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all right, i'm going to this wedding today and i'm bringing my best guy friend and now i'm feeling nervous. see i have this huge family and i'm worried they will bug him or make him feel uncomfortable. i can't cancel because he seems to really want to go an i'm just worried my family will scare him away or something. what would you guys do in this situation? i already warned him but he just laughed and said he was sure it would be fine... but still i'm nervous. help?
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what i think you should do is just talk to your family before and let them know how you fell about it...well hope i helped...keep in touch
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hey! well if your parents do that, let them know that you really don't want them to make you nervous...or him feel uncomfortable/nervous either. let them know that he's your guest basically and you just want him to have a good time. and if you want to tell your parents this ahead of time before the wedding and all, go for it! just for the sake of both of you.....but i'm sure it'll go great!! good luck =) hope i helped!
much love,
*rach
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Family is family. They will tease you. That is what they are there for. If he's not worried about it, you shouldn't be either.
~*Tiffany*~
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Trust me i've been there. If i were you, just tell him everything about your family, give him a heads up. Make it so its funny and he'll laugh but he will know what to expect. Everyone has weird families. lol good luck<3
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If you have warned him of what to expect from your family, and he doesn't seem to be concerned about it, then he should indeed be fine. Relax, enjoy the wedding, and afterwards you and your friend can share a laugh over the various family antics, if any.
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I would even worry abuot it because its a wedding an they wont even be worried about you to because they will have a whole bunch of people to talk to .. Have your self a great time with your guy friend dont worry about anything.
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If he's your best guy friend im sure he'll be willing to take a little teasing from your family members...i know my best guy friend does ALL THE TIME....but thats one of the best parts of having a guy thats a really good guy friend. Being able to laugh those things off is good for situations like a real bully teasign you. If you've warned your guy friend and he said it was fine, then i dont think you have anything to worry about. Just consider yourself lucky for having such an amazign friend!
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Dont worry about it! Maybe talk to your mom and dad and have them kinda watch out and make sure hes not teased or just tell him again that your family can pick on him but there just fooling with him and theres realy nothing else you can do! I went to a wedding with my bf and i was nervous but he wasnt his family teased and picked but my bf stayed with him and was a gentalmen and the night went fine.He was acualy IN the wedding so during the acual wedding i had to sit by myself.. i was okay because his parents were there! good luck i hope i helped tell me how the night went
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He's sure it will be fine. Why are you asking for help? He already answered your question.
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If they start to embarrass or bug him, just laugh it off, and maybe he will too. If they start to get really annoying, tell them politely that they are (I know that's hard, but hey its about the only thing you CAN do). Try to ignore them, too. That usually works for me!!
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Stop worrying! Its you your best guy friend.. he likes you for who you are.. not for who your family is! Unless your family is REALLY crazy (ex. takes off clothes in public, eats shoes) you have nothing to worry about. Your best guy friend should like you for you, not because your family asked him one too many questions.. and besides you already explained the situation to him, and he just laughed it off. So, I'm sure you have nothing to worry about!
♥Maddie
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if he seems ok with it i wouldnt worry about it. if things do start to get weird try and go away from the people that are making yall feel uncomfortable.
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It seems as if everyone feels this way when their friends are around their family. The truth is, everyone feels this way, even though nothing will really happen. I'm sure your friend will still have fun even if you're family is kind of annoying. If you tell your family members about this, I'm sure they'll understand and try their best to make him feel comfortable. All you have to do is expect the best and have fun with your family and friend, without being all touchy when you're parents do the slightest thing. Your family members want to have fun too, so let them have fun with you also. If you need anymore advice, just ask.
-Alexa
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Well, first off, have fun at the wedding and congrats to who's ever it is. I would say that if he is your best friend, then he wouldn't really care about how your family acts.I would say just act like your normal self. God doesn't give you anything that you can't handle; so don't fret. If your family starts to act up, just turn the joke around on them. lol. Hope it all works out for you.
Hope I helped some, at least.
Love always,
Kerry
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