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Question Posted Tuesday April 18 2006, 1:56 pm

My friend kaitlyn and myslef were really colse. We were almost incepterible. Everyday if we didnt hangout we tlak for hours online or on the phone. I really liked her. Alot. This went on for almost 6 months. the it happend. We got into this huge fight that could have been avoided. I tryed so hard ot apoloogize and make up for it. but the things i said and done were unforgiveable. I lost all hope and just gave up. I didnt talk to her for a while. But everyday I thought about her and always kept thinking what if. then to make it worse a month after the inccident i was told byher best friend stephanie that she really liked me alot and was hoping to go out with me. but then "it" happend. After that i was crushed. After nearly two months of not saying a word ot eachother. I called her. we tlak for quie a bit. Now were friends but were not even clsoe to beinga s close as we use to. the problem is i still like her very much. I mean alot. But she has no idea becasue i'm afriad to tell her becasue i dont want to make thing weird between us. Plus i'm pretty sure she dosent feel the same way about me. i have no lcue what to do. I really want to be with her but i think i really fucked it up. i could haave had something great but i fucked it up and now i'm afriad to even to tell her how i feel.

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KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 7:15 pm:
i dont blame you for being scared to tell her how you feel about her. this fight sounds huge and she was prolly devistated by it as well. it sounds liek the fight was really nasty too. alot of rude names that you dont really mean, right? yea, those fights are the worst. because of the fact that she really liked you and wanted to go out means that she was prolly hurt even more than you think. i suggest that you either get close to her again.. it may take a while but i guarentee its worth it. or ask stephanie how her best friend kaitlyn feels.. especially about you. then after you know - you can work your way in and make your move. but eeither way i think you should get to know her better - like you used to. it was good you called her and talked for a while. you showed her you cared and i bet shes been waiting for that call for almost ever. you never know how she feels about you unless you ask. but you might wanna wait a little before you do. because otherwise you could amke it totally awkward and maybe freak her out.. not a good thing. just get to know her [again] and remind her of all your good memories together. i know you really wanna be with her.. but take your time. it will pay off

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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