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ok well basically theres this guy im totalli into and he liked me to but he never told me so i got w/his bestfriend but me n his bestfriend never dated but we were tlaking and then we stoped and one night we went to this cabin and we told eachother we like eachother and we kissed and he kept saying (his bestfriend) can never find out and blah then the next week until tuesday he ignored me.. then tuesday came and there was no school wednesday and it was my frinds bday party and we kissed again and now hes ignoring me again but i rele like him and people think its because hes afraid of his bestfriend finding out and i know he is.. but he totally ignores me but he tells me he likes me and blah and he tells his friend who he talks to abt it that he likes me but he shows no emotion .. but i realli like him and i dont know wut 2 do.. do you think he rele likes me and is jus scared of his bestfriend finding out or do you think hes using me'? HELP
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Well, look. If hes cheating on his bestfriend, kinda in a way, ya know, they he is liable to do it to you. Once a cheater always a cheater. If that was really his best friend well then he would let her know. He may and may not be using you. Tough situation. I think its rude to ignore you, i mean he can just like talk to you and stuff, and not so that he 'likes you'.
Mmkay just watch your back. Be Careful
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sounds to me that hes deffinitally interested in you. obviously the first you you talked about told his best friend that he liked you [when he did]. im kinda confused if you still like the first guy or not.. but that doesnt really matter i guess. since you know that this best friend is into you.. go for him. try and talk to the first guy and explain that since he didnt tell you how he felt.. you moved on. and it just happened to be his best frined. or you can just start talking to his best friend and act like good friends.. until the guy is comforatable with telling his best friend how he feels about you.. because im pretty suire he likes you.. he just doesnt wanna loose his best friend.. you know.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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that kind of situation is always hard to deal with because guys are so crazy weird! it sounds to me though that he really does like you, but that he's just afraid of his friend finding out because why would he kiss you if he didn't really like you? like for me there's this guy i realllly like and we've hung out a whole bunch and we held hands and cuddles and a bunch more, but he tells his friend that he doesn't like me. but last week he was doing a whole lot with me that said he did like and he even admitted that he likes bein with me.
I'd say that the best thing to do would be to just upfront ask him about it and to just say "where are things going with us? do you really like me like you act you do?" or something along those lines.
I'm sorry i couldn't be much help, but i hope this gets you on the right track! good luck!
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I'm sorry hun but I think he is using you since he doesn't show his love. He's a jerk and all talk. Forget him and find someone who is totally honest with you and won't leave you out in the cold.
♥ lena
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It's hard to say on this one... guys can be really weird and stupid.
It sounds like he's kind of using you though. If he acted like nothing happened, then I would think that he was just afraid that his friend would find out, but the fact that he totally ignored you says that he's just a jerk.
There are tons of nicer guys out there, so don't worry about it :)
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okay, first, for understanding purposes: pretend that your "boyfriends" name is JACK and his best friend is JOEY. i think that JACK knows that JOEY likes you. JACK is scared that if JOEY sees you too out in public that he will get mad at JACK. the best thing to do would to go ask both of them if they like you. you can clear the whole thing up with a good talk. i dont think that JACk is using you. hope this helps!! :) &hearts ♥ ♥
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Honestly, I don't really think he likes you if he won't admit it to his friend. Maybe talk to his(the guy u like's) best friend, and ask him, "Hey, i really like your best friend *name*...do u think it would be ok with you if asked him to a movie or something." That way you do not bring the guy you like into it. Maybe telling the guy you like his answer will allow him to be more open, and you guys can move on from there.
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