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My family
13/f
I love my family but some how hate it. My dad, mom and my younger brother lives together. I can't stand any of this. I am pretty emotional. Lots of girls all. I don't really show it until I get in my room and start crying. I don't know what is my problem. I feel like my family hates me but I know they love me but I just don't feel it. I feel like I have favorites between my parents. I love my mom so much but I can't stand my dad most of the time. I always fight with them though. My mom drinks alot. My dad tries to stop her but he always yells at me for the most stupid reasons. He has even hit me for the most stupid reason. My little brother is the favorite kid. I don't like him at all. Not for that reason though. My parents think he is an angel. He is 11 years old. I try my best of everything. My brother has tried to act all emo or punk all the time and it bugs me. My parents have stopped him. He has gotten in so many fights and has done things behind my parents backs. When my parents find out he does get in trouble but not as bad as me if I leave a dish around the house because I forgot. I don't really know how to react. I don't talk to anyone about my problems. I can't talk to my parents. I've tried but its always gets worse. I've been under alot of stress for school and friends and all that. But my parents don't care, honestly. Please help me. I don't know how to react or how to act or just do be the same.
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this pobly sounds lame but despite your mom's drinking and dispite the fact that your dad is abusive you have your life to live and you should'nt have to deal with all of the stress my advice to you would be GET OUT!! Talk to someone like a councellor tell that person what's been going on get help especially if your only 13 thats's way to young to be dealing with this type of pressure if you really wanted to live your life the first step would be to get out A.S.A.P!!!
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parents over react, it's just their nature. Due to him being younger they probably feel some guilt to being harsh towards a little kid. But now that you're in your teens they figure you can handle a little punishment. Just think though, you'll be moving out before you know it and you might miss all this.
But your dad hitting you isn't right.(Though he may feel just to it due to needing to vent his anger, but that still isn't right.) Maybe just gently talk to your mother and ask her to get some help. In the long run it'll make your life easier not to have an alcoholic parent. (trust me went through having an alcoholic father.)
wish you the best of luck
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