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friends hate each other...
I'm having this b-day party on saturday (bowling) and they're will be about 15-16 ppl there. and 2 of my friends HATE each other..i mean HATE...and i love them both to death and i hate choosing between the both of them, i'm afraid that they will start fighting and stuff like that. question is, what do i do if this happens (i've already tried talking to them both) and second question is, how do i choose between the 2? b/c i love hangin out w/ both of them i just can't do it at the same time. thanks in advance!
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You really shouldn't HAVE to do anything. They need to be mature enough to get along in a civil manner during the few times they have to spend together with you. Whichever one can't do that, well, don't ask them again. If one or the other feels they can't behave nicely for a few hours then that person needs to just stay home and not force you to choose. You just enjoy your friends on your birthday and if they can't get along let them fight it out for themselves. Don't waste your time consoling one because the other is treating her bad. Know what I mean. Don't give one special treatment over the other. That's their way of keeping your attention. :)
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they don't HAVE to talk to each other. let them talk to their friends. let them talk to you. just don't let them talk to each other. and hun, if both were TRULY your friends, they wouldn't make you have to choose. if they were really your friends then let them be your friends. they don't have to be friends with each other. good luck with everything.
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dont invite either one of them. if they cant grow up and be mature about things they dont deserve to go have fun at your party. and what kind of friends would they be if they went to your party and started fighting? theyd ruin it, you dont see them caring about that.
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if they are really your frends they will stop fighting for the day so you can have a good b-day party. if not they arent true frends.
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