Sorry this will be kind of long.
I'm 15/f in my sophmore year at high school, and most of the girls in my school seem to have this mentality that if you don't have a guy or haven't had sex then you aren't normal. They use the phrase "You have to test drive the product before you buy it". Does that mean I have to put out just to be considered date-able, and pass school does that apply for any relationship? Even when I'm older?
Thanks,
AAf
First off those girls are dumb! Tell them to go test drive a sex disease that they are gunna have ;D Dont feel pressured into sex. If you are a vigin, keep your virginity for as long as you can. Its a very preciouse thing to have and once you loose it there is no getting it back. You never have to put out to be considered date-able. Most guys wont even consider you girlfriend material if you are easy. There is the saying, " Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?" This means why would a guy want to be your boyfriend if he can get sex with no commitment. Popularity is over rated. Dont try to fit in by having sex.
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if you have split ends and you split them is that bad for your hair?does blow drying your hair really cause split endds?
It definatly wouldn't be good to split them further. Thats why people who are growing there hair typically go and get there ends cut. Its to get rid of the split ends.
Blow drying is never going to be healthy for your hair. It causes it to be damaged and porous. Its better to let it dry on its own. You may not see the effect yet if you just started blow drying. Have you ever seen someone who straightens there hair every day, Its quite grose when there hair is so dry that it looks faker than the cheapest wig.
If you still want to blow dry your hair get some really good conditioner or some kind of moisterizer for it.
happy holidays
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Alright, it doesn't matter what kind of make up I use, it never seems to set on my face right. I don't use a lot, and it just makes my face look powdery. At the moment I have Loreal Bare Naturale...it's been working better. Oh, and I also sometimes use Loreal True Match Liquid Foundation. But can anyone give any tips?
Try using liquid powder, and go over it with the loreal Bare Natuarale. Im very picky about my face. I dont like it glossy or powdering. I want that natural look. Sometimes a little bit of blush will take the attention off your base too. Thats what i have to do... and actually i have the Loreal Bare naturale gentle mineral makeup, it's probably the same you use :D
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19/f he is 19/m
I just broke up with this wonderful guy after 2 years and 4 months of dating. and I don't know how to get over this.
He was my first true love (as corny as that sounds) and we had all these plans to do together, to be together.
But he and I had a roller coaster relationship.
He is bipolar and schizophrenic, and has a whole boatload of other mental problems (but won't take his medication), and I took care of him when he had all his court stuff, and when he was in the hospital for 2 1/2 months.
I was the one who bent over backwards to make his life easier and so he would be happy.
But he wanted so much to live his life the way he wanted.
But that meant promiscuous sex, and drugs and addictions, and I told him I can't be around for that.
I can't do that anymore, because when is he going to be around to take care of me?
He told me the only time he's been happy the past few months when we have sex, and that just totally blew my mind.
I thought he was happy with me and he told me he wasn't because he wants someone that is more along his lines of thinking.
But I really do love him so much and it hurts so badly.
so please please help me get over him.
Because it hurts too much.
You were together so long that you will always share those memories. Your going to be doing something or seeing something and he will pop in your mind, it will be a reminder of something yall have done or planed to do. He doesn't seem worthy of your time. Find someone who is willing to bend over backwards for you. Hes 19 and needs to start makeing adult decisions. Your 19 and you need to think about your life, without him in it, and go from there. Chances are, despite how much it hurts, in the future you will look back and see that it wasn't met to be. Its your life, don't let his un-thought-full-ness controle it.
Tommaro is a new day, a new start. Approach it with a smile on your face, with the strength to do anything..including moving on
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i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend who i love, he wasnt being tough or aggressive and he did it as gently as he could, but when i got home i began bleeding like crazy, when we were fucking, it hurt alot, but not to the point where i was gonna die, and i also did it on the last day of my period, but then for the past 4 days ive been bleeding, like everytime i wiped, it wasnt just a spot, it was a quite a wiping if you get me. We did it twice, but it was short, and i just stopped. I wonder if its weird that i bled so much, i thought it would be a little spotting, not a pudddle. Can you tell me what was the cause for it? did i get a small vaginal tear, becuase i was really tight and shit.please help me
Your first time typically hurts. Actually the first couple of times will hurt. Every body reacts differently to situations. He probably poped your "cherry" completly the very first time. So there for you will blead harder than say your friend, who cherry didn't pop, or didn't pop completly. After a week I would start worrying. If you feel its a big problem, seek medical attention.
Happy Holidays
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ok, i asked this question::
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=521481
and heres what happened. i cried endlessly for days, but we are on speaking terms now. he seems SO sorry. he has told me a million and one times. hes cried with me.. hes said how he loves me more than anything in this world.. how he cant lose me, hes never loved anyone else as much, no ones ever treated him as good as i have and loved him that much back, and how he was seriously preparing to ask my mom & propose on down the road. he says without me, hes gone. either to live with his dad hours away or to the army.. anything, but i was the only thing keeping him here. that because of me, he hasnt dropped out of school, and he actually cares about things, and that ive showed him so much about himself and changed him for the better.
this puts me in a pickle. i love this kid, but i just cant get over what he did. as of now, we are not together, but its so hard. i feel like i cant just throw away a year and a half ya know? hes seriously never done anything like that before, thats not him. and he said if we were to get back together, he wouldnt try ANYTHING at ALL.
i told him i need time to get over this, and that my trust in him is GONE. it took me months to trust him the first time around [i have major trust issues, mostly with guys thanks to previous boyfriends], and this time would be 10x harder. but all he wants is me back. he seems so sincere.. and i want to give him another chance, but at the same time, i dont want it to be that he'll just sweet talk his way back to me and thats that. i honestly dont think hed do anything like that again, but i dont want to set myself up ya know?
also, he apparently was under the influence of prescription meds that were not his [they were his moms, he wasnt feeling well and didnt take the right thing].. he says that caused him to be in a different state of mind that night... and that he took it the next day, broke things, and had to be hospitalized.
im just lost. should i give him another chance? and also, if so, how can i open up and trust him again, slowly let my guard down, and just not dwell on what happened?
AHH! input??
I would give it another chance, he is probably wayyyy to scared to ever do anything like that again. If your not ready, then he needs to respect that completely. I doubt he thought you were awake, although it's possible, its sounds like an excuse for him being horny. Make sure you sit face to face and talk. Explain to him fully that it is never to happen again, and what your limitations are. If he didn't cheat on you it shouldn't be as hard to trust him. Dont take any chances by sleeping, just in case. BUTTTTT IT IS NEVER OK FOR A GUY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU! No will always mean no. Boyfriend or not.
If you feel pressure by him, then its not the relationship for you. And despite how much you love him get out of the relationship.
I wish you the best of luck in your battle to trust, and Happy Holidays.
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