! So i don't know what to do. Please help. ANYTHING! I rate high. Thank you so much.

x333 Kara

I suggest you make sure this guy is who you really think he is. Make sure he's not a man that would do anything *innapropiate* to you or the people around you. I think it's unsafe to give someone your phone number on the interent, but since you already did that, then I suggest just being yourself around him. Everyone feels uncomfortable with themselves, including beautiful girls, so just be yourself and hope for the best. I'm sure if he has already seen your pictures, then he must know what you look like.

*Kids get kidnapped everyday, and thank God you haven't gotten kidnapped from giving someone online your phone number and picture.*

~Alexa~
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How much sleep should a person get?

Doctors say that people should get at least eight hours of sleep every night. To refresh yourself every morning, then sleep at least seven or eight hours. Do not sleep too much though, because they say it's bad for your health for some unknown reason.

♥ Fact: You burn more calories SLEEPING then you do watching television! ♥

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Ok well our last day of school was last thursday and i told my b/f to come to school b/c that was the last day i would be able to see him b/c he was going to another school.well he didn't come so i didn't get to say goodbye or get a pic of him so i could remember him!i don't have his phone number or anything so i can't call him! what should i do so i can get over this?

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If he's into sports at your school, then ask his coach if he knows his homephone number. If he doesn't know, then I suggest you forget about your boyfriend because there isn't really a way to contact him now. Since he didn't come to school after you asked him nicely, then it is probably his fault that he can't see you anymore. If your school has a school directory, then look in there for his number under his last name. I'm sorry to say this, but I don't know how else you could possibly contact him.
~Alexa~
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I went to the movies with my guy friend who I'm really starting to like & a bunch of other people a day or two ago. I want to suggest that we go again but just the two of you. How should I talk to him about this?

If you're comfortable around him, then it shouldn't be a problem telling him you just want to be with him alone. I suggest just tell him how you feel, or you could send him a note and just write "how about we go out alone sometime?" and I think that will give him the idea you want it to be the two of you only. I hope my advice helped, and I'm sure if you use it, it will work.
Thanks!
~Alexa~
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