Lately I haven't cared about other's problems. But as a child all I did was take care of everyone. Now that I've had some time to be selfish and care about only the select few (instead of everyone) I'm ready to share the wisdom and views I have on the world to help those who really need me. I'm not scared to be honest. I'm an idealist and I'm quite open. I'm not looking to be friendly, but I am looking to be caring
E-mail: salem_wolf2000@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Idealist
Age: 17
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Member Since: June 4, 2008
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ok so i'm 15 guy is 17
just started getting my period a year ago so its kind of irregular.
well i lost my virginity in the beginning of May
and the last time i had my period was in the middle of April.. could i be pregnant?
for the last 3 months my period came within 3 weeks and before that i missed my period for 2 months.
We did it with out a condom about two times (link)
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Use a condom sweet heart. And you shouldn't have done it at such a young age... Eventually you'll regret it. I know I did and still do. Go get a pregnancy test and make sure to get a Pap to make sure you don't have any STD or STI.
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hey 18 female
Well the story goes, I really like this guy and he has told me he likes me aswell! I actually think im in love with him, he is the first person i think of in the morning and the last thing at night! we spend everyday on the fone to each other, thing is a few people have told me they think he might be gay and that is whats stopping me going into a relationship with him
do i just ignore those other people and go into a relationship with him? (link)
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If he finds out that he may actually be gay, just make sure you're ready to hear it if that time goes around.
But live a little and take a chance. Every experience in life you get, good or bad can be good in the long run. It allows you to understand more and become more flexible to everything.
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i have really small boobs, im already 16 and all of my friends + girls younger than me have bigger boobs than me..
i'm only a 32B
:/ and that's bad.. for being 16
i wear push up bras, but they dont seem to help very much.
can you please give me some suggestions on bras, and advice to make them grow bigger.. im afraid they won't grow anymore & i'm really self conscious.. (link)
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Bigger breast aren't always better. If people give your friends more attention due to it and base their beauty off of it. Then for the sake of your own self-a-steam then don't hang around them.
Cons
Back pain
Bras don't last as long and get more stretched out
Jiggle when running
Perverts will hang around you more
and the list just goes on
I would love to be back down to a B. I go through bras like crazy and I'm sick of having to walk everywhere I go for fear some old man's eyes might wander.
But if you're that desperate save up for implants. Though I wouldn't suggest that. might be safer just to get that old tissue box.
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So, I'm dating a man I've known for a long time. I'm white and he's black. When people see photos of us together or hear about him, for some reason they always have to comment and say things like 'Oh he's black..." or "I'd never thought /you'd/ date a black guy."
I don't understand what the problem is personnaly, I love him and he's so fantastic.
I was wondering though, when you see a white girl and a black man, what do you automaticaly assume or think? Just interested to know.
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Honestly, I just automatically see love/friendship/lack of judgment. That's a little strange people would comment like that though. Next time if you hear them comment just ask them to be more kind and say it doesn't matter due to love.
Glad to hear you got someone to love ;)
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(Will be long! Sorry!) I dated a girl since 7th grade, married her at the end of high school, had a few kiddos with her, and never loved her. Well of course I loved her but only because I'd never been with anyone else. She was my first everything. Then I met TJ. We became best friends several years ago and for a long time there was no attraction because she and her husband were too serious. But they ran into some issues which plunged she and I into a relationship that both of us had on the back of our minds from the start. We are in love now, and really serious, even though she & her husband are back to normal.
My wife found out I was cheating, but didn't know who with. So TJ's unmarried friend took the heat for her so that her husband wouldn't find out. My wife & I are now divorced. I'm in love with TJ and she and I are still having an affair but eventually she will have to choose.
How do I prepare myself for a break up? I threw away everything for her and I don't regret it, but I love her too much to make her do the same. If she leaves me, how do I cope with that and never burden her? I hate the position we're in.
-NB (link)
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Your heart will naturally know how to mend it's self without any preparation of the event. I'm not saying get your hopes up, but don't be in doubt. She may choose you in the end if she's really serious.
But if you're really worried I would suggest meditation and not medication. Medication will only dull you in the long run and change who you are.(So I believe, you don't have to listen) But meditation can calm the mind. But like I said, the heart will mend it's self. Even if it takes a long time. But if you believe you're strong instead of calling yourself weak you'll be able to handle it.
On the bright side if things don't go well with her, you'll always know you didn't regret anything and you had a great past with her. (So I assume by the love you talk about)
Wish you luck :) Take care
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17/f. let's say i am traveling across the country, and i pack a large bottle of vodka in my suitcase. (not carryon)
what are the chances of getting caught? and how much trouble will i be in? should i just put it in water bottles? (link)
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That's not very smart, just wait until after you get to your destination then if you still want the alcohol, ask someone to get it for you. But I don't suggest drinking at all. You're too young and should keep your braincells healthy :)
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13/f
I love my family but some how hate it. My dad, mom and my younger brother lives together. I can't stand any of this. I am pretty emotional. Lots of girls all. I don't really show it until I get in my room and start crying. I don't know what is my problem. I feel like my family hates me but I know they love me but I just don't feel it. I feel like I have favorites between my parents. I love my mom so much but I can't stand my dad most of the time. I always fight with them though. My mom drinks alot. My dad tries to stop her but he always yells at me for the most stupid reasons. He has even hit me for the most stupid reason. My little brother is the favorite kid. I don't like him at all. Not for that reason though. My parents think he is an angel. He is 11 years old. I try my best of everything. My brother has tried to act all emo or punk all the time and it bugs me. My parents have stopped him. He has gotten in so many fights and has done things behind my parents backs. When my parents find out he does get in trouble but not as bad as me if I leave a dish around the house because I forgot. I don't really know how to react. I don't talk to anyone about my problems. I can't talk to my parents. I've tried but its always gets worse. I've been under alot of stress for school and friends and all that. But my parents don't care, honestly. Please help me. I don't know how to react or how to act or just do be the same. (link)
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parents over react, it's just their nature. Due to him being younger they probably feel some guilt to being harsh towards a little kid. But now that you're in your teens they figure you can handle a little punishment. Just think though, you'll be moving out before you know it and you might miss all this.
But your dad hitting you isn't right.(Though he may feel just to it due to needing to vent his anger, but that still isn't right.) Maybe just gently talk to your mother and ask her to get some help. In the long run it'll make your life easier not to have an alcoholic parent. (trust me went through having an alcoholic father.)
wish you the best of luck
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