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Do I have to?
Sorry this will be kind of long.
I'm 15/f in my sophmore year at high school, and most of the girls in my school seem to have this mentality that if you don't have a guy or haven't had sex then you aren't normal. They use the phrase "You have to test drive the product before you buy it". Does that mean I have to put out just to be considered date-able, and pass school does that apply for any relationship? Even when I'm older?
Thanks,
AAf
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Please do not lower yourself to their standards. They say these things because it's new to them, and they want to sound more experienced and cool. I'll bet that half of them are virgins themselves. Wait until you find a guy you really like, and give yourself to him when you know oyu love him.
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First off those girls are dumb! Tell them to go test drive a sex disease that they are gunna have ;D Dont feel pressured into sex. If you are a vigin, keep your virginity for as long as you can. Its a very preciouse thing to have and once you loose it there is no getting it back. You never have to put out to be considered date-able. Most guys wont even consider you girlfriend material if you are easy. There is the saying, " Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?" This means why would a guy want to be your boyfriend if he can get sex with no commitment. Popularity is over rated. Dont try to fit in by having sex.
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i know this sounds stupid but you dont have to do anything that you dont want to .
im 15/f/ sophmore too and i know how you feel. We have all seen those girls who just seem perfect and its very tempting to try to copy them, but TRUST ME there are tons of guys who want to do more than get into your pants. You might want to surround yourself with different people bacause your current friends dont really seem to be sending you the right message. =/
plus, what if something goes wrong??
what if the condom breaks? or een falls off the underdeveloped teen boy your "test driving"?
you dont even know if he is father material?
and when you have a baby, you are responsible for him/her for the next 18 years ( more than your life so far)
i really hope i didnt sound to much like a mother or health teacher but really... if you think about it.. that crazy!
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