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How do you get over a broken heart?
19/f he is 19/m
I just broke up with this wonderful guy after 2 years and 4 months of dating. and I don't know how to get over this.
He was my first true love (as corny as that sounds) and we had all these plans to do together, to be together.
But he and I had a roller coaster relationship.
He is bipolar and schizophrenic, and has a whole boatload of other mental problems (but won't take his medication), and I took care of him when he had all his court stuff, and when he was in the hospital for 2 1/2 months.
I was the one who bent over backwards to make his life easier and so he would be happy.
But he wanted so much to live his life the way he wanted.
But that meant promiscuous sex, and drugs and addictions, and I told him I can't be around for that.
I can't do that anymore, because when is he going to be around to take care of me?
He told me the only time he's been happy the past few months when we have sex, and that just totally blew my mind.
I thought he was happy with me and he told me he wasn't because he wants someone that is more along his lines of thinking.
But I really do love him so much and it hurts so badly.
so please please help me get over him.
Because it hurts too much.
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You were together so long that you will always share those memories. Your going to be doing something or seeing something and he will pop in your mind, it will be a reminder of something yall have done or planed to do. He doesn't seem worthy of your time. Find someone who is willing to bend over backwards for you. Hes 19 and needs to start makeing adult decisions. Your 19 and you need to think about your life, without him in it, and go from there. Chances are, despite how much it hurts, in the future you will look back and see that it wasn't met to be. Its your life, don't let his un-thought-full-ness controle it.
Tommaro is a new day, a new start. Approach it with a smile on your face, with the strength to do anything..including moving on
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it looks to me that you did the right thing. you did everything you could for him.. and he took you forgranted. its gunna take you a while to get over him but you have to. and if he ever wants to get back together.. think of this. think of the reason you broke up with him
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