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me and boyfriend have been dating for over a year and we just started have sex, but he doesnt turn me i always fake my orgasms and i also dont know how to turn him on. i also think im a lesbian because i think of girls alot and guys dont turn me on but i love my boyfriend,how can i get turrned on by my boyfriend?
im 19 (link)
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over 70% of the women in the world don't orgasm during sex, mainly during oral.
i wouldn't fake my orgasms anymore, so maybe the harder he tries to actually get you one, the closer you will get.
as for turning you on, any foreplay will help with that. get him to perform oral sex on you, let him finger you, or even kiss your neck or ears, he'll like the fact that you're being forceful & you'll love when he does it.
i don't think you are a lesbian though. it's normal for girls to think about other girls. girls know exactly what other girls like & a womans body is basically the most beautiful thing god created. he gave woman more feature than guys. so its normal to contemplate your sexuality.
but good luck & i hope i helped
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13/f. is it totally weird i get "urges" a lot. i'm only 13 but i always feel kinda "sexual". like, this might weird but i have this little stress ball and sometimes i use it as a sex toy. is this really bad? i'm gonna wait till i get married of course. but sometimes i feel bad cause i do that, or think about sex. i need some advice guys! thanks!
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at age 13 your hormones are going crazy, so it's basically normal to be horny & to masterbate.
if you feel guilty about it because you are against sexual things such as masterbating, then try to overcome this feeling. such as read a book, watch television, or even go out with your friends. anything to occupy your mind will help you fight these 'urges'
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A little less than two weeks ago a guy scratched me when he was fingering me. It was really painful for a couple of days,sore for another few days, and then the pain went away. But this afternoon it was really painful again, and I'm assuming that it relates to incident two weeks ago.
I know it's stupid but I am really embarassed to talk to my parents about this, so I was wondering if anyone has any similar experience and knows what to do.
Thank you. (link)
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my best advice to you is of course to see a doctor. but if you are really embarrassed to talk to your parents about this, then i'm sure you wouldn't want to ask them to take you to the doctor, im assuming.
so basically, let it heal. don't touch down there, don't masterbate, & don't let him finger you. & if after a few days there still is a pain, i would definately try & see a doctor. maybe a friend would take you there instead of your parents.
good luck
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ok so i know this is probably a weird question but i was just wondering this.
Does a woman's breasts only contain milk when she is pregnant or after she has a baby or do they always contain milk even before all of that stuff.
For example...if my boyfriend was sucking my breasts would milk come out like it would for a baby?
I was just wondering--just looking for some answers.Thanks. (link)
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if you aren't pregnant & have never been pregnant then, your boobs won't produce any milk ;)
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Last night my 2 best friends & I went to the moves planned to be with the guy we liked, it was a scary movie so we thought we might hook up with them. Well the guy I used to like could come he was out of state for the weekend so I invited a nother friend who happened to be my ex from a long time ago, 2 years atleast. Well we went to see The Grudge 2 & my hand brushed his in the theratre & he grabbed it, then half way through the movie he put his arm around me & he would pull me close when there was going to be a scary part. I had never felt so right about anything, it was perfect. How he touched me, oh so gently gave me butterflies. Well here is the bad part - he & a good friend of mine just broke up 2 days before this. Its not like he broke up with her, she dumped him & I asked her if she had feelings for him still & she told me no, but I still feel bad. Should I just consider this a one night stand, or should I make it into a realationship ? (link)
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if you like him, then there isn't anything wrong with this.
if your friend plainly told you, that she no longer has feelings for him, then she is basically telling you that he's free to make his own decisions now & you can do the same.
go for it gal, it sounds like he's into you also
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How do you tell if you still love a person?
AND
How do you tell that you don't love a person anymore? (link)
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this is kind of hard to answer, but im about to try.
there really isn't an answer for this question either.
if you love someone, you know you love them. they are on your mind all the time, and when you know you are about to see them, you get completely nervous & can't seem to concentrate on anything, and you find yourself getting ready hours before you leave.
if you think you are falling out of love with someone, you usually don't think about them as much. you can actaully picture your life without them in it, you don't need to hear their voice everyday & you don't want to be around them constantly.
im sorry if it wasn't very clear, but i tried :]
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Well, im very popular and stuff but like im not very pretty.
Ive never had a boyfriend and im pretty sure none of the boys like me,I just wanna make myself look alot prettier , ive got blonde hair and hazel green eyes and im tall.
Any tips that guys might long for?
And what are some things i can do to change my attitude?
im really loud and im funny .. sometimes.lol (link)
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you shouldn't try to change anything about you. just because you don't think you are pretty, doesn't mean others think that you aren't also. people shouldn't base their opinions on you, by how pretty you are. if you are funny then im sure you have a great personality, and you probably have never had a boyfriend, because you haven't ever really tried to have one.
but if you are serious about thinking yourself as ugly, then try makeup, or fixing your hair everyday.
try new clothes & such.
but basically you shouldn't try to be someone you're not. :]
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Last night I had a horrible dream. In my dream, my boyfriend left me for my best friend. We got into a little argument, he broke up with me and started dating her. I was heartbroken. I couldn't sleep after I woke up. It is really bothering me. I like this guy so much and I don't want him leaving me for someone else especially my best friend. What could this dream mean if it means anything? (link)
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most dreams like this don't mean anything at all. they are just thoughts you may have in the back of your head, or something someone said to you earlier in the day that stuck in your head which led to the dream.
if you want to get more information on the dream, then i'd advise you to go to www.myjellybean.com & look up dreams, and then search under 'breaking up with me for best friend' the results will definately help
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Alright, homecoming was last night and it was alright nothing special, but my main goal that night was to try and get with my ex again, i just cant stop thinking about her. Well it was coming to the end of the dance and she was there with some other kid but they weren't going out. So with support from my friend I got the courage to ask her to dance (which really wasn't that hard to ask her i think it's overated) but anyway she said yes and it was the best feeling in the world to dance with her then at the end of the song she gave me this amazing feeling hug which lasted like 10 seconds then she said she had to go so she left then i left. But what im really wondering is do you think i have a chance of getting back together with her?? please any help is appreciated. (link)
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well if she didn't refuse to dance with you & she hugged you, then there still is a chance.
maybe you should try & give her some attention, hint things around.
or you could just be completely courageous & blunt and ask her back out. i'm sure it'll work out fine :]
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Okay, I like this guy a lot. His locker is about 20 lockers away from mine. Well, I catch him staring at me in I.Tech. a lot, and my friends even see him staring at me, too. Well, I.Tech. is the only class that we have together, and he sits way on the other side of the room. We also have the same lunch period as well, and he only stares at me a couple of times during lunch.
Well, I had my friend ask him if he liked me, and he shook his head, "No". But he still continues to stare at me. I don't know if he was just lying to my friend, or not, but I have to find out if he does like me or not!
Than, there was a or going around the school that I was going out with him, which was not true of course, so I asked him why people are saying that we're going out. He didn't even know that it was happening! Than another guy right next to him told me that the ors were true, and I, as well as him, were just like, "What?".
My friends think that he likes me, but I'm still not sure...
So, please, help me clear some stuff up! I am so clueless! :D
Thank you so much! (link)
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if he told someone that he doesn't like you. it's more than likely true. sorry.
the best way to straighten all this misunderstanding out, is to talk to him, of course.
he's probably staring because he thinks you are attractive, or maybe because he seems to get distracted a lot, who knows about that one.
but my best advice is just to muster up all your confidence & then ask him about everything. i'm sure it'll turn out better in the long run.
as for the rumors, the key word there is, rumors, meaning mostly that they aren't true. so you just have to learn to ignore them, and thats probably what he has done.
so good luck & i hope i helped :]
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I really want to be a singer. It's my dream. But I need work and I know that, it's just I dont know where to turn for help! I feel completely lost! I'm torn between going to college and not going to college...I'm torn between doing American Idol next season or not..should I talk to my school couselor? I dont know what to do!! (link)
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i too would love to be a singer, i just don't know where to start.
i think possibly you should attend college & major in something, so you'd have a backup in case the singing career was a downfall.
it's a good idea to attend american idol, thats probably the one place you would get noticed.
& it's also a good idea to talk to your school counselor because they would know exactly which direction to point you to =)
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ok now one time i tried 2 jack off but after i was done my penis was all red and and it was itchin really bad the next time i tried with lotion.when i was done it still was red and itchy.people say it feels good when they do it.i try 2 do it and it never feels good and it still red and itchy i dont get what im duin wrong.no mater how long i do it,it never feels good please help me (link)
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i would definately see a doctor. you could have rubbed it raw or something.
give it a while before you masterbate again & if the itching & stuff continues, definately viist a doctor.
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what are some stores that you can buy like plain black sweat pants at
or like any color.
im 14/f and i want to wear them over like sports pants after a soccer game just plain ones with nothing on it. (link)
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you can actually find sweatpants basically anywhere. like walmart, kmart, the dollar store, or even if your town has a local shop like mine has a place called 'fielders choice' where they seel stuff for people who play sports, then you could buy pants there :]
i hope i helped
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ok so...my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and we have sex plain and simple. but lately it seems like every time we do he rips me maybe??? if that's what it is...is it normal for that to happen repeatedly if we're having sex twice a week? and if that's not what it is basically i bleed a VERY little tiny bit so what could that be?
any advice is helpful. thank you so much!
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if it bleeds everytime you guys have sex, then yes. he's more than likely ripped you. but you need to let it heal, give it about 2 weeks, and then start having sex again. but even then, be gentle about it. and if it continues to bleed after 2 weeks, i would go see a doctor.
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Okay
I like this boy alot [on and off for 3 years when he moved here]
When he first moved her, he flirted with me alot and invited me to walk with him around the neighborhood and called etc.
Then i found out he liked my friend, and he still flirted with me but constantly said he likes her so much.
Now , hes going out with her and sometimes he still flirts with me and sometimes hes an ass and he's really mean.
But no matter what I still like him, and I know he likes the girl very much but why would he still be flirting with me??
ps... during the summer , we kinda had a fling , and we madeout a few times and hungout alot etc.. (link)
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most guys don't know how to stay with just one girl, they find it a constant game to flip & flop, from one to another.
maybe he still remembers the summer & wants it to be that way, even though he has a girlfriend.
or he could just be a flirt.
either way, don't flirt back. he's dating your best friend, you shouldn't hurt her like that, and you should tell him to do the same.
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Ok there is this guy (18 a junior in high school) and me (19 and a freshmen in college) and he likes me a lot and i kind of like him. you see the problems are:
1. i dated his older brother..
2. and i'm best friends with his cousin
3. and he continues to play games with me or plays hard to get.
i don't know what to do. is that right for me to thinking of dating this guy? i never dated anyone younger. any suggestions? (link)
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sometimes guys think that a challenge is what we want, even though that may not be the case.
some younger guys are immature, but there is only a year different between you two, and i don't see anything wrong with that.
there isn't anything wrong with the fact that you know his family a little well, it all comes down to whether or not you have feelings for him.
if you are attracted to him, and his little games, then go for it.
but if you are the least bit unsure, more than likely, you don't want to be with him.
i hope i helped.
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ive been wearing eyeliner for a reallly long time.
like 3 years.
when i do my eyeline it looks great,i do the smokey eye look then, then when i get to school, or during the day
at the inside of eye is seems to smear down and everything, ive tried soo many different brands too, nothing seems to work.
any advice on how to get it to stop doing that?
i know eyeliners are going ot smear, but mine does it really fast, eveyrone elses doesnt seem to smear... (link)
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When my eyeliner first started to smear, i mentioned it to my mom, and so here's what she told me to do;
buy the same color eye shadow as the eye liner you plan on wearing. then buy an eye brush, which is this very thin pointed make-up brush, but its kinda curved.
you put your eyeliner on first, and then you barely wet the brush, dip it in the ey shadow & apply right across your eye liner, its seemed to have worked for me everytime :]
hope i helped
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ok i am 14 and a female and i am dating a 16 year old he is very nice and we have been going out for 3 weeks i have known him for like 2 years and he is one of my best friends brothers and all my friends are kool with it and everything but ok i have made a decision that if we are together for a while i am probably gonna give it up to him if u no wat i mean so ya but he said that he doesnt want to do it til im ready
(this isnt really a questions its more like i just want an answer on wat you think about this please right bak (link)
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if you are having to ask people whether or not we think you are ready to have sex, then you are more than likely not ready.
when the time comes, you won't have any worries, you won't have any second thoughts in the back of your head.
dont make the same mistake i did, and lose your virginity to someone who really didn't even mean that much to you.
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Okay this is kind of strange for me, I never post questions on my love life....so here it goes.
I have a boyfriend who is 17 and I am 14. (Its only a two in a half year difference, I'm almost 15) so we've been dating for about three weeks. He told me he was going to wait till' he said I love you, until he really meant it, and he did last night. The only thing is, I don't love him back, I know that for sure. But I am not even sure if I like him. He is an amazing guy. But when we kiss, I don't really feel anything. I get butterfly's when he says I love you, but other than that I don't really feel anything.
I've heard people say that you should get like butterfly's or w/e when you kiss, but I don't get them. So I don't know if I even like him.
I miss him when he is gone for long periods of time, and I look forward to seeing him and stuff. But I don't know.
I realize that this is REALLY limiting information, but from what I've told you, can you guys just kinda tell me if you think I like him or not?
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you can't judge if you like someone by asking other people. i'm sorry, but only you know your true feelings.
if you feel any bit of love for him, then you want to be with him.
if you miss him when he's gone, then he's obviously an essential part of your day.
& if you don't get butterflies in your stomach, maybe its because you want them to be there, so when you kiss me, you are thinking about why those butterflies aren't there.
& you don't really feel butterflies, its just an exagerrated thing, mainly meaning you get excited & you like the fact that your two lips are touching. =)
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13/f
i want a belly button ring so bad. not this year though. next year, in 9th grade. the thing is though, my mom won't let me. she said i have to wait til i move out when i'm 18. SIX YEARS?! um no i'm not waiting that long lol. i know a ton of people who have them and they haven't had a problem. i know they can get infected, but that's only if you don't take care of it and stuff. how can i convince her to let me? it's not fair 6 years is too long lol.
thankss (link)
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im 15(16 in 3 days) & i want mine done too. my mom won't let me either. she thinks its provocative. & i cant seem to convince her that it would be different for me.
maybe your mom is different. so maybe you should just show her that you aren't 'provocative' & that you are mature enough to have a belly button ring without being 'trashy' or 'slutty' about it.
im not sure why your mom wont let you, but those are the main reasons my mom wont let me, so i tried to relate ours.
im sorry if i wasn't much of a help, but i tried anyways =/
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