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does he like me or is he playing me?
okay so there's this boy john and he's sooooooo cute. me and him just met recently threw my friend marie. we talk daily. and txt. throughout the night. here's the thing, marie and john had a thing sorta until I told him marie hooks up with a guy every party. then after I told him this he automaticully started not liking her. I didn't know he would do that but its not like he doesnt hookup with girls all the time, my other friend Lynn jokes to john tat he has a chode, and she says oh did you and your tiny friend get lucky and said yeahhhhh these girls at the party were so horny. well anyways he's a veryyyyyyy good sweettalker and flirts with me non stop. he says he likes me and is SO glad he met me. is he for real? or a huge fake?
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I can completley disagree with Venom_97. I wouldn't slam the door in his face yet, and be all carefull. What you need to do is to know more about him and see if he is for real.
I can see as to why he would break up with Marie; would you like to go out with a guy who went out with every other girl he met? Of course not.
Ask around and see what they say he's like. It's important. The next thing is to see what YOU feel for him and how you view him. Do you see him as a boyfriend or as a friend?
It's good in all that he's a good sweet talker, but that shouldn't be as to why you talk to him or like him. You should feel something inside you which tells you that you love/like him, it shouldn't come from your head, but from your heart. And you need to ask him face to face as to what he feels for you, for real and see what he says and then decide as to what you want to do from there. If he begins to sweet talk you, push for the facts, don't let that distract you. This isn't a game, this is life.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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unless you know him forsure you'll never really know. he could only be faking but then again he could really like you too talk to him and if you find that your feelings for him change (in a good way) then mabey there is something tell him how you feel and see if he's ready to open up if not give it time.
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TRUTH HURTS but it's true. it is only an opinion. I have seen his type before which is why I have said what I have said...
He is a huge fake and honestly if you are feeling him knowing that he was dealing with your friend Marie, that makes you just as fake as he is.
I don't understand how friends would even have an interest in a guy that their friend likes, or even used to like for that matter. It's not fair to her or yourself. If he is talking smack to you knowing that Marie and you are friends, then he is going to talk to one of your friends too and the cycle goes on and on..
I question your friendship with Marie. 1. because you have been talking to John. 2. because you threw her under the bus by telling what she did or does -what Marie does is Marie's business and if you know about it or she shares it with you, it isn't for you to use to your advantage by spitting it to John, and I think you are very wrong for that. Also, you don't know if he hooks up with girls all the time or not - maybe he just doesn't do it that you know of, but unless you are with someone 24/7 you never know what they do, remember that.
I am sure he is a verrrrrry good sweet talker - he has learned this by talking.. most people who talk the talk, can't and don't walk it.
Be wise and on top of the game because that's what it is, Game.
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