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Confused
so iam the girl who posted "bestfriend" and the feedback i got from people were great!! but something else has happened and so i need some more advice...what if i told him how i felt but he didnt respond instesd he just acted as if i never even told him at all..were great friends and no things didnt get awkward but he keeps going on like my feelings don't matter..not only that but some people at school say that it isint right to go after somone younger then me and some say age is just a #...(he is 3 yrs younger then me BTW)....what should i do or how should i react???? HELP PLEASE!!!
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Well if he keeps going on like your feelings don't matter, then I'd say, leave it. He obviously doesn't care enough to respect what you have to say and accept the truth about what you did say.After you worked on telling him for a while and fought with yourself with "how to do it" and "should I?".
If he doesn't change then it goes to show you he doesn't care. He left his cards right open on the table with that answer.
But before just leaving without closure, if you decide to take that road, I would ask him if he needed help with it [[changing]] and if not, let it go.
People in life walk in and walk out. It is rare to find someone that will stick by your side forever.
I hope this helps.
-KD/f/15
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Hey there,
I never read what you wrote on the "bestfriend" thing before but heres what I would say about what you said above: If you told him how you felt and he acts as if you never told him, maybe he was kinda shocked at first and then just needs time to think about it. Or maybe he was like 'aww..' and was kinda shy to reveal how he felt about you.
It shouldn't matter what others think, they are not you. If thats who you like then they should respect that. There are a lot of people who date younger people. Some even date people like 20 years younger than what they are! (not that that is wrong or anything). You shouldnt let them determin who you can be with. As long as they are decent, respect your space, and care for you its all good.
I think you should sort of test how he really feels about you. And if you are real good friends you could just ask him, and he should be honest with you. Good luck! :)
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