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I'm 16/f and a junior in High school. I've liked plenty of guys and have had a few friends and all but, if I can't talk about "doing it" with someone, or wearing tighter clothes, I don't fit in, or I'm not "hot enough" to date anyone. I'm so sick of this. I feel like a complete loser because I haven't slept with a guy (or even kissed one for that matter). It's annoying, I just want to get through High school, but it's hard when you have to do certain things to be friends with people. Any advice?
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Hey there, Im 16f as well. I think that if you have to act like someone you are not, just to fit in, you are with the wrong crowd. You shouldn't have to worry about all those nonsensical things that go with peer pressure. Its a waste of energy. Being able to express who you are and feel good about it is all that really matters. If people dont accept you for who you are, then they really arent your friends. Just because you havnt kissed a guy or slept with anyone doesnt make you any less important or any less special. That is not what is important about you. Maybe its your personality, your looks, or your athletic ability that shows who you are. Learn to accept yourself. Just get out there and be yourself! All the guys I know right now in school and around where I live are jerks. I have never been in a relationship with a guy, kissed a guy, or slept with a guy. It doesnt bother me because someone who truly loves me for who I am will come along one day and we will be together forever. You just have to be patient sometimes. Meet someone who loves to do what you love to do, then you can do that activity together. You must be comfortable in the situation to be able to talk about anything that is on your mind. And communication is always key to a successful relationship. You are NOT just good for kissing and sex. Remember it is what is INSIDE that counts.
Good Luck ;)
Female puppy, neutered, 15-16 weeks old. Mostly housebroken. 2nd floor apartment. Why does she (erratically) choose to pee inside? Two days ago, I walked her for 30 minutes, then she played 10 minutes in yard with her downstairs dog friend. They both charged upstairs and she peed once she arrived at the top. Yesterday, she dozed under the table while my wife and I played Monopoly. I went to the bathroom: she came in for a scratch & petting, then took 2 steps, squatted and peed. She had several outdoor opportunities while we played. What would make her want to do this?
Hey there,
Your puppy is just at an age where she may be confused about where she is suppose to go or there may be a scent in the house which makes her want to mark her territory, and if you dont clean ALL the places where she pees in the house with disinfectant she is just going where her scent is. The next time she pees in the house, soak it into some newspaper, clean the spot well, and then put the newspaper outside where you wish for her to pee. The scent will encourage her to pee there. With my puppy, I just told her to go pee when we were outside and waited until she did. If you want her to go in a certain area you could have her on a leash until she does. Say the command and wait. Now, my pup knows that when I say "go pee" outside, she has to go before I let her in.
Hope I helped, Good Luck :)
okay so me and my friend are sort of sharing this dog.
and like she gave it to me,
and like i really cant buy dog food right now and i dont know why the heck i didnt think about asking her to bring me dog food (dumb i know).
but like u know those frozen vegetables?
well i cooked them and let them cool.and hes eating it, i mean it looks like it likes it but is it healthy for it??.
and what time of dog food do i get.
hes like almost 1. and a weiner dog.
what are you supposed to feed those
THANKS SO MUCH
Hey there,
Just like that other person said, hamburger is a very good thing for a dog :) Beef, liver, tuna, lamb or chicken is good as well. Small bits of meat every now and then is good. Rice is good for dogs. You could also give the dog peanut butter, it may stick to their mouth at first, but it is good for them. Carrots are a good treat, you could give it a carrot to chew on. Putting a carrot in an ice cube tray and filling it with water then freezing it is good too. Dogs love it. Almost any vegetable would work. My pup loves bananas, and apples. Watermelon, cantelope, peaches, honeydew, mangoes, apples, and cherries (without the pits, of course) are good. Oh, and potatos. My puppy loves potatos, the peels are fine. Dont feed the dog too much of one thing in a setting. Watch out for seeds, they are not good for dogs. Every dog likes different things. Since you have internet you could search a 'simple dog treat recipe' and find what you want. These are only a few of the things dogs can eat.
Hope I helped, Good luck :D
What do i do?? I think i might be in love with this guy. He makes me feel great. Everytime i see him smile, its like my worries dont mean anything. And i know he likes me, or i dont know. Everyone always says he likes me. And they say they can tell by the way he looks at me and treats me. They say he tries to get me jealous and everything but i just dont notice it. But anyways, Not saying that i want you to tell me im in love, i just want you to explain to me love. Then maybe i can ask you another question, and you can tell me what it sounds like to you??
Hey there,
First, Love is a very hard thing to define.
Love is different for everyone. Love is everything in one thing, if you know what I mean. Love is: knowing the other person loves you, having a connection with someone, being able to share anything with that person, having a warmth inside of you when you are around them, wishing to be together, having affection towards one another, having a positive emotion towards someone, being able to communicate, looking into their eyes and thinking the same thing, being able to finish one anothers sentences, showing respect, being able to make little jokes that you know the other will find funny, going for long walks on the town or beach, having romantic meals, cuddling at the movies, playing footsy in restaurants, sending love notes to one another, Being able to laugh with one another, holding one another in ones arms, smiling, lightly kissing, dancing, twirling one another, giving eachother hugs, giving a daily reminder to eachother that your love is growing strong forever, working together, planning time, sharing time, making time for one another, and being there for one another.
Love is SO many things...
Honesty is always a good start to telling someone you love them. And I cannot forget the first kiss...
LOVE is SO MUCH MORE than just this...
Love is YOURS to discover. ;)
so iam the girl who posted "bestfriend" and the feedback i got from people were great!! but something else has happened and so i need some more advice...what if i told him how i felt but he didnt respond instesd he just acted as if i never even told him at all..were great friends and no things didnt get awkward but he keeps going on like my feelings don't matter..not only that but some people at school say that it isint right to go after somone younger then me and some say age is just a #...(he is 3 yrs younger then me BTW)....what should i do or how should i react???? HELP PLEASE!!!
Hey there,
I never read what you wrote on the "bestfriend" thing before but heres what I would say about what you said above: If you told him how you felt and he acts as if you never told him, maybe he was kinda shocked at first and then just needs time to think about it. Or maybe he was like 'aww..' and was kinda shy to reveal how he felt about you.
It shouldn't matter what others think, they are not you. If thats who you like then they should respect that. There are a lot of people who date younger people. Some even date people like 20 years younger than what they are! (not that that is wrong or anything). You shouldnt let them determin who you can be with. As long as they are decent, respect your space, and care for you its all good.
I think you should sort of test how he really feels about you. And if you are real good friends you could just ask him, and he should be honest with you. Good luck! :)
My life is, to me, a living hell right now.
Backstory will be neccesary. Ive lived with my girlfriend for over a year. I love her, and we've tried to make it work through alot of trauma.
But I'm sick of it. I am sick of her. I want to leave her, and I can't.
By can't I mean functionally can't. My credit is shit, partly because of my parents back blading me and forcing me to pay debts incurred under the promise of them paying them off and then refusing too later. Partly because I ruined what little I had left spending money on her, helping her out, I even paid for a semester of her school.
I have only a few good friends in my life and while most of them WOULD help me, none of them can. I don't have any friends who could cosign (hell, half of them can't sign for a lease without a cosigner themselves) so I am completely incapable of getting my own apartment.
The worst... I just moved. Four hours away from all the friends I have in the world to another city. I don't know anyone here, we moved to be closer to her parents and family and the support they can offer her (and through her, me)
So now I am in an unfamiliar city with no credit, no ability to get an apartment, no car (the one we share is in her name and is hers)and little money (I just got a job here as a server, but I'm still in training)
And so I don't know what to do. The apartment is in her name. She can kick me out legally if she wants to. I have no where else to go. I am completely trapped in this, and while I don't think she WOULD kick me out (she'll keep trying to make it work) I don't have a refuge of my own.
If I weren't Christian I'd be contemplating suicide right about now. Thats how far down this has taken me. As it is, I'm almost to the point of leaving all my stuff, this apartment, and her, and just going be homeless to get away from it. I literally have no other options.
Help would be appreciated.
Hey, ya it sounds like you are in pretty deep, but you always have to look at the positive side of things no matter what life throws at you. You shouldnt have to rely on your parents all the time. Independance will get you far as well.
At least you have a place for now, and while you do you should try accumulating more money so that you could find yourself a place to live on your own such as an apartment in case something ever does happen. Not every place is expensive and you dont need all the accessories. There are jobs everywhere if you find the one you have isnt working for you, you just have to do a little searching. Concentrate on you, because you are what is most important right now, not anyone else.
Mostly all i have to say to help you is basically save up your money, budgeting is important, spend it very wisely, making your own homecooked meals will save you loads (you could make a large meal and store in containers so that it is easily accessable), STAYING POSITIVE is THE KEY, and eventually Everything Will Work Out for the best :)
Hope I helped ;)
i am 18/f. right now i am working a part time job for a makeup company about 3 days a week. the days i have off, i have nothing to do! i live at home with my mom, and i am not going to school right now. all my freinds go to school during the day, and i am starting to get bored! what are some things i can do during my free time on the days i dont work?
You shouldnt look at this situation as a bad thing, look at it as a time to spend with you, and have no one disturb you. Some of these things may sound rediculous but some might be something you are interested in. Catch up on some things you've been meaning to do, relax at home, do your own hair nails and make up, do a hobby you enjoy, go for a walk in the park, go site seeing, do something unusual for you to do, go shopping, sing in the shower, read a book, doodle, crank up some tunes, dance in your living room, play a prank on someone, learn to peel a banana with your feet, roll your change, dye your hair, volunteer for a charity, if you have a pet spend quality time with it, play a game, bake something creative, just hang out and watch a movie, make a journal, mail letters to all your friends, learn to play an instrument, tell everyone you know you love them, find a penpal, make a list of the top ten things you want to do but havnt been able to for a long time and actually accomplish them. These are just a few things you can do, hopefully one of them works for you ;)
16/F
hi!! i have a SEVERRRE allergy to dairy. its exactly like people who are allergic to peanuts and other nuts, but just with dairy.
so if im with my boyfriend and he had, lets say, popcorn with butter or cheese either earlier that day or even on our date and then we make out, will i get a reaction?? (remember the one story of the girl with the nut allergy who kissed her bf who had nut butter for lunch and she dies cuz of it??)
i just don't want to get sick/die or anything from kissing my dairy ridden boyfriend. HELP!!
thanks!!!!!
No one on here can really answer this. But heres what I would say: Everyone is different and it depends if you are able to have dairy touch your lips, or if you will instantly react to any kind of dairy contact. I doubt that it will, but just to be on the safe side I would reccomend asking a doctor about this because only he/she (a professional) will really know based on how easy YOU react to dairy.
i want to know which is a better movie:
of mice and men, the 1992 movie
or
of mice and men, the 1939 movie
surprisingly, both movies got 100% on rottentomatoes.com, which is really quite rare!
PLEASE BE HONEST and even if you haven't seen both (which is most-likely), even if you've seen one of them, tell me how much you liked it on a scale of 1-10 !! i absolutely ADORED the book
Hey there, I have read the novel as well but I've only seen one of these two films. I've seen the 1992 one. Do you mean rate it based on how much it matches the novel? or just in general? Matching scenes from the novel I would give it a 9, there was a few parts it left out, but that is just how it always goes. And rating it in general I would give it a ten. It was a very well done movie :)
Okay well... I'm making this costume for the first time for an upcoming anime convention. I'm now working on the shirt. My mum has tried to explained to me what interfacing is... but I still cannot get it.
Can anyone simply explain it to me?
Example. "Interfacing: Cut 1 on fold." Is what it says on the pattern.
Thank you!
Interfacing is a white, sort of plastic-like peice of "fabric" that you can buy at a fabric store or even Walmart. It isn't very expensive. You basically use it to make that certain peice of material stronger,more sturdy, or to just hold its shape better so it does not move or stretch. Say your peice you need to put interfacing on is a square, then you cut the interfacing a little bit bigger than the size of the square. You do this so you are sure to cover the whole peice in case it may shrink a little when you iron it on, or in case your fabric accidently moves out of place when ironing. Put the bumpy side down on the back of your fabric,then iron it on like you would anything else. Once it is stuck onto your fabric cut the interfacing to the size of your fabric square, then use the peice normally as your pattern says to. If you dont want to go out and buy interfacing you could always cut another peice of material exactly the same and when you sew your costume have the "cloned" peice right behind and sew with both peices in on top of eachother. That is a more difficult way, but if you think you can do it, give it a shot.
Oh, and the whole cut on fold thing, what you do is fold your fabric and place your pattern peice with the arrow and edge that says "place on fold" on the fold of your fabric, trace and cut while having material folded (Therfore cutting through two layers and ending up with one peice double the size of your pattern peice). Cut interfacing the exact same way and then apply interfacing to fabric the way i explained above.
Hope I helped :) and If you have any other questions about pattern making or sewing, feel free to ask me ;)
How do you get clitorial stimulation? Where do you rub? also, what are some ways to get an orgasm quick by masturbating?
You get clitoral stimulation by rubbing your clit. You can rub it anyway you like wheather it b up and down, side to side or in a circle, your imagination is endless, just do whatever feels good. If you want to get an orgasm quick by masturbating you could try putting somethin in your vagina. Some people use things such as a toothbrush handle,pen end,hairbrush handle,types of fruit, and of course yur fingers work as well. Anything sort of dildo shaped. Whatever u use make sure it is VERY clean or has a condom on it. Do not use scented products to wash things off. You could also just fantisize about whatever turns you on while rubbing your clit. Most females just need some sort of turn on to focus on in order to achieve a quick orgasm. Orgasms take time. But with the right tools and imagination they can come fast.
I hope this Helped ;)
Cole is amazing. Just looking at him gives me the jitters and I'm smiling right now just thinking about him. We hae so many inside jokes, and some of the things I say only he gets because it's so I dont know it's so hard to explain. We have much in common it's creepy, like music. I love screamo, emo. Actually even Hannah Montana lol but just anything. Im always barrowing his shirts =]]. Well it's the end of the year, and he went around to have us sign something and I wrote down the lyrics to an ACDC song and it had "Call Me Anytime" because he really likes them and he was like I would call you if you gave me your number. So I did... and i dont know our relationship went from Best Friends to.. I dont know. Thinking of us as friends, I could do anything infront of him and wouldnt care. But if I think that I like him I like freak out. Were always doing something wacky, and even teachers included have asked if were a couple and it's a No. Im always telling him I hate him, and he's like you do not you couldn't live without me. So for a day I refused to talk to him and by the end he's like "Okay, okay I get it when you set your mind to something you do it. But I practicly died. Please talk to me!!" it was soo funny.
Cole is amasing... and I love his hair lol but there's something else that I can't really explain. Cole has ADHD, and I don't care at all. He has it under control and it's fine... but he's controlling. He's not always this hapy go lucky boy, he's worried about where I was, what I was doing and sometimes it scares me. I hang out with him all the time after school at his house [yes alone] and there so much fun. But I don't know he needs to know everything like If im in a bad mood he wants to know why which isnt necisarily a bad thing its just how he wants it to come out. He seems paranoid a lot, and I tried telling my friends and they like joked about it saying "He's only like that because he want to make sure your not with anyone else." But then why couldnt he ask me? Hanging out alone with him results in flirting, but hasn't gottenany further then leg touching. But I am always the one to stop it. Its not that I dont like him its just Im not ready I know im 14 but its like Ive seen girls THIRTEEN and pregnante and it scares me. Also I am a Christian, and im not even dating Cole when he does these things. My friends now, but none of Coles friends. [[Im not Girlfriend material because we dont have the same friends- what his friends say]]JERKS! but I donno it's not that Im afraid to be with Cole, but hes always asking Why i dont let him get any further and Im completely honest with him. But nothings stopping im from over powering me really [[not like he'd rape me]] but sometimes he does things he's not really aware of its weird. I dont really know how to explain it, but because if his parents jobs he's always alone so I like to be with him so he doesnt vegitate. I'' be spending a lot of time with him. I mentioned a lot in this so here the questions I asked.
-I am not Girlfriend material because Im fat. I weigh 223 pounds. But that doesn't stop Cole from wanting to fool around with me [[please dont be mean and be like I hate Cole! because he's amazing... his boy got right in my face a couple weeks ago and said he was gunna kick the shit out of me and that he could do that because I dont look like a girl and Cole was like You frkn touch her and I swear to God... so Hes sweet.
-I dont want to hurt his feelings when I say No. How do I explain it nicely?
-Im not afraid of Cole. Were such good friends, and I think I like him. But I know my parents wouldn't approve because he's not on parents #1 "Please date my daughter" list.
-Everyone thinks were dating, and he never denies it and my friends think thats a sign that he likes me. But... Im ugly why would he like me?
--infront of his friends he calls me ugly.
Anything will be helpful and I know this is extremely long but.
You shouldnt shut yourself down for what you look like, god made you the way you are,and that is beautiful. Yes, Cole sounds like a very sweet guy. It just sounds like he is very protective, which is expected since he likes you. Telling him No can be difficult since he is a guy, in order to make sure he understands what you are trying to say, you can talk to him about it one on one,explain why you feel this way. Just tell him you arent ready to go any further and in time you will tell him when you are ready.If he is sincere than he will trust your wishes. Your parents wouldnt accept him probably because they arent ready to see their daughter grow up and date a guy. They don't want you to move away from them (just meaning,not being at home as much). If they trust you they will learn that Cole is a nice guy and accept him for who he is. Maybe invite him over for a family dinner. Also, like i said earlier you are not ugly, and by the sounds of it he must be a really great guy not to notice what is on the outside (just meaning he doesnt just want you for just sex) and he sees you for your personality and style,what is on the inside. This is usually uncommon for guys. You could never be unlikable. The whole thing about calling you ugly behind your back is that he just doesnt want to wreck his status with his friends.Its a guy thing to hide their true feelings to their friends since they may feel they are going to be pushed down if they tell. If you feel self concious about Cole doing this (saying things behind your back) confront him and tell him that it bothers you.If he is proud to have you as a friend he should maybe say things to his buds like 'your the one missing out' instead of saying the ugly things just to impress his buds. I trust he will understand.
Hope this helps ;) Keep smiling :D
13/f
I love my family but some how hate it. My dad, mom and my younger brother lives together. I can't stand any of this. I am pretty emotional. Lots of girls all. I don't really show it until I get in my room and start crying. I don't know what is my problem. I feel like my family hates me but I know they love me but I just don't feel it. I feel like I have favorites between my parents. I love my mom so much but I can't stand my dad most of the time. I always fight with them though. My mom drinks alot. My dad tries to stop her but he always yells at me for the most stupid reasons. He has even hit me for the most stupid reason. My little brother is the favorite kid. I don't like him at all. Not for that reason though. My parents think he is an angel. He is 11 years old. I try my best of everything. My brother has tried to act all emo or punk all the time and it bugs me. My parents have stopped him. He has gotten in so many fights and has done things behind my parents backs. When my parents find out he does get in trouble but not as bad as me if I leave a dish around the house because I forgot. I don't really know how to react. I don't talk to anyone about my problems. I can't talk to my parents. I've tried but its always gets worse. I've been under alot of stress for school and friends and all that. But my parents don't care, honestly. Please help me. I don't know how to react or how to act or just do be the same.
this pobly sounds lame but despite your mom's drinking and dispite the fact that your dad is abusive you have your life to live and you should'nt have to deal with all of the stress my advice to you would be GET OUT!! Talk to someone like a councellor tell that person what's been going on get help especially if your only 13 thats's way to young to be dealing with this type of pressure if you really wanted to live your life the first step would be to get out A.S.A.P!!!
okay so there's this boy john and he's sooooooo cute. me and him just met recently threw my friend marie. we talk daily. and txt. throughout the night. here's the thing, marie and john had a thing sorta until I told him marie hooks up with a guy every party. then after I told him this he automaticully started not liking her. I didn't know he would do that but its not like he doesnt hookup with girls all the time, my other friend Lynn jokes to john tat he has a chode, and she says oh did you and your tiny friend get lucky and said yeahhhhh these girls at the party were so horny. well anyways he's a veryyyyyyy good sweettalker and flirts with me non stop. he says he likes me and is SO glad he met me. is he for real? or a huge fake?
unless you know him forsure you'll never really know. he could only be faking but then again he could really like you too talk to him and if you find that your feelings for him change (in a good way) then mabey there is something tell him how you feel and see if he's ready to open up if not give it time.
alright so there is this guy that i like and he likes me. but for some reason i get really nervous around him. i dont know why. its easy for me to talk to guys i have many guy friends so i dont know why i cant with him. hes a great guy, hes really sweet and cool to be with. my friends tell me that he is nervous too and that he hasnt fully been himself around me yet. and when we talk on the phone sometimes it gets awkward. i really want this to work and i want to start becomeing comfortable around him. so how do i overcome the nervousness?
thanks so much for reading!
why not flat out tell him how you feel i kno that it migh be akward at first but trust me honesty is the best thing that you can give to him especially in a situation like yours he will appreciate it and ask him to let you know how he feels. tell him you need the truth make him understand that all you want is for this to work and in order to do that you have to be able to get over the awkardness
i have really small boobs, im already 16 and all of my friends + girls younger than me have bigger boobs than me..
i'm only a 32B
:/ and that's bad.. for being 16
i wear push up bras, but they dont seem to help very much.
can you please give me some suggestions on bras, and advice to make them grow bigger.. im afraid they won't grow anymore & i'm really self conscious..
First of all, everyone is different. And to tell you the truth my friend is in your position, except for the opposite. She wishes she has small boobs. Everyone developes at a different time, and there is absolutely nothing you to do to increase your breast size, except implants which are totally stupid for they could damage your health and are just plain dangerous. You do not know what could go wrong, for all you know you could end up way WORSE off. All i can give you for advice, is be yourself, dont compare yourself to the girls who have big boobs because they all have something they are insecure about.
Pills are my bestfriends life. she takes so many pain killers more than i thought possible. she says its all the pain in her life pain of heartbreak, screw ups and anything else. she is always gone everyday out with her friends or anyone, but she is totally different if she doesnt take any pills that day. she is just like staring into space and very sad looking and feels empty. i can always see deep pain or sorrow in her eyes even if shes so happy. she used to cut for two years and smoke for like half a year but stopped both. she drinks but refuses to get drunk she has like one every few days but I still dont want her to have any. She says shed die with out them but she can also die with them. She is a very strong in emotion spirit or physical and pretty and a great girl and the nicest girl youd ever meet and is always there for me. she gets along with anybody and is so easy to make friends with altho some people are afraid of her she wears black with colored hair but its not chains or spikes or anything so who cares. so thankful im trying to help and she stopped the other things with the help of her old best friend but he hates her now and they loved eachother. She is a depressed 14 year old girl. Always yelled at for what she wears wich she says is the worst thing someone can do to her, she wears black everyday but it doesn’t look bad. Any advice about her or for her?
GET HER HELP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!! CRISIS LINES COUNCELLORS AT SCHOOL, HER PARENTS, OR A GROWN UP SHE TRUSTS. Pain killers are a serious thing, that could kill you at any time. Taking too much can stop your heart. It may not be able to keep up with the adreneline rush. Fourteen is too young to even know what pain killers are. Im eighteen, have never tryed drugs, but i know what pain killers and other drugs can do. I watch renegadepress.com,degrassi,and these shows deal with real teenage situations includin the one your friend is in right now. My advice, is get her help BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. because in the end, all can not end well.
Ok, I am 13 years old and I have a problem:
My Best Friend is a JERK!!! At least I think.
My best friend is a guy. We get teased a LOT about it, but whatever. He WAS dating this girl named Destiny. She's in 8th grade (we're in 7th.) She's a little bit of a slut, but I didn't say anything, even though I secretly have a crush on Koby, but whatever... The point is his OTHER best girl friend, Katie, and I saw Destiny dirty dancing and holding hands with a guy OTHER THAN KOBY!!! I was pissed, as you can imagine. Katie was too, so she texted Koby and was like,"Destiny's with another guy." And we took a pic of them holding hands. Koby texted her back,"How am I suppose to believe you? Are you tired of waiting for me to break up with her so you can have me?" Is he a jerk or should I forgive him?
how long have you and koby been friends and if you guys have been friends for a long time then dont you think he should just beleive you anyhow? Friendship is based on trust, honesty, and most importantly common ground. if he was a true friend he would understand where your are coming from and he would totally understand that all u r trying to do is be honest and save him from heartbreak. simply tell him that if he doesnt want to listen then he can learn the hard way. And if heartbreak does happen to him, you can say i told you so. you can also say you tryied to warn him and all you are trying to do at this point is be a good friend. If he doesnt see that then he obviously isnt a friend. In all honesty, he is a jerk.
Okay so I've been dating this guy off and on for about 9 months. We have our great times and our rough times. But we haven't really been getting any closer. Anythings you could suggest that I could do to help us get closer???
I Kinda feel like we're drifting apart, we dont talk as much as we use to. When I look around at other happy couples thats how I want to be and it just isn't like that.
We also dont hangout as much as before eithier, probably because we live in a small town and there isn't much to do that we've havn't already done a hunderd times.
So Please help me out if you have ideas that we can do or along thoe lines.
First off, no couple is perfect. And the fact that you and your boyfriend arent close is probly 'cause you've been dating for so long and he feels that he needs a change, expecially if you are living in a small town. I bet he feels that he needs a little more excitement in your relationship. have you ever thought about sitting him down and having a nice long conversation about your relationship? Ask him how he feels your relationship is going so far, and ask him to be completely honest and open. Isn't that what a good relationship is all about? Think about it. If he isnt totally into telling you how he feels then whats the point on keeping the relationship.