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Hi,
Well can some one tell me some good song I've been listening to the same old one forever and I need some new one. (link)
Bosson - One In A Million
Jessica Simpson - Forbidden Fruit
Alexz Johnson - Temporary Isanity, I'm In Love With My Guitar, Skin, That Girl, It Could Be You
Aly & AJ - Rush
Bratz Rock Angelz - So Good
Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me
Christina Vidal - Take Me Away
Everlife - Go Figure
Ivy - Thinking About You
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Jamison Parker - Best Mistake
Michelle Branch - All You Wanted, Sweet Misery
Plumb - I Can't Do This
Omnisoul - Waiting (Save Your Life)
The Veronicas - 4ever, Leave Me Alone, Mouth Shut, Revolution, When It Falls Apart
Aslyn - That's When I Love You
Brie Larson - Whatever
Clear Vu - I Adore
Dante Thomas - Miss California
Eminem - When I'm Gone
Erika - Relations
Fallout Boy - Dance Dance

If you need anymore drop one in my inbox ♥



ok well,im 15, there is this guy that i have a crush on, but he has a girlfriend. Me and my boyfriend just broke up. I know that i didnt like it when other girls liked my bf. So do you think it is wrong that i like someone elses boyfriend? This has been bugging me for a long time. (link)
In my opinion i don't think there is anything wrong with that.
In some cases you can't help who you fall for.


Please list me some rock songs that would be good for an audition for a rock band. I'm not exactly a soprano and my voice is a bit soulful...(think Christina Agueleria minus the speaky high notes)...but I need a good rock song. Please list some for me. thanks (link)
Well the songs by Alexz Johnson are not entirely rock but try them out:

Alexz Johnson - Temporary Isanity, I'm In Love With My Guitar, Skin, That Girl, It Could Be You

Also You could try:

Aly & AJ - Rush

Bratz Rock Angelz - So Good

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me

Christina Vidal - Take Me Away

Everlife - Go Figure

Ivy - Thinking About You

Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby

Jamison Parker - Best Mistake

Michelle Branch - All You Wanted, Sweet Misery

Plumb - I Can't Do This

Omnisoul - Waiting (Save Your Life)

The Veronicas - 4ever, Leave Me Alone, Mouth Shut, Revolution, When It Falls Apart

If you need anymore drop one in my inbox ♥








Is it weird going out with someone younger than you? I'm 13and in 8th grade. And he's a year younger than me, and in 7th grade. Is that weird if he asks me out? I kinda like him...but it just kinda freaks me out to think of it? What should I do? (link)
I don't think there is anything wrong with going out with some one younger then you.
Age doesn't matter when you like some one.
if you like him then go for it and if people comment on it just ignore them because you know how you really feel.


Well I met this guy on advicenator's and I really really like him..... but I want him to know, and Im wayyyyyy to shy to tell him... wada i dooooo!!!??
(link)
Well you could send him a message in his inbox signed his secret admirer I think that is pretty cute to do.
And when you are ready to tell him then send him another message telling him who his secret admirer is.


i hate when people ask music questions that are like: who sings this?? but i just have to know... so i gotta ask.
1. the new eminem song... whats it called? i keep forgetting...
2. does anyone know a xanga music site where i can get the code for it? i have to have it a.s.a.p.

thnx! (link)
Its called "When I'm Gone"
And for the Xanga music site just go on Xanga then go to blogrings and type in music codes and a bunch will come up.


What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks! (link)
Dating and going out is basically the same thing.


What are some really good love books? For young girls. That make you say like "awww!! how cute!" and it just makes you read them over and over. :) Any book will do though. Thank you . :) (link)
Trash Talk / Cherie Bennett & Jeff Gottesfeld.

Somebody's Gotta Be On Top / Mary B. Morrison

Gossip Girl / Cecily Von Ziegesar

Never Too Much / Lori Foster

If you need more drop one in my inbox ♥



my lips are always CHAPPED and DRY and PEELY! I use vaseline, and I try everything, but it doesn't seem to work. Any tips to make them nice and soft? (link)
You should try Blistex it works really well.


i've had the sameeee s/n for a really long time with my name in it & i'm looking for some more ideas. i can't come up with anything that i'll use for awhile.

-i'm tall/long legs
-brunette(but i already had a brunette s/n)
-i like fashion u kno, AE, af, hollister, ripped jeans, pearls, big sunglasses, purses
-i play basketball
-i like having fun
-i love my bf, family, & friends
-im in hs

idk stuff like that

thanks!! (link)
DanGerouSx3

di0RkisseS

DiOr_KisSx3

EX0TiC_CUTi3

iiRRESiSTiBlE

iiRRESiSTiBlE x3

iiRRESiSTiBl3

MiSsGuCCi

MiSS_GUCCi x3

PreppyPlayBunni

YoUrFaNtAsYyY

POiS0N x3

POiSON xx

H0LLiSTER_WH0RE

L0VE THEM PEARLZ

ii LOVER HiM x3

ii_L0VEE_HiM

If you want more just leave more info about your self in my inbox and i'll try to come up with more ♥






is it weird to ask your boyfriend whether you turn him on?? he's quite a good boy and we never discuss anything like that.. however, i'm really curious as to whether he finds me desirable at all. is this a weird thing to just ask out of the blue?

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I wouldn't exactly call that weird but it isn't a question you hear everyday.
If you really want to know if your boyfriend finds you desireable then just ask there is nothing wrong with that.
If you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


my cousin is getting married next august. im really close to her and we're trying to pick a good song for at the reception when they announce the people and they walk down. she wants a real fun party song like "Here For The Party" by Gretchen Wilson or "Let's Get This Party Started" by Pink. it doesnt have to have the word 'party' in it but can you help us think of any?!?! thankx... ♥ (link)
You could try
Jennifer Lopez - Let's Get Loud
Black Eyed Peas - Let's Get It Started
Bosson - One In A Million
Jessica Simpson - Forbidden Fruit
La Bouche - Be My Lover
Savage Garden - Truly Madly Deeply

If you need anymore drop one in my inbox ♥


okay well over the summer my boyfriend broke up w/ me :( but now were in high school n i still love him but i dnt kno how 2 get over him wat do i do ?
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From my past I learned that just because you want to get over some one it takes time.
You can't just stop liking him.
Go out with anothet guy.
Get your friends to set you up with a guy they think you would like.
Stop thinking about your ex boyfriend. I know it sounds hard it isn't easy but you have to try.
It just takes time.
If you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥


what are some good songs in between the lines of rock and r&b any kind will do except country and oldies (link)
T-Pain - I'm sprung
Keyshia Cole - I Should Have Cheated
Lil Corey - First Time
Liz Phair - Why Can't I
Mandy Moore - It's Gonna Be Love
Mariah Carey - Don't Forget About Us, We Belong Together, One And Only
Twista ft. Mariah Carey - So Lonely
Natalie - You're The One, Going Crazy
Natasha Bedingfield - These words, Stumble
Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu
Ray J - One Wish
Robbie Rivera - Girlfriend
Shakira - Don't Bother
The Veronicas - 4ever
Usher - My Boo, You Got It Bad
The Rasmus - F-F-F-Falling
The Veronicas - 4ever
Chris Brown - Run It
Bow Wow ft. Ciara - Like You
Rihanna - There's A Thug In My Life
Fall Out Boy - Dance Dance
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Hawthrone Heights - Transition, Ohio Is For Lovers, Niki FM
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You
Fabolous - Fly Away
Eminem - When I'm Gone
Plumb - I Can't Do This
Sum 41 - The Hell Song. Pieces, Still Waiting
Yellowcard - Way Away
Relient K - Who I Am Hates Who I've Been
Seether ft. Amy Lee - Broken
Story Of The Year - The Unheard Voice, Anthem Of Our Dying Day, Until The Day I Die
Sugarcult - Pretty Girl
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer
The Early November - All We Ever Needed








can anyone tell me some websites where you can play games?
(link)
http://www.shockwave.com/


Hey, does anyone know any good websites where i can get short story summaries, i tried using sparknotes.com but its confusing me.. so if you know any let me know! thanks! (link)
http://pinkmonkey.com/



Last night, my middle school had a dance. I finally got the courage to ask (let's call him "Will") Will, this guy I've really liked since April of last semester, to slow-dance. Well, the song was really short, and we're fairly good friends (we usually talk most of the time on AIM) so he said to me "Hey, Penelope, can I tell you a secret? I have a huge crush on Catherine." Isn't that awful? I feel terrible. And to top everything off, it's my birthday today too :( Is there anyone I can talk to? Because my friends don't really get it and neither do my parents. (link)
Wow that was so messed up for him to do.
You can IM me anytime hun. My s/n is XXMiSZJUCiiXX


Hey, well I'm 14 female and like when ever I see a cute guy I fall for him. Like I like a guy at my school and another one and when I went to some men's college soccer games i like feel madly in love with them but i know I'll never ever be albe to have then and I can't cause that's like a 18 years dif. and yea. So is this normal for me to be falling for like every cute,hott guy i see? Thnaks (link)
It's just a phase you are going through.
It's completely normal.
So much girls fall for just any hot guy they see walking down th street lol.


I need some songs to put on a cd. This girl asked me to make her a cd and i want to put songs that would like say i like you and say those songs are from my friend who likes her. So if you have anysongs that a girl would like to hear, something that would basically make her fall for him. (link)
Lil Corey - First Time
Liz Phair - Why Can't I
Mandy Moore - It's Gonna Be Love
Mariah Carey - Always Be My Baby, Don't Forget About Us, We Belong Together, One And Only
Twista ft. Mariah Carey - So Lonely
Milk Inc. - Walk On Water
Natalie - You're The One, Going Crazy
Natasha Bedingfield - These words, Stumble
Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu
Ray J - One Wish
Robbie Rivera - Girlfriend
Shakira - Underneath Your Clothes
The Veronicas - 4ever
Usher - My Boo, You Got It Bad
Jessica Simpson - I Think I'm In Love With You
The Rasmus - F-F-F-Falling
The Veronicas - 4ever
Selena - Dreaming Of You
Rod Stewert - Have I Told You Lately That I Love You
Sarina paris - You
Bow Wow ft. Ciara - Like You
Rihanna - There's A Thug In My Life
Noemi - y.o.u.

If you need anymore just drop one in my inbox ♥


what is limewire? do you download songs for free on it? or what?

5's (link)
Limewire is a program where you could download music, music videos, pictures, etc.
I have it and yes it is free.
But if you are planning to get it stick to downloading songs because other things might contain viruses.
If you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥




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