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irregular periods and sex
ok so i'm 15 guy is 17
just started getting my period a year ago so its kind of irregular.
well i lost my virginity in the beginning of May
and the last time i had my period was in the middle of April.. could i be pregnant?
for the last 3 months my period came within 3 weeks and before that i missed my period for 2 months.
We did it with out a condom about two times
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use a condom. they aren't expensive. and/or get on birth control.
but yes, it is VERY possible you are pregnant. go take a test.
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Use a condom sweet heart. And you shouldn't have done it at such a young age... Eventually you'll regret it. I know I did and still do. Go get a pregnancy test and make sure to get a Pap to make sure you don't have any STD or STI.
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WHY would you do that? I HATE IT. I hate that it is even possible that another teen age mother could be in the makings. I tell girls your age all of the time, "NO HUNKING".
I talk to so many girls face to face, online, etc. and I try so hard to encourage them not to even have sex and if they feel they must (since I did it and got pregnant the first time I had sex and had a baby by the age of 17)and let me tell you, it has been HARD. Finishing high school pregnant, going to prom pregnant working 2 jobs while finishing college. It's scary, not cute at all and life becomes 50000 times harder when a little one depends on you for all and you are still a little one yourself.
Please get a pregnancy test and tell your parents you are sexually active. If you have been blessed not to be pregnant at such a young age, please be responsible. You are having sex as an adult so make decisions as one - PROTECT YOURSELF or JUST STOP DOING IT.. And another thing to be mindful of, 60% of the time when a girl gets pregnant the boy who did it is NOT THERE, doesn't claim the child and there she is left ALONE to take care of a baby while pressing him for child support as she and their child struggle. Sure, he will claim to be a man but his action AND irresponsibility make him a boy and that's the point that age isn't a factor - either it is or it isn't, you are or you aren't.
Please love yourself more and know the sex doesn't prove love or loyalty! live your life, enjoy your childhood, set goals of going to college and being successful in your life. The hell with peer pressure.Pressure bursts pipes.
I am praying that you are NOT pregnant and that you become wiser and place yourself higher so that you will have more, see more, become more, achieve more and keep more as you mature more.
please email me and tell me what the outcome is. I hope I haven't hurt feelings or caused you to feel bad, I really just have high hopes for all youth because I want to see them succeed and excel within their life to their highest potential. Life is precious, you only have one to live and it's important to be happy in it.
Good Luck dear heart.
sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
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it is def. possible that you are pregnant. but with you having irregular periods, not for sure. try buying an at home pregnancy test and see how that goes.
i hope for the best.
-jessicamarie.
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