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Rejection
Last night, my middle school had a dance. I finally got the courage to ask (let's call him "Will") Will, this guy I've really liked since April of last semester, to slow-dance. Well, the song was really short, and we're fairly good friends (we usually talk most of the time on AIM) so he said to me "Hey, Penelope, can I tell you a secret? I have a huge crush on Catherine." Isn't that awful? I feel terrible. And to top everything off, it's my birthday today too :( Is there anyone I can talk to? Because my friends don't really get it and neither do my parents.
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When it comes to people to talk to who understand and know most about the situation at hand, you can't beat yourself. Try writing down just what you think of this whole situation, any ideas you might have, how you feel about Catherine and Will now, what you think you might do, if this is best for everyone, etc. If you've done 'stream of conciousness' before, then it should probably come out like that. Give it structure (paragraphs, dot points) if that's how it comes naturally, but otherwise just write down everything. Don't stop for small spelling mistakes or punctuation either.
Alternatively, you could just try something I do (however unwillingly), which is to more or less have a conversation in your head about the topic bothering you. It tends towards a monologue, but you should just pretend that someone asked you a question about this scenario - "So, how big a crush do you think he has on her?" Then you try and answer it best you can, and work on from there.
Best of luck.
P.S - of course, if this sort of thing seems silly, you can always try talking to people you've met purely online. Assuming their maturity is above the '18 years old' level (actual age aside), they'll have a good chance of understanding. The upside of people met on the internet is that you don't need to have so many inhibitions when talking to them.
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If I were you I would smack him. That was very rude and I think it was also very disrespectful towards you especially on your special day. But if he likes someone else you can't make him like you unstead. Don't worry there are more guys out there for you. Im sure youll find him soon.
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Aw I'm so sorry. =/ You can always talk to me whenever you want =] Just please IM me at:
MELii x MARiiE
I'm usually always on. =]
Love,
MELii
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hey, iv gon threw this like 50 zillion times! if you want to talk to me im here for you all the way! hope this helps.
cjAdvice aka: Christine Johnson,
if you ever want to talk you can email me at:
christine1012005@hotmail.com or we can instant message if you have msn. hope to here from you!
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If you want to...I can talk to you. Sure, I'm a stranger but I guess everyone is. I'm willing to listen if you really need someone to talk to and I'll try and help if I can...
puddycat11@hotmail.com is my address
x Steph x
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you can talk to me just im me at
ppookie13
kay
It sound like you have had a bad night and i bet you feel so crappy today
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Wow that was so messed up for him to do.
You can IM me anytime hun. My s/n is XXMiSZJUCiiXX
♥
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yes, you can talk to me anytime. i know how bad rejection hurts sweetie..try not to get so down..there are lots others out there..so live up the single life, keep mingling..meet new people, and you will find someone hun
yourinvalid is my aim sn
-melissa-
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Hey
Oh my gosh babe. I'm soo sorry.
I would love to talk to you just IM me on aim
my sn is DiOr BARBIEE
♥ maria ♥
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