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Q: okay im starting on birth control soon..and im on itcuz of my acne..but im also happy im on it cuz when i do bcome sexually active (imma virgin) with my BF of a year and 3 months i want to me 100% safe meaning using a condom and being on birth control..and i wanted to know..how long till birth control is effective? like how long should i wait till i can trust that it will work before i feel safe enough to go off and lose my virginity..
It wont work until like the 2nd time like the 2nd month deal with the lil things they give you the first one is just getting it used to your body but the other one is really going to work. THey give you cirrcular things and yeah the 2nd month works trix

Q: Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)
Umm i wouldnt do the same color as your wall that wouldnt klash to much. It would be to matchy like and be boring. So i would use a bunch of light colors. I dont know if i would go with orange either.. I would go mayb eiwht a yellow or white or pink. If you get white get lil pillows like orange green pink purple. Now that would be cool :-P but whatever you do do it will be cute im sure!! :) -trix

Q: ok here is the thing. i lost like 10 pounds and now i have alot of extra skin on my elbow-neck-and hand well how do i get rid of that?
thanks
Umm.. no idea other then to work your hand out and your neck by rotating your neck around your hand just squiggle your fingers and move your wrists in a circlular motion-trix

Q: I have been sexually active for almost 6 months abd I want to be put on the pill. My parents dont know im having sex. I hate using condoms.. so we just make sure he pulls out. I have a few Questions.
A. How much does it cost?
B. How much do they give you at one time?
C. How can I get it without my parents knowing im gettin it? Like a place you can go without parental permission.

Thanks sooo much!
A) its free pretty much they can give you 3 packets for free at least. So that is for a month.
B) one lil circle thing is for 1 month
c) Go to plan parenthood.

-trix (if u need more info im rite here)

Q: i went to a club with my friends the other day and we did have alot of fun but my ex was danceing with tons of other girls and i still love him lets just say his name is jake but i love him and i have no clue how to get him back
signed plz get me a clue
You have to let go no matter how hard it may be. But there will be alot of other guys. Just look around the club and im sure you will find someone better then him. And perfect for you! Just try not to pay attention to what he is doing and who he's with. If you extremely want him back so bad go dance with him-trix

Q: I'm 12 years old and weigh 105 lbs. I'M 5 FEET 7 INCHES TALL!!! Is that freakishley tall for someone my age??
I wouldnt say freakishly tall but it is tall. Your taller then me and im 15. Im 116. and 5'3 but its totally fine. Everyone varies. My friend is 5' and is 113. Another friend of mine is 4'10 is around 110. So they are all my age. So my point is that everyone varies at heights!! So dont worry your just peachy on how you are!-trix

Q: My BFF got me a gift for Valentine's Day and I think it was 20 to 25 dollars!! I am also getting her a gift, but I believe it's 7 to ten bucks. Is that wrong that I'm spending less on her??

(Also, the thing I'm getting her is something she really wants, but do you think I should get more?)
Well it doesnt matter the price. It never should. Its the thought that matters. And if she really wants it then it doesnt matter she will defintly like it!!-trix

Q: this is sorta werid. im 15/f and ive been havin some dischage but im not newhere near my period. i know its not a yeast infection but i need to know what to do. help please!!!
Its perfectly normal. Just no that your healthy-trix

Q: they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?
You just know you get that feeling and you will know. It probably (he probably) wont come along for awhile. Im thinking maybe the college age or so. But you will defintly no. He will treat you like gold and like a princess!!-trix

Q: can lot of you can send me some good journals sties.. thanks
www.livejournal.com

Q: i want to spend more time with my dad. yeah i no that sounds weird but he may not have long to live but u never no and i want to spend as much time as i want with him but see i have never ereally hung out with him and i don't no wat to do with or or how to ask him.
well you shouldnt be scarred to ask it is your dad afterall. I would just be like hey dad wanna go out for supper and maybe bowling.. Im sure he would be more then thrilled/happy to go with you and spend time!!-trix

Q: this guy likes me, hes nice, but i dont like him and he thinks i do? how do i give him a hint?
Just dont talk to him as much. if you avoid him he wont give you as much as attention. He would feel dumb for it anyways.-trix

Q: hi! my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months and I dont know what to get him for Valentines Day!I dont really wanna give him chocolate and i got him clongue for Christmas! so what should I get him?? i rate 5's if the anwser is good and doesnt piss me off
Ahh thats a very common question right now. Im getting my boyfriend of 9 months a cookie that says kiss kiss on it and a card. Im just being simple thats all. But anyways you could get him boxers with hearts or something on it-trix

Q: my mom has this bf and he is at my house every night and i cant stand it last night i was asleep in my moms room and she made me get out so that her bf could sleep in there im just so mad
Well it is her room. But i dont think she shouod have him over everynight unless they are engaged. I would talk to her whenever you get the chance-trix

Q: I'm really upset. I just recently tried out for Grease. And I don't think I got in. And I think the only reason why is because the director couldn't read my e-mail address. I think I did good because the man I sang to for my audition said I did excellent. I am wondering should I e-mail the director? She didn't send out all the cast things yet but it's just not fair that she is sending out roles on different days. What should I do?
I would email the director-trix

Q: people think itz wrong for a 9th grader and an 8th grader to be together,tell me how is that?
Pfft age doesnt matter. Me and my boyfriend are 1 year and 7 months apart. Doesn't matter if he is older though. It doesnt matter really if the guy is older or the guy is younger. Same goes for the same way as a girl. Why would you just want to stay limited to your grade anyways? Open your horizons. Well not you but whoever is telling you that. And its perfectly normal-trix

Q: Hey! As you all probably know, Valentines day Is coming soon! And I need to Know what to get my boyfriend he's 16, but he'll be 17 in April. So I would just like some of your ideas. We have been together over a year. I had alot of good ideas but I got his a lot of the stuff for our One Year Anniversary! So If I could have some good Ideas that would be great. And If you are a guy who has gotten something that you really like from a girl- tell me! Or if you are a girl who has gotten something for a guy that he really liked! thansk so much!

I'll Rate 4 or 5!

:)
God Bless You!
*KeLsA*
I got my boyfriend cologne he loved it. The next night we were talking and he said I smell very good now. And he got me earings and i said i looked very pretty now. Maybe cologne. I was thinking boxers maybe. I wouldnt do a CD or something cuz its valentines day not his birthday. Try silky boxers :-p. Or boxers w/hearts! Make him a card if you want to be extremely thoughtful. Or if you want you can get him a I love you bear. Kissing bears. Even though its girlie its from you so you are completely aloud to do that!! btw i like your name ((kelsa))its pretty shweet!!-trix

Q: Yesterday I saw my friend smoking, so today I hoped to stop her from getting addicted or doing it again. I asked her if she tried smoking yesterday (rumours were going round she had too) and she acted as if it was a joke, said no and kept trying to change the conversation. I know she has told other friends. However, she does know I am strongly against smoking and she has in the past told me that she was too. How will I get her to terms with what she has done and stop her from ever doing it again? She seems to ruin her life at any opportunity- in the past she has been a cutter, anorexic and bullimic. Please help!
My friend was/is like that. She is copping..sort of anyways.. I would just talk to her and make her relize how much you want her to stop. I actually gave up hope for this on my friend. I spent a year and half on it. Nothing i got out of it. You just need to tell her how you feel about it. And I told my friend if you love and respect me you wont smoke around me. And s/he doesnt. So you just need to set boundaries and talk to her but before you do bring any of this just really positively make sure she is smoking. ANd just be like i need to talk to you and i need the blunt truth. I heard you were smoking now before you say anything i want you to know i care and i dont want antyhing to happaned to you-trix

Q: well im going out with this kid that is rude to my best friend but she is really rude to him to and whenever im with him my friend always starts with him and my friend thinks hes totaly rude and wants me to dump him but i dont want to cu i like him alot and she is really mad at me cuz i wont dump him cuz he is rude to her what should i do???
Well i would talk to him and if he doesnt cut it out then you should dump him. Cuz friends come first. ALWAYS. they will be there for you when the rest of the world walks out on you. Trust me. Its pretty much a known fact. I would just see why he hates her and why she hates him and try and help them fix those 2 lil probs.-trix

Q: is it true that you can use lemon juice to bring out your natural highlights? if so, how do you apply it?
I am not fully sure if that is true but i heard if you just rub it on like smooth it on thats how it works. I've never actually given it a try but i would think about doing it-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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