okay well i like love my best friend, he means everything to me, but the thing is i dont wanna like him. i mean, he knows i like him, but he doesnt know how much. i like cant ever stop thinking about him, hes everything to me. i would give my life for him. i have a boyfriend right now, but i still love him. how can i get my mind off him?
mystical_breeze answered Saturday June 18 2005, 10:54 am: Well this is a tricky situation. It could be just a crush, because some people go through a time when they feel like they love someone, even though you really don't. If you already have a boyfriend, then liking your bestfriend would be kind of like lying to your boyfriend every time you tell him you "love" him. I suggest thinking about why you like your bestfriend, and why you like your boyfriend. The one with the most positive feelings is for the person (I believe) you really love. If you have more feelings for your boyfriend, then you like him. If you feel like your bestfriend has better qualities, then you want to be with him.
karenR answered Saturday June 18 2005, 8:02 am: Why is it you don't want to like him? I think you need to tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Look2Linh answered Friday June 17 2005, 2:40 am: unfortunately sweetie, you can't help who you fall in love with. give him a chance to see how much you really care for him. as for your boyfriend, let him in on the news. its not fair to either of you that you love someone else. better sooner than later. good luck. [ Look2Linh's advice column | Ask Look2Linh A Question ]
TakeItFromMeBaby answered Thursday June 16 2005, 10:33 pm: well hun...just try to think about your boyfriend. if that doesn't work, then you probably really do have feelings for your best friend... just try to hang out w/ ur boyfriend a little more...
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