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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.
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My friend kaitlyn and myslef were really colse. We were almost incepterible. Everyday if we didnt hangout we tlak for hours online or on the phone. I really liked her. Alot. This went on for almost 6 months. the it happend. We got into this huge fight that could have been avoided. I tryed so hard ot apoloogize and make up for it. but the things i said and done were unforgiveable. I lost all hope and just gave up. I didnt talk to her for a while. But everyday I thought about her and always kept thinking what if. then to make it worse a month after the inccident i was told byher best friend stephanie that she really liked me alot and was hoping to go out with me. but then "it" happend. After that i was crushed. After nearly two months of not saying a word ot eachother. I called her. we tlak for quie a bit. Now were friends but were not even clsoe to beinga s close as we use to. the problem is i still like her very much. I mean alot. But she has no idea becasue i'm afriad to tell her becasue i dont want to make thing weird between us. Plus i'm pretty sure she dosent feel the same way about me. i have no lcue what to do. I really want to be with her but i think i really fucked it up. i could haave had something great but i fucked it up and now i'm afriad to even to tell her how i feel.
i dont blame you for being scared to tell her how you feel about her. this fight sounds huge and she was prolly devistated by it as well. it sounds liek the fight was really nasty too. alot of rude names that you dont really mean, right? yea, those fights are the worst. because of the fact that she really liked you and wanted to go out means that she was prolly hurt even more than you think. i suggest that you either get close to her again.. it may take a while but i guarentee its worth it. or ask stephanie how her best friend kaitlyn feels.. especially about you. then after you know - you can work your way in and make your move. but eeither way i think you should get to know her better - like you used to. it was good you called her and talked for a while. you showed her you cared and i bet shes been waiting for that call for almost ever. you never know how she feels about you unless you ask. but you might wanna wait a little before you do. because otherwise you could amke it totally awkward and maybe freak her out.. not a good thing. just get to know her [again] and remind her of all your good memories together. i know you really wanna be with her.. but take your time. it will pay off
hope this helps!! :] ♥
I need help. My dad jsut was thrown in jail for drugs. my mom is a whore who I never see. there trying to send me to live with my grandma who i never met. My dads drugs problems rubbed off on me. What should iIdo my life is over. I feel like killing myself.
wow, im really sorry. first off - do not kill yourself. its pretty much the stupidest thing you could ever do.. and its also kinda selfish ( no offence). and could you imagine everyone who cares about you & how much worse their lives would get? its not your fault that your dad got thrown in jail for drugs. but it IS your fault for picking up that bad habit. what if you get caught? dont blame yourself for it - which it seems that you are. im guessing your parents are either divorced / seperated or never married because you said you never see her. she must have done something really bad for you to be calling her that.. either that - or your judging her because of something your dad said. so maybe try reconsidering how you feel about your mom.. unless your want to go and live with your grandma that who have never met [which would be REALLY wierd]. or try and think of other realtives you could possibly live with - instead of your grandma.. feel free to ask me anything anytime or im me..
hipe this helps !! :] ♥
I just wanted to thank you again for your idea. I took your idea and edited it a lil and came up with this.. i hope you think its neat becuase you seem to have some awsome ideas!!!
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your welcomee :] anytimee !
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ok so this is like my 5th period and i've never had cramps really bad. today im having really bad cramps. whats the best thing to do, to stop the pain? its unbarable!
--->luvsu
try keeping your body active. its supposed to help with the amount of cramps and reduce them.. but different girls have different things that help. oh, and deffinitally use midol. ITS AMAZING. if you really feel like crap, then put a heating pad on your lower stomach while your watching tv or on the computer or doing something while your sitting down. try relaxing as well.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
HELPPP....im 14, im 5'6" and i weight bout 120 (give or take a few pounds) i wanna know some ways to tone up my body before summer, mostly in stomache area and thighs, any help would be great thanks...xoxo
you are actually like really healthy. i know other people said this.. but go to http://toneteen.com/pages/fitness.htm - its an amazing site! and it has really good ideas.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
okay i like this guy. i started talking to him online cause i kept noticing him around school. he's a year older than me. well i wanna ask him to hang out but im afraid to. spring break is coming up and i dont want to be stuck with out seeing him for 2 weeks. how can i casually ask if he wants to hang out?
thanks. ill rate high! :)
yea - have a plan. and if he doesnt make it - try not changing it or canceling it because then he will know then. maybe try having a few people over and inviting him.. or try going somewhere really public. like the mall, movies, park or whatever. or if you know hes going somewhere - "accidently" run into him there - and just start hanging out with him and talking.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
ya ive only had it for like 4 months though.. i think im doing it right i checked the box but i dont wanna ask my mom its a little awkward but i guess i will... wat kind do u recomend?
oh, well id still try it with 4 months. you dont wanna give up your whole vacation because of something like this. it should hurt -unless your not relaxed. if you dont wanna ask your mom - go here.. http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html . scroll down to "How do you insert a tampon?" . sorry that it shows some pictures - but its helpful and its good if you dont wanna ask her or soemone else. i'd reccomend using tampax [pearl plastic]. the only other thing i can think of why its hurting is beacuse if you were using your moms - then it might be too big for you. there are different sizes [just like pads] depending on how heavy your flow is. if you have any other questions - im here!
hope this helps!! :] ♥
ok so i think im due for my period over my trip to cali!! ahh!! ok so should i use tampons or just not bother swimming? ive tried before and it hurt alot for me... whats your opinion?
honetsly - its totally up to you. and how long you have had your period. tampons shouldnt hurt if your doing it right - especially if you do it alot. you get really use to it. if you like have questions about putting it in/taking it out - id either ask my mom or look on the back of the box. but again, it really shouldnt hurt you much. oh, and dont give up swimming just cuz of soemthing liek this.. youve got years & years more of this to "look forward too" [yea right] so- just start getting ready now. and HELLO! YOUR IN CALI. swimming is deffintially a forshure thing there. and your gonna regret not swimming if you dont. so dont freak out - its deffinitally not the worst thing that could happen. and who knows - maybe you'll be lucky and your period will be late?!
hope this helps!! :] ♥
alright i got a new yahoo email address and when i moved all my subscribtion to it they are went ok except for my xanga subscribitons. they always go into the bulk(the spam folder) how can i change that?
thanks
open a message - and click not spam at the bottom.. it should do the trick.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
ok well basically theres this guy im totalli into and he liked me to but he never told me so i got w/his bestfriend but me n his bestfriend never dated but we were tlaking and then we stoped and one night we went to this cabin and we told eachother we like eachother and we kissed and he kept saying (his bestfriend) can never find out and blah then the next week until tuesday he ignored me.. then tuesday came and there was no school wednesday and it was my frinds bday party and we kissed again and now hes ignoring me again but i rele like him and people think its because hes afraid of his bestfriend finding out and i know he is.. but he totally ignores me but he tells me he likes me and blah and he tells his friend who he talks to abt it that he likes me but he shows no emotion .. but i realli like him and i dont know wut 2 do.. do you think he rele likes me and is jus scared of his bestfriend finding out or do you think hes using me'? HELP
sounds to me that hes deffinitally interested in you. obviously the first you you talked about told his best friend that he liked you [when he did]. im kinda confused if you still like the first guy or not.. but that doesnt really matter i guess. since you know that this best friend is into you.. go for him. try and talk to the first guy and explain that since he didnt tell you how he felt.. you moved on. and it just happened to be his best frined. or you can just start talking to his best friend and act like good friends.. until the guy is comforatable with telling his best friend how he feels about you.. because im pretty suire he likes you.. he just doesnt wanna loose his best friend.. you know.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
okayy soo i really like this guy and hess older but i dont think he lieks me and i dont no what to do becasue liek we danced at a b/m and stuff but i just dont think he likes me and all i do is think abut him mand we talk and studd and i dont no what to do
babe, i know its hard. but if he doesnt like you.. then your sorta wasting your time. but you dont know for sure if he doesnt.. so dont give up just yet. the whole dancing at a b/m thing doesnt mean a whole lot.. because you can dance with anyone.. even the king dork of all dorks. haha, but you know what i mean. just find out if he likes you.. age doesnt really matter unless he thinks it does.. then theres a problem. i know it seems like you could never imagine yourslef without him or whatever and you never have anything else to think about. but theres gonan be like seriously 6452375 other guys. and they are all gonna realise how awesome & amazing you are. its good you talk but maybe he just thinks of you and him as only friends - and nothing more. honestly id just find out if he likes you and if he doesnt.. then move on. i know its hard but you got your friends ( and ofcorse mee) to be here for you. if you are like shy around him or something you might wanna have one of your friends ask him if he likes you.. or even see if one of his friends knows.. kinda be sneaky. but know your interested. keep me updateddd.
hope this helps !! :] ♥
How do you turn off an iPod mini? Seriously i thought they would make it really obvious. So what i do is put it on hold and push pause and it eventually turns off i think? Am i wasting battery this way?
i have a mini too. just pause the song then just hold that button again. and it should do the trick. sometimes its sensitive so if it is then just start over. no - your not wasting the battery.. its the only way to turn it off ! haha.. after its off maybe put it on hold though.. to amke surew it stays off.
hope this helps !! :] ♥
okay, so i like this guy, simple enough, right? my friend asked him out earlier this year, and he said no, but i know for a fact that she still likes him, along with liking another guy. i just need to know if it would be wrong for me to get involved with a guy that both my friend and i like.
well, it kinda depends. talk to her and tell her you are really interested in him. and you have been.. tell her you dont want a boy get between you two because your friendship with her is important. and the fact that she likes someone else is also good.. because it means shes getting over this boy. and when he said no she was prolly like sad which made her like him less (it hurts less if you dont care about them as much) . if you know he likes you - go for him. but try not asking him out unless like he wants you too.. most guys like doing that job :] which is always a bonus for girls. so, no its not wrong. just amke sure your firend knows you still care about her and you still hang with her and stuff.
hope this helps !! :] ♥
I used to use a FREE gif animator online, but I can't remember what the site was! Please help. Every other one I see is for a charge of 20+ dollars!
check download.com - they have like all software you can think of !
hope this helps!! :] ♥
what are some good job that a 16 year guy can work for? a good paying job..
p.s. in san diego california
how about you try caddying at a golf place. if your like good, the rich folks will reccommend you to other people and you get lotsa jobs. or maybe at a cell phone store.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
i had sex with one of my really close friends last night. we used to hangout alot and hook up once in a while but last night he had a bunch of people over and we just did it. please dont judge me, thanks but im goin to a bonfire tonight that hes like hosting because its near his house and i just want to make sure hes not going to tell alot of people and not make it a big deal.. what should i say when i see him tonight.. should i pull him away from everyone
well, if hes one of your really close friends.. he prolly wont say much to anyone - especially if you ask him not to. when you see him, act normal or else everyone will know something is up. you prolly dont wanna show him that its bugging you either because then he might think you regret doing it with him [ maybe you do - idk ] but yea. personally i would just pull him aside and talk to him about what happened. if it didnt mean anything to you then just like a "hook up" then honestly you shouldnt have done it.. besides for the "having fun" part. but just tell him you want everything between you two to be normal.. like nothing happened. dont make things awkward because you could loose a good friend.. and that would suck (considering the situation and everything). do you think it actually meant something to him? and you have to ask yourself the same question.. if it didnt then tell him that. also say you dont wanna make a big deal about it because you two are nothing more then friends so dont tell anyone.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
Every night i eat dinner but I always get hungry later at night and i eat way too much..what should I do?
theres 2 things you can do. either when you get hungry, you can drink lotsa water. its really good because it gets you full quick and you just pee it all out. or you can eat something healthy, but just something little. like a piece of cheese or a diet bar or some friut or whatever you have. then you get nutrients and dont gain much eating healthy things. if you eat like cake or something then you gain alot and no nutritional value.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
i've been googling all day and i cant it anywere,so i want 2 noo ..
whats ther average weight of someone who is 4"8 1/2?
whats the average weight of someone who is 5"3 ?
go to www.am-i-fat.com and it gives you all that information and stuff :]
hope this helps!! :] ♥
I am going to my 8th grade dinner dance and its supposed to be totally formal but not like im going to the prom and im so picky and i dont want to spend too much money where should i go what should i wear?
im going through the same thing - just try maybe a cute skirt [ not like a short jean thing but like a semi-long anf flowy. ] and a cute top. maybe off the shoulders or something. and if you do wanna go the dress route then try something kinda short and sleeveless. maybe something like polka-dot or whatever - depending on what your into and like. maybe try shopping at forever 21 or h&m. they have good clothes for good prices.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
Okay, So my mom is letting me re do my room. I have three colors i would rlea ylike to put into my room.. pink, gray, black. I can do anything tha ti want so thats not an issue. Its just coming up with designs. My momwanted to do circles and i wanted ot do stripes. Im a 14 year old girl. I'm sorda girly but a totaly pink room would get old to quick. Anyways, my mom already did my room onc ebefore when i first got the roo and she said that shes never redooing it again so i have to be able to live in thsi room while being 14 15 16 17 and maybe 18. So please, any ideas, pictures, url, would be helpful. Any ideas where i like them or not will get a 5. If you say somthing stupid like pant it pink then no. I want it diffrent. I dont wnat it just one simple color. My rooms fairly big so i can do anything to it. Pleaseeee help!!!
Much love
Meg.
well, first of all - its kinda hard to like design YOUR room. but heres some ideas.. pink gray and black are adorable together (good choice) you could prolly do like 3 walls either the gray or pink and the one other stipes. [ dont let your mom choose for you, if you want stripes - do stripes. but circles would look adorable too ] for the fourth one.. maybe something like this :: http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b305/jesskelly_/backgrounds/stripess.gif .. only instead of white - use gray. [although white looks cute too] im scared if you do all walls stripes then you will get sick of it., and if you do circles youll feel like your in bubbles. and im guessing you have a closet - so maybe if you have doors do the doors different colors. like the first one pink second black third gray and fourth pink or however many doors you have. then its like something different. ya? i hope i gave you some good ideas.
hope this helps!! :] ♥