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Hi my name is Jen - I am 33 and married; a graphic desinger, a big sister, movie lover, horse rider, and board game nerd.

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ok i was wonderinq .. when i clicked on brose columnists and i came to your name and yuu know where the stars are to show your ratinqs ? well next to yours yuu had a qold one and then the five normal ones .. what is that qold one for ? do yuu have a paid account or somethinq ? thanks much !

Yes I have a paid acount. I love this site, and I want to see it continue to do well. The webmistress has to pay for this site all on her own, so I gave a little to help out. $10 isn't much for all this site has to offer.

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What are the administators going to do about the bad adivce people? I mean peopel like... The Cardboard Samurai or the Russian Mailman person? these people obviously aren't even trying and feel many people feel even worse. They may think its funny but their advice can lead to peopel doing stupid things. Any one else worried? Are they going to be banned? There seems to be more of them everyday.

We don't ban people just because they give bad advice. We allow free speech on this site. We only ban people if they are obscene or abusive. If you feel someone should be banned in the future, please report the user here: http://advicenators.com/abuse.php?mode=list

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ok so a tv show i saw a cook have chicken with chocolate sauce onthe plate, i thought would this be weird? How do u think this would taste? Would it be ok if i cooked it for my family one night? the other part of it is that it was a pile of chicken in the middle of the plate and the chocolate sauce was around it with roasted peppers on it, was the chocolate for the peppers or the chicken?
Thanx sooo much! MWAAAAHZ I rate high
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It could be good, a mixture of salty and sweet. But I would deffenitly try to find a recipe first before trying such an endeavor. I would think you would need a dark chocolate, or even an unsweetened chocolate. Something not too sweet.

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ok i am a guy and i need advice from the other guys no stupid answers please.

ok well i am a guy and this is going to sound stupid but i have alot of pubic hair down there and i need to get rid of some of it because there is to much so how do ypu trim it so there is not so muuch there? will it hurt or bother me after i do it? thanks i will rate and sorry if it was so detailed

Just grab a sissors and start cutting. There is no science to it. Stand in front of a mirror if it helps. I wouldn't recomend shaving though, you will get itchy.

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Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?

There is no set time when you may meet the person you are going to marry. It could happen when your 5 or 50.

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if you have oral sex, or your boyfriend/girlfriend has done anything sexual to you besides sex, is it a sin?

If sex is a sin to you, then yes, that would be sinning as well. You are still commiting a sexual act. Oral sex is sex.

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i shave my vagina almost every other day..i was wondering if its bad for me to shave so often.. but i like to be completely clean..ppl say that i shouldnt ( im 22yrs old ) shave there so often but i dont mind if alot of hair grows back coz life is short and i dont want my bf seeing me hairy there. please help..

As long as it doesn't irritate your skin, then there should be no problem. Have you ever considered getting a wax?

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I asked the question im scared to do it. IM SCAREDE TO HAVE SEX =(

I am a level 2 moderator, so I know who you are. I assume you know about sex since it is one of your main catagories on your column. My advice: if you are scared, then you are not ready. Fear should not be a part of making love.

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I am scared to do it. Can you explain to me how you do it? And does it hurt?

What are you talking about?

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just wondering... met a great guy on match.com, we've been dating for almost 11 months... but he still has his ad up there! what's the deal with that? a male ego thing? He said no he's not looking for another girlfriend, and gave me a beautiful diamond necklace for christmas. he's 35 I'm 39. tell me how to get what I want, just a steady boyfriend without all the wondering. I'm too old for this high school crap.

Tell him what you want. For him to remove the ad because it is insulting to you as his girlfriend. If he doesn't, take it as a warning that he is unwilling to comprimise or make a commitment. And at 35, he is not going to change.

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I dont know what to get my boyfriend who is turning 16 in like a week!! help!!! i already got him two snowboarding magazines and a card but i need to get him something else! i might get him pants from zumiez but i dont know! hes a snowboarder and BMXer! please help!!
ill rate 5's with actual answers!

Instead of buying him a gift, why don't you take for a nice evening. Get dressed up and go someplace nice for dinner.

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ive become really depressed lately..bc of my weight...im five feet tall and i weigh 135. i dont think im fat but then again i dont know...i have big boobs and a butt..so that sometimes gets mistaken for fat also and makes me look bigger...can someone plz tell me how to get rid of all this weight? i dont have a gym memebership so i cant work out...any suggestions??

You are not alone, more that 50% of American's sturggle with their weight. But you don't need a gym to work out. Buy a workout video, or some free weights, both can be found for under $10.

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hey. my best friend has this problem. her parents wont let her go onto this website because of so block thing that my best friends other friend gave to my Best friends mom. she likes this site. and wen ever shes at my house shes on it. how should i help?

If I had a child that was only 13 or 14, I wouldn't want them on this site either, there is a lot if inappropriate things for children. So I don't blame the girl's mother. I think you are helping your friend plenty by leting her use the site at your home when it is against her mother's wishes.

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I'm 19/f and I live with my bf, his grandparents, and his aunt (who is 40 something I might add). I love his family so much, but sometimes they get on my nerves. His aunt can be down right nasty sometimes, and I don't know what to do about it! She threw a fit this morning because I left out the HOT dishes after making dinner last night and went to bed without putting them away. I'm very frequently left cleaning up after her (she cooks for other people, but never her own family) when she leaves "her" dishes in the sink for more than two weeks. She says she'll get to it, but two weeks??? I mean let's get real here. The grandparents are getting on in years, and I try to help out as much as possible. We all kinda share the grocery shopping, laundry, cooking and cleaning responsibilities, but there are no finite lines on who is responsible for what. I'm just frustrated and sorry I rambled. Any suggestions for dealing with the aunt would be appreciated.

JLH

Well if you can't stand everyday life with his family, mabey it is time to find a place of your own. Remember, you are in thier home, you have to live by their rules. She may not be playing fairly, but you have no right to tell them how things should be done.

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heu guys! any help would be appreciated... for the past couple months i've been getting really bad headaches, and it hurts to look at light or hear noises and stuff. Well I think they might be migraines. I try to tell mom but she won't listen. Is there anything i can do at home to make them better? and medicine doesn't work...

Drink plenty of water, and stay off caffine. I have an eye pillow that is filled with lavendar, and I put it in the microwave for 30 seconds. It is a great soother for headaches. I got mine at World Market, but I am sure you can find them online.

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Will someone please answer my question!!!! i have had it up for like a week and i have not gotten one response!!!!!:(

Your question was deleted, that is why no one answered it. If you go to your questions, and then view answers, it will tell you in red that your question was delelted.

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i smell. i dont know why. i shower. i go tot the doctor. i clean myself. and i still smell. i wear pefume, but i still smell. i dont know what to do . i take showers twice even 3 times a day. help me please.

You may be clean, but what about your clothes? Fabric can easily carry odors. Try lining your drawers with laundry static sheets. They are great for keeping your clothes smelling fresh, I also use them in my suitcase when traveling.

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ok, i have stretch marks on the the sides or my butt..is that normal n if so what can i do 2 fix it?

I had the same problem. Use a lotion with vitaman E every morning. After a few months you will see the diffence, they begin to fade away.

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i am very gassy. I know I know, it sounds so gross, and i am alwyas so embaressed about it , but i dont know what to do. I alwyas get gas everywhere i go, at the mall, at the movies at school and even at home! Its not what im eating because i eat very healthy. And my mom says its stress, but i know its not becase besides the gas, im happier than i have ever been. And also its not silent gas, and its very smelly. I ALWAYS get so red when i have gas on the bus or in class, and everyone looks at me. I don know what to do , i have tried medicines and stuff but theuy never seem to work! help!!!

Have you tried Beano?

*Why did you give me a 1? I am serious, that stuff works wonders!

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How do you give someone a hickey? How come it really is that color? Also.. What do you do when a guy is giving you a hickey.. is it normal if a girl were to give a guy a hickey?

A hickey is created by sucking on the skin, with enough pressure you will break blood vessels, creating a bruse. Anyone can give a hickey, I have seen baby's give them to people's arms.

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